Girlfriend wants to work in a shop giving massage alongside extras...

[JKOL94]

So my girlfriend who's recently become a qualified masseuse, currently has a dream of working as a naughty masseuse giving extras to clients who want them. We've been looking around for ideas, but unfortunately nearly all of my experience with these places comes as a client seeking a service, not as a potential naughty masseuse trying to get employed in a shop with generally safe management.

We were hoping some of you guys would be able to point us in the right direction. Ideally, I think not working in a Chinese or Thai shop would be best though as she only speaks English and Spanish and might stick out like a sore thumb!

[puntingking]

maybe you will find answers by asking this question to the escort forum

edit - which i don't think i can name as it wouldn't let me 

[Iloveoral]

Asking for advice is ok

If she does work, please don’t post links etc as it would be touting.

[Fuzzyduck]

Look forward to your review.

[Iloveoral]

maybe you will find answers by asking this question to the escort forum

edit - which i don't think i can name as it wouldn't let me 

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I recon another week and I’ll have fed you all the rules one bite at a time 

[Stevelondon]

Does it have to be a shop she works in ?

I’m sure with a bit of research, she could find a flat maybe and start up her own massage business.
I’m sure there’s more money to be made being your own boss.
Or how about a mobile massage service.

[puntingking]

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I recon another week and I’ll have fed you all the rules one bite at a time 

I did read the rules before hand but it would not even let me say the name of a particular forum -

I try again - saafe forum

[puntingking]

I did read the rules before hand but it would not even let me say the name of a particular forum -

I try again - Don’t put these links up  forum

It did not work. So I read the rules but it for some strange reason would not let be post the name of an other forum

Basically I was naming the safe forum one (spelt wrong deliberately as it would've been blocked)

[Fuzzyduck]

This time it worked - earlier it was coming up something along the lines as "forums links are prohibited" even though I did not type the link.

Anyway, it worked now 

[puntingking]

This is what is being showed after I name another forum 

I did read the rules before hand but it would not even let me say the name of a particular forum -

I try again - Don’t put these links up  forum

[Iloveoral]

It did not work. So I read the rules but it for some strange reason would not let be post the name of an other forum

Basically I was naming the safe forum one (spelt wrong deliberately as it would've been blocked)

Because it’s not allowed, it’s coded into the site script 

It’s even replaced what you typed with “don’t post these links”, surely that was telling you something?

[puntingking]

Because it’s not allowed, it’s coded into the site script 

It’s even replaced what you typed with “don’t post these links”, surely that was telling you something?

it was a telling me something, which is why I post this -

edit - which i don't think i can name as it wouldn't let me 

and I didn't post a link, I just said the name of the forum spelt as it is intended.
I made sure I read the rules just five minutes before I posted it.

[Fuzzyduck]

it was a telling me something, which is why I post this -
and I didn't post a link, I just said the name of the forum spelt as it is intended.
I made sure I read the rules just five minutes before I posted it.

You're a few sandwiches short, aren't you?

[Iloveoral]

it was a telling me something, which is why I post this -
and I didn't post a link, I just said the name of the forum spelt as it is intended.
I made sure I read the rules just five minutes before I posted it.

Don’t break any more rules tonight, step away from the keyboard, don’t name any other forums, post any photos, social media, don’t mention pm”s, be nice to other members, ring ya mum (tell her ILO says is she out tomorrow night), don’t talk about drugs (they are bad for you), don’t review gay sex, no white knighting, be discreet about SP’s info, just have 1 account here, I’m not deleting reviews,  don’t arrange a gangbang meet….. please  just for tonight 

[RandomGuy99]

Most massage places run by British women tend to be legit and if she started doing HE there she might get the sack as it's probably easy to figure out why she'd be getting more bookings than other people. I think the British run massage places are more frequented by women thsn men.

Chinese and Thai run places attract the men for obvious reasons.

She would be better off setting up her own place or offering massages from home.

The alternative would be to get an AirBnB place for a day or two with an ad on Vivastreet and see what business she gets. The business should cover the cost of renting the place and she might get some regulars if works an area over weeks and months.

[KatieEdinburgh]

Don’t break any more rules tonight, step away from the keyboard, don’t name any other forums, post any photos, social media, don’t mention pm”s, be nice to other members, ring ya mum (tell her ILO says is she out tomorrow night), don’t talk about drugs (they are bad for you), don’t review gay sex, no white knighting, be discreet about SP’s info, just have 1 account here, I’m not deleting reviews,  don’t arrange a gangbang meet….. please  just for tonight 

If the rules are you can discuss other forums but not link to them, the rules are not clear on about just naming a forum (but not linking to it). Should probably change