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gk2000

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Is anyone else on here wanting to give up punting. I'm on about 1per week now but have seen everyone I wanted to see. Have punted today and I've thought,  that's it.... However I know by this time next week I'll be chomping at the bit again! I mainly want to stop as I know it will end in tiers as I have the most beautiful family. In a nutshell I love shagging and variety has always been the spice of life for me but I'm at a loss at what to do. It's definitely an addiction!! Just wondered if anyone else was in the same boat....

Offline dino1990

feel like giving up every time I have a shit punt, then will leave it a few weeks and a good punt gets me back into it. I defiantly punt less now then I used , now its a couple times a month. Largely down to less free time and shit selection out there.

99% of my punts are last minute (when I feel the horn), so if I can't find anyone  I will just leave it. Planned in advanced punts have never felt right to me.

Mike Hunt

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yes similar
done all the good ones and funds drying up too
bored with the current field..perhaps a break for me till the new year
but then again i really do want some fit pussy for my xmas present to myself ha ha

Offline Metal Geek

I've given up in the past, but the urge has always been there still, and I've always returned to it in the end. But right now I haven't punted for well over a month, although I have been seeing someone else outside my marriage, and for the first time I no longer have the urge to see anyone else. The amount of time I used to spend perusing AW was ridiculous, I still end up on ukp most days, but I don't spend anywhere near as much time on here as I used to, and maybe I can break this habit too eventually :) maybe not.

docbrown

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Couldn't have put it better GK2000, perhaps there should be punters anonymous !!!
I gave up 5 days ago and now I'm itching for a punt

gk2000

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Right,  that's it then tomorrow is the start of a new leaf for me, wish me luck xx

Magicman11

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Have you not a case of punters remorse.
I get it every time. It kicks in almost the second I have cum.
I am always full of filth- i.e. "How many times can I cum" etc etc
Then the second I have cum I just wanna get out of there.
Always tell myself that is it. Then I will delete my aw profile. However 2 days later im back on reactivated and having a look around.

Offline leedstony

I've packed in......loads of time. Mostly after seeing someone who turned out to be poor, and leaving thinking that I might as well just have had a wank.

Now try to go for quality rather than quantity, and do some research before trying anyone for first time.

Offline Gothic D

I have given up plenty of times,usually after having a couple decent of shags with the wife.It never lasts though and it's soon back to the usual monotonous half hearted efforts or none at all so desperation forces me back to punting.Six months is the longest I have lasted without a punt in the last 12 years.

gk2000

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Pretty much the same sort of noises coming from everyone here. Perhaps all of those who have stopped don't come on here, obviously!! Well I've been on the wagon for 4hrs and already thinking that I never did do that lily and eva duo!!! Hmm
« Last Edit: November 25, 2014, 05:51:33 pm by gk2000 »

Offline WillyW

Magicman11 has summed it up perfectly

Barry Shipton

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This is a bit like an alcoholic going into a pub to ask advice on giving up drinking. Don't suppose there are any 'non-punting' forums - maybe you could ask Admin to do a special version which only shows negative reviews and threads about punters being ripped off, outed, threatened by pimps, falling victim to bait and switch and catching the clap!

Otherwise you'll just read the next Lily and Eva duo review and think - one last little punt won't do any harm .....

Toshiba

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If you want to give up why the fuck are you on here? This place fuels the addiction in my opinion, ive often said no more after this but found looking on here gets the buzz back

I dont know if im mad at not  getting sex at home or just loving the thrill of the internet booking/chase

If i had to pick up girls in the street i wouldnt go near this hobby, however as i liken this to internet dating in a strange way i see it as an addictive attraction that i find hard to give up

I punt with a selective mind now, my next punt is Lily Delphine

Offline OscarC

I punt with a selective mind now, my next punt is Lily Delphine

Lucky you, she is bloody hard to get hold of. I will keep persevering though!

Offline Third Man


done all the good ones and funds drying up too
bored with the current field..
Seen a good few of the current girls, but if theyre good, well I return. For example Diamonds just now there are some class girls. Morgan especially, Antonia, Frankie, Clair, Grace,Jessica,Rosa all good. And hope to see Lola,Heidi, Lace at some point. Funds are a problem but dont think Ill be stopping any time soon.

