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Offline gk2000

Is anyone else on here wanting to give up punting. I'm on about 1per week now but have seen everyone I wanted to see. Have punted today and I've thought,  that's it.... However I know by this time next week I'll be chomping at the bit again! I mainly want to stop as I know it will end in tiers as I have the most beautiful family. In a nutshell I love shagging and variety has always been the spice of life for me but I'm at a loss at what to do. It's definitely an addiction!! Just wondered if anyone else was in the same boat....
Banning reason: Troll

Offline dino1990

feel like giving up every time I have a shit punt, then will leave it a few weeks and a good punt gets me back into it. I defiantly punt less now then I used , now its a couple times a month. Largely down to less free time and shit selection out there.

99% of my punts are last minute (when I feel the horn), so if I can't find anyone  I will just leave it. Planned in advanced punts have never felt right to me.

Offline Mike Hunt

yes similar
done all the good ones and funds drying up too
bored with the current field..perhaps a break for me till the new year
but then again i really do want some fit pussy for my xmas present to myself ha ha
Banning reason: Malicious conduct against service provider

Offline Metal Geek

I've given up in the past, but the urge has always been there still, and I've always returned to it in the end. But right now I haven't punted for well over a month, although I have been seeing someone else outside my marriage, and for the first time I no longer have the urge to see anyone else. The amount of time I used to spend perusing AW was ridiculous, I still end up on ukp most days, but I don't spend anywhere near as much time on here as I used to, and maybe I can break this habit too eventually :) maybe not.

Online docbrown

Couldn't have put it better GK2000, perhaps there should be punters anonymous !!!
I gave up 5 days ago and now I'm itching for a punt

Offline gk2000

Right,  that's it then tomorrow is the start of a new leaf for me, wish me luck xx
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Offline Magicman11

Have you not a case of punters remorse.
I get it every time. It kicks in almost the second I have cum.
I am always full of filth- i.e. "How many times can I cum" etc etc
Then the second I have cum I just wanna get out of there.
Always tell myself that is it. Then I will delete my aw profile. However 2 days later im back on reactivated and having a look around.
Banning reason: Fluffy + Constant trolling of AnthG

I've packed in......loads of time. Mostly after seeing someone who turned out to be poor, and leaving thinking that I might as well just have had a wank.

Now try to go for quality rather than quantity, and do some research before trying anyone for first time.

Offline Gothic D

I have given up plenty of times,usually after having a couple decent of shags with the wife.It never lasts though and it's soon back to the usual monotonous half hearted efforts or none at all so desperation forces me back to punting.Six months is the longest I have lasted without a punt in the last 12 years.

Offline gk2000

Pretty much the same sort of noises coming from everyone here. Perhaps all of those who have stopped don't come on here, obviously!! Well I've been on the wagon for 4hrs and already thinking that I never did do that lily and eva duo!!! Hmm
« Last Edit: November 25, 2014, 05:51:33 PM by gk2000 »
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Offline WillyW

Magicman11 has summed it up perfectly

Offline Barry Shipton

This is a bit like an alcoholic going into a pub to ask advice on giving up drinking. Don't suppose there are any 'non-punting' forums - maybe you could ask Admin to do a special version which only shows negative reviews and threads about punters being ripped off, outed, threatened by pimps, falling victim to bait and switch and catching the clap!

Otherwise you'll just read the next Lily and Eva duo review and think - one last little punt won't do any harm .....

Offline Toshiba

If you want to give up why the fuck are you on here? This place fuels the addiction in my opinion, ive often said no more after this but found looking on here gets the buzz back

I dont know if im mad at not  getting sex at home or just loving the thrill of the internet booking/chase

If i had to pick up girls in the street i wouldnt go near this hobby, however as i liken this to internet dating in a strange way i see it as an addictive attraction that i find hard to give up

I punt with a selective mind now, my next punt is Lily Delphine

Offline OscarC

I punt with a selective mind now, my next punt is Lily Delphine

Lucky you, she is bloody hard to get hold of. I will keep persevering though!

Offline Third Man


done all the good ones and funds drying up too
bored with the current field..
Seen a good few of the current girls, but if theyre good, well I return. For example Diamonds just now there are some class girls. Morgan especially, Antonia, Frankie, Clair, Grace,Jessica,Rosa all good. And hope to see Lola,Heidi, Lace at some point. Funds are a problem but dont think Ill be stopping any time soon.

I have given serious consideration to quitting recently. Punting costs a small fortune.... I spent £200 just last week and although I am fortunate enough to afford that, it's got to the point that it's really only duo's that 'do it' for me now and that's SO bloody expensive....I absolutely love a double BJ but at the same time, £100 for 30 mins is serious cash......
We shall see :unknown:

Offline quickbeam

Guess I should have posted this in here  :P
The type of day I've had is making me think of giving up again  :sarcastic:

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Bah, one of them days.
Emailed Teen_jade, but she was booked fully today.
Emailed Blondebabehoney, no reply.

