I beg to differ as you have conveniently (or naively) overlooked the primary reason that 'gentlemen of colour' are often 'banned'. Their 'colour' is the least concern to many ladies.
Pick up an A-Level anthropology text and do your own research into the cultural reasons why so many chaps from certain parts of the world often treat their dog better than they treat their wife / wives.
Yes, I'm well aware that the above is a gross generalisation, but why would a lady want to waste her precious time checking the nationality of a chap (Kuwaiti or Yemeni, Ghanaian or Kenyan, etc) when it's far simpler to impose a blanket ban.
I know I would.
Love this comment ...
You Sir , have hit the nail on the head !!!
For me , and many prossies who have race restrictions , it is not about skin coulor , its about "the cultural reasons why so many chaps from certain parts of the world often treat their dog better than they treat their wife / wives.". These same men who treat their own women like shit , have an even lower view of "white slags ".
Im in this game for the sex , money and fun. When I first started out I had some extremely bad experiences with men from a certain culture/religion. I wont go into the gory details , but 9/10 of the meets with these men "from a certain culture" , turned out to be horrible meets where you cant relax and try give the punter a great sesh as you are tense and on edge. These men seem to get a kick of out pushing your boundarys by haranguing you for services you dont offer ( IE- Bareback) , they will kick up a fuss k get aggressive and argumentative and never want to take "no " for an answer ...Bear in mind this is 5mins into a session , not a good start and all it does it make the prossie on edge. If these guys showed a little respect and decency then there would not be a problem.
They also have a habit of turning up in groups of 3/4 when you are expecting one man , ( which is pretty scary shit and downright unacceptable ) , and they always want to haggle and barter , and at least 5 of them managed to steal the fee back before leaving. I blanket banned asains for a long time after too many bad meets. Never had a bad meet with black , indian or chinese/oriental men. One or 2 bad white men , which works out at such a small percentage its hardly a problem. In my experience 85% of these "culturally different" ,men are problematic , and I simply do not want to deal with their BS .
Many do have blanket ban as they simply do not want to deal with these bad clients ...The problem is if you say " No Asians" on your ad , then you miss out on decent Asian men who have been raised to respect women . True it is impracticable to ask the cultural views of every guy who calls up. ...And that is why so many impose a blanket ban instead. People are quick to shout "racist" when the issue is much more complex.
Ive been called racist many times , and Im past caring to be honest. Id rather be called a racist by the clueless who dont "get it" , than see all comers under duress and make myself utterly miserable and end up hating the job and giving a shite service ......Nope.....The decent clients who are of the same race/skin colour as the bad ones , understand my standpoint.
I notice a lot of Indians send AW messages that say " im Asian , but I respect women , im not one of " those" idiots". These guys always get the booking and are always great clients.....Now if there was no problem with a certain group of Asians treatment of women , then these guys woudnt need to be stating "im not like that" in their messages would they.