Offline FLYING BLUE

I have given serious consideration to quitting recently. Punting costs a small fortune.... I spent £200 just last week and although I am fortunate enough to afford that, it's got to the point that it's really only duo's that 'do it' for me now and that's SO bloody expensive....I absolutely love a double BJ but at the same time, £100 for 30 mins is serious cash......
We shall see :unknown:

Offline quickbeam

Guess I should have posted this in here  :P
The type of day I've had is making me think of giving up again  :sarcastic:

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Bah, one of them days.
Emailed Teen_jade, but she was booked fully today.
Emailed Blondebabehoney, no reply.

Decided to get a massage instead, opted out of going back to be health today.
Last time I went, was an older lass (possibly the boss), £20 HE but with a "you no touch me okay".
Chose to go to Lavenders instead, seriously thought I had entered one of those thai places you see on tv with all the girls hanging around in a room.
There was about 4 or 5 girls in the room next to the front desk, half eaten food and drink on a table.
Next on the rota was Diana. As said earlier in the thread, she's not exactly a stunner, but not ugly either. She's average I would say.
Cracking back massage, plenty of stroking all over. Turned over, and plenty of stroking on the legs, with a few touching of the groin.

Sadly as my day has gone so far today, no offer of HE or anything else  :dash:
Guess its either the other half on her cycle or manual release today then.

Punted for the 1st time in a year, when I went to see teen_jade a few weeks ago.
There's been a few girls that have caught my eye over the year, mostly recommended by you guys on ukp, but their working hours and my time off have never matched.
So I've just been making do with a HE massage instead.


Quesadilla

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Still so many incredible options on my hot list and things to tick off the old bucket list that I can't see myself quitting any time soon. 

It is definitely an addiction but as with any addiction it's not a problem until it starts to negatively impact your life in some way. 

People kick addictions all the time - but not by "giving up".  "Give up" means doing without something you actually really want / enjoy, and as long as you have that kind of feeling about it you will feel deprived. That's the reason diets don't work, people can't "give up" foods they have come to love without that feeling of deprivation and suffering, and eventually they relapse. It's inevitable.

The only way to stop an addiction is to totally change the way you see it.  I stopped smoking thanks to Alan Carr's "Easy Way To Quit Smoking" book which totally re-programs the way you view smoking. Sadly I don't think he ever did an "Easy Way To Quit Punting" book!

eeeasy

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Is anyone else on here wanting to give up punting. I'm on about 1per week now but have seen everyone I wanted to see. Have punted today and I've thought,  that's it.... However I know by this time next week I'll be chomping at the bit again! I mainly want to stop as I know it will end in tiers as I have the most beautiful family. In a nutshell I love shagging and variety has always been the spice of life for me but I'm at a loss at what to do. It's definitely an addiction!! Just wondered if anyone else was in the same boat....
given up on kids after 4 given up on wives after 4 given up on smoking 1984 dont drink very much    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:   need my punting    :) :) :)

Offline Geordie

Currently single but about to change shortly. After every punt I say it will be my last but come on here or look on the agency websites and get drawn in again. This is an expensive hobby and it's not worth the risk if you're with somebody. I don't think it will be that hard to kick as I only started earlier this year.

Trelf

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I was a regular punter for years around the time of the NG successes but quit when I met my last girlfriend though I couldnt stop window shopping throughout that time!
Now Im single again,Im back!
I think Id pack in again if I met someone again but cant guarantee it!!

Offline daftlad123

ive been doing this for 12 years now on average twice a week and its usually the following day when i think i couldve used that ££££ etc for something else.i mustve spent 1000s in the past.its definately an addiction and a hard one to crack excuse the pun!i havent punted for 2 weeks now and that the longest without a punt in about 5 years.i do want to stop for a while,if not for good but as mentioned all it takes is to get the horn and contact someone and boom!before you know it your cocks in her mouth that one more time!

gk2000

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Well almost 48hrs in and still remaining strong(ish) I have a little devil on my shoulder saying sophia jones at £50 with anal offered,, arghh!!! However I know deep down that I'd get there and anal will somehow be off the menu and it's just being used to entice! Must stay strong :0/

Offline Jamessn

Not had a punt in over a year.