Decided to get a massage instead, opted out of going back to be health today.
Last time I went, was an older lass (possibly the boss), £20 HE but with a "you no touch me okay".
Chose to go to Lavenders instead, seriously thought I had entered one of those thai places you see on tv with all the girls hanging around in a room.
There was about 4 or 5 girls in the room next to the front desk, half eaten food and drink on a table.
Next on the rota was Diana. As said earlier in the thread, she's not exactly a stunner, but not ugly either. She's average I would say.
Cracking back massage, plenty of stroking all over. Turned over, and plenty of stroking on the legs, with a few touching of the groin.

Sadly as my day has gone so far today, no offer of HE or anything else  :dash:
Guess its either the other half on her cycle or manual release today then.

Punted for the 1st time in a year, when I went to see teen_jade a few weeks ago.
There's been a few girls that have caught my eye over the year, mostly recommended by you guys on ukp, but their working hours and my time off have never matched.
So I've just been making do with a HE massage instead.


Offline Quesadilla

Still so many incredible options on my hot list and things to tick off the old bucket list that I can't see myself quitting any time soon. 

It is definitely an addiction but as with any addiction it's not a problem until it starts to negatively impact your life in some way. 

People kick addictions all the time - but not by "giving up".  "Give up" means doing without something you actually really want / enjoy, and as long as you have that kind of feeling about it you will feel deprived. That's the reason diets don't work, people can't "give up" foods they have come to love without that feeling of deprivation and suffering, and eventually they relapse. It's inevitable.

The only way to stop an addiction is to totally change the way you see it.  I stopped smoking thanks to Alan Carr's "Easy Way To Quit Smoking" book which totally re-programs the way you view smoking. Sadly I don't think he ever did an "Easy Way To Quit Punting" book!
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

Offline eeeasy

Is anyone else on here wanting to give up punting. I'm on about 1per week now but have seen everyone I wanted to see. Have punted today and I've thought,  that's it.... However I know by this time next week I'll be chomping at the bit again! I mainly want to stop as I know it will end in tiers as I have the most beautiful family. In a nutshell I love shagging and variety has always been the spice of life for me but I'm at a loss at what to do. It's definitely an addiction!! Just wondered if anyone else was in the same boat....
given up on kids after 4 given up on wives after 4 given up on smoking 1984 dont drink very much    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:   need my punting    :) :) :)
Banning reason: Abusive + Threats

Offline Geordie

Currently single but about to change shortly. After every punt I say it will be my last but come on here or look on the agency websites and get drawn in again. This is an expensive hobby and it's not worth the risk if you're with somebody. I don't think it will be that hard to kick as I only started earlier this year.

Offline Trelf

I was a regular punter for years around the time of the NG successes but quit when I met my last girlfriend though I couldnt stop window shopping throughout that time!
Now Im single again,Im back!
I think Id pack in again if I met someone again but cant guarantee it!!
Banning reason: Touting agency, Trolling others who post negatives about that agency and slagging off UKPunting using different identity

ive been doing this for 12 years now on average twice a week and its usually the following day when i think i couldve used that ££££ etc for something else.i mustve spent 1000s in the past.its definately an addiction and a hard one to crack excuse the pun!i havent punted for 2 weeks now and that the longest without a punt in about 5 years.i do want to stop for a while,if not for good but as mentioned all it takes is to get the horn and contact someone and boom!before you know it your cocks in her mouth that one more time!

Offline gk2000

Well almost 48hrs in and still remaining strong(ish) I have a little devil on my shoulder saying sophia jones at £50 with anal offered,, arghh!!! However I know deep down that I'd get there and anal will somehow be off the menu and it's just being used to entice! Must stay strong :0/
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Offline Jamessn

Not had a punt in over a year.

Much more selective now because I was so disappointed time after time last year. Still looking and will only do half hours as a first meeting, it's not worth wasting more cash by taking a chance.

So that reduces the options, so many say hour minimum.

I have had two bookings this year but they never went through due to my circumstances. Had some time earmarked for a punt this week, no one I fancied available, next week some time and the week after so will try again.

I used to book hours during NG days, and very few disappointments, since then it's gone down hill. Seems like they all want to take advantage of you and do little for so much.

One escort even said to me "I regard this as rape and you are paying me money to keep my mouth shut". I think about this sometimes.

She is no longer around.

As others have said, taking a break can be the answer.

I had a break for 4 years+ from punting. When I returned, there were more choices in quantity (not necessarily quality), through access on AW and more recently this forum, I'm back in the mix for now.

The break gave me a chance to refill the bank balance, do other things/hobbies, and get fit and healthy.

Recent good news about getting full access to my pension pot in the next 18 months or so, increases my options immensely, especially when I move to London.  :hi:   

Of course georgey boy wants us to spend wisely...good luck that!
« Last Edit: November 27, 2014, 09:34:54 AM by squeezebox »




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