Much more selective now because I was so disappointed time after time last year. Still looking and will only do half hours as a first meeting, it's not worth wasting more cash by taking a chance.

So that reduces the options, so many say hour minimum.

I have had two bookings this year but they never went through due to my circumstances. Had some time earmarked for a punt this week, no one I fancied available, next week some time and the week after so will try again.

I used to book hours during NG days, and very few disappointments, since then it's gone down hill. Seems like they all want to take advantage of you and do little for so much.

One escort even said to me "I regard this as rape and you are paying me money to keep my mouth shut". I think about this sometimes.

She is no longer around.

squeezebox

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As others have said, taking a break can be the answer.

I had a break for 4 years+ from punting. When I returned, there were more choices in quantity (not necessarily quality), through access on AW and more recently this forum, I'm back in the mix for now.

The break gave me a chance to refill the bank balance, do other things/hobbies, and get fit and healthy.

Recent good news about getting full access to my pension pot in the next 18 months or so, increases my options immensely, especially when I move to London.  :hi:   

Of course georgey boy wants us to spend wisely...good luck that!
« Last Edit: November 27, 2014, 09:34:54 am by squeezebox »

gk2000

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Right, I've sussed it. I rarely premeditate and generally only punt when I should be at work. Therefore from now on I will leave home with 10quid for my dinner and a credit card only for other expenses, fuel etc. That way it will be impossible even when I get the urge. P.s. I never ever withdraw cash frim cash machine with credit card and never will! I am a genius :0D. To celebrate, I think one final final final premeditated christmas duo could be in order!!!

Toshiba

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Right, I've sussed it. I rarely premeditate and generally only punt when I should be at work. Therefore from now on I will leave home with 10quid for my dinner and a credit card only for other expenses, fuel etc. That way it will be impossible even when I get the urge. P.s. I never ever withdraw cash frim cash machine with credit card and never will! I am a genius :0D. To celebrate, I think one final final final premeditated christmas duo could be in order!!!

Simply stop coming on here too, that will help

Offline Greenman

 He will be so frustrated
No escort chat
No build up and planning to punt
No punt itself
No reflection and reports amd memories


Richest man in the grave yard

We will take the memories as we get older and struggle to rise To  :rolleyes:the occasion

themademan2

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Well im due to cut back shortly on the amount of punting I do. My reason is two fold:
1: the standards I expect are getting higher. When u get that one escort that ticks all the boxes, then visit one that can't match that, it automatically brings you on a downer. Feels like money wasted.
2: Change in circumstances in that I'm due to adopt/sponsor a child abroad and feel the money will be better used than wasted on this hobby.

I've got a regular escort who I use and she is absolutely spot on and really does it for me. I have reviewed her a while back but we get on so well now too. I won't state who it is as I don't want to white knight her at all. But she will be the only one I use when I cut back as I'm guaranteed a good punt with her.

Offline MasterChief

I have cut down on the number/frequency of girls I see as I was spending well over a grand a month and had been for the last couple of years. Down to a few hundred a month now and cutting back even further, will to be down to 3 or 4 half hours a month soon.

Offline Convince Me

Close down your account here, on AW & any other sites. Also set up 'parental controls' on your phone, tablet or other devices.

Set up a low daily withdrawal limit on your bank accounts, less than what you need for a punt.

I wish I could practice what I preach!

Barry Shipton

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I have cut down on the number/frequency of girls I see as I was spending well over a grand a month and had been for the last couple of years. Down to a few hundred a month now and cutting back even further, will to be down to 3 or 4 half hours a month soon.
A Grand - Jeez! Just read the Angel thread and now I know why you were so keen on £50 half hours - that's 20 girls a month, a different one for every working day of the week. Bet even Hugh Hefner in the Playboy Mansion couldn't match that!

What did you do at the weekend? See just the Mrs?

Offline MasterChief

A Grand - Jeez! Just read the Angel thread and now I know why you were so keen on £50 half hours - that's 20 girls a month, a different one for every working day of the week. Bet even Hugh Hefner in the Playboy Mansion couldn't match that!

What did you do at the weekend? See just the Mrs?

Yeah four or five a week would be about right, I'm keen on £50 punts as I think that's expensive for a shag, I will pay £60 but I think its way too much, think I have paid £70 on a couple of occasions, but that was a case of not enough blood for the two heads and the little one winning! I occasionally pay more and go for the hour, but that has to be someone really special and a good price, Lily for example, I'm much more likely to go for a down and dirty 15 min :)

Offline foreverchanges

Slowly but surely winding down these days. Someone once said that the male libido was like having a lunatic shackled to you..well if thats the case then I'm almost free of him.
With a lot of punters on this forum the glory days were with NG but with me it was the Edinburgh saunas..and in particular the incomparable London Street Sauna from the late 90s to about 2008...imagine Keeva Lily Eva Kara Savannah Morgan Grace and Frankie May all sitting in the lounge at the same time and youre not even half way there..I think Flying Blue might possibly concur.
The very fact that I used to travel up there on a fortnightly basis on the train and usually choose a couple of girls illustrates how magnificent it was but also shows the aforementioned shackled lunatic.
I quit at the end of last year due to the Romanian domination of the saunas these days together with the saunas losing their licences after 30 years but really it was that the thrill had gone.

I only discovered this forum at the beginning of the year and have had some great punts but I've long since lost the "kid in a sweet shop" syndrome as I have literally done everything I've set out to do.
I would say there are only three girls on the NE scene I would have  any inclination to book and one of them is VERY difficult to book,one doesnt work as many shifts as she used to while the third's diary hasnt matched mine for months.

Recent personal developments have dictated that I simply wont have the opportunity to punt for the remainder of the year and possibly beyond that..buts hey ho..thats life!

On a lighter note does anyone know whats happened to Sentinel..hes gone mightily quiet recently.
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Offline MasterChief

Slowly but surely winding down these days. Someone once said that the male libido was like having a lunatic shackled to you..well if thats the case then I'm almost free of him.
With a lot of punters on this forum the glory days were with NG but with me it was the Edinburgh saunas..and in particular the incomparable London Street Sauna from the late 90s to about 2008...imagine Keeva Lily Eva Kara Savannah Morgan Grace and Frankie May all sitting in the lounge at the same time and youre not even half way there..I think Flying Blue might possibly concur.
The very fact that I used to travel up there on a fortnightly basis on the train and usually choose a couple of girls illustrates how magnificent it was but also shows the aforementioned shackled lunatic.
I quit at the end of last year due to the Romanian domination of the saunas these days together with the saunas losing their licences after 30 years but really it was that the thrill had gone.

I only discovered this forum at the beginning of the year and have had some great punts but I've long since lost the "kid in a sweet shop" syndrome as I have literally done everything I've set out to do.
I would say there are only three girls on the NE scene I would have  any inclination to book and one of them is VERY difficult to book,one doesnt work as many shifts as she used to while the third's diary hasnt matched mine for months.

Recent personal developments have dictated that I simply wont have the opportunity to punt for the remainder of the year and possibly beyond that..buts hey ho..thats life!

On a lighter note does anyone know whats happened to Sentinel..hes gone mightily quiet recently.
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Plus one on the Edinburgh saunas, work kept me in Edinburgh for the best part of a year some time ago, very fond memories :)

gk2000

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Well I've well and truly fucked this and had four punts since originally posting this. Seen 3 of my favourites, but that is it. Enough is enough. Wish me luck, I'm calling it punt-uary

Offline foreverchanges

Well I've well and truly fucked this and had four punts since originally posting this. Seen 3 of my favourites, but that is it. Enough is enough. Wish me luck, I'm calling it punt-uary

Haven't had a punt since November 15 with Lily Delphine..not that I'm struggling you understand. :wackogirl: :wackogirl:

Offline Partyguy

I've been married my entire punting life so get as much sex at home as I want/can cope with, and yet I still find myself punting for the extras that the wife doesn't like/won't do it means I only punt a few times a year and certainly not on a weekly basis. Face it you're hooked and no matter how many times you say this will be the last punt you know you're fooling yourself.

Toshiba

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I've been married my entire punting life so get as much sex at home as I want/can cope with, and yet I still find myself punting for the extras that the wife doesn't like/won't do it means I only punt a few times a year and certainly not on a weekly basis. Face it you're hooked and no matter how many times you say this will be the last punt you know you're fooling yourself.


Pretty much sums me up, are you ever worried about catching somethng as its a constant thorn to me?

Offline Partyguy


Pretty much sums me up, are you ever worried about catching somethng as its a constant thorn to me?

Been there done that and almost lost everything :scare:

I was lucky and with the help of the clinic managed to convince her it either came from a recent piercing I'd had, or from her not cleaning sex toys correctly.

These days I refrain from sex with the wife for a week or so after a punt (working lates her asleep when I get in, watching tv until I know she's asleep upstairs certainly help here) during that I'm I'm watching like a hawk for any itches or discharges etc.

Toshiba

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Been there done that and almost lost everything :scare:

I was lucky and with the help of the clinic managed to convince her it either came from a recent piercing I'd had, or from her not cleaning sex toys correctly.

These days I refrain from sex with the wife for a week or so after a punt (working lates her asleep when I get in, watching tv until I know she's asleep upstairs certainly help here) during that I'm I'm watching like a hawk for any itches or discharges etc.

Thats all well and good but some can stay undetected and show no signs at all, this is the biggest fear i have, i suffer from thrush and so does my OH and fretting and worrying that its not thrush is worrying at times, people will say if im that worried i shouldnt punt and maybe they are right but which married man should punt if thats the case??

Covering up is the only way to "almost" have no stress doing this

walking dead

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I had some discharge once, only a little mind.
went to the clinic for tests and they even booked me another appointment the same day for  a few days later when the tests would be back , which  they don't normally as they were pretty certain I had something.

Turns out I didn't.  Just irritation they said, probably made worse by me squeezing and looking for discharge! It's not good when you think you have something.

Touch wood I never have

Offline Partyguy

Thats all well and good but some can stay undetected and show no signs at all, this is the biggest fear i have, i suffer from thrush and so does my OH and fretting and worrying that its not thrush is worrying at times, people will say if im that worried i shouldnt punt and maybe they are right but which married man should punt if thats the case??

Covering up is the only way to "almost" have no stress doing this

I guess it comes down to what is the stronger desire for you personally, the desire to have the wife in your life or the desire to shag the brains out of good looking sexy ladies that will fulfill your every sexual wish.

If I fuck it up and get caught then I've only got myself to blame and I'll have to man up and accept the consequences.

walking dead

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I think that's  a fair comment.
It's risk versus reward.
I am for minimising the risk.  Only ow, maybe I should go as far as using one hand to touch yourself, and only the other to touch the wg.

Offline Partyguy

maybe I should go as far as using one hand to touch yourself,

???????? Isn't that what I'm paying the lady for  :D

Offline daftlad123

i was punting 3 times a week at one point,down to 3 in the last 2 months so im hoping to make it just occasional to the point where i give up.its a very expensive hobby and i think it can fuck with your head if your not careful as well!

eeeasy

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given up on kids after 4 given up on wives after 4 given up on smoking 1984 dont drink very much    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:   need my punting    :) :) :)
Still need the punting - dont need the crap  :( :( :(

Offline MDB72

I don't intend to give up but I do think that when you find a quality WG then you become reluctant to waste your money elsewhere. That's the value of the forum - it gives you an idea of what is available.
Banned reason: Sharing account with SP.
Banned by: daviemac

eeeasy

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Few years ago was told I have 6 months left - about 9 months if I had treatment which wouldent be nice -  dident bother with treatment - sorted everything out - my job went - I recovered some how or doctors were wrong - got another job I have depression but punting keeps me happy - will carry on punting as long as I can or as long can afford it    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Offline Third Man

Few years ago was told I have 6 months left - about 9 months if I had treatment which wouldent be nice -  dident bother with treatment - sorted everything out - my job went - I recovered some how or doctors were wrong - got another job I have depression but punting keeps me happy - will carry on punting as long as I can or as long can afford it    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Happy to hear about your recovery. Sincerely hope you have a good punting 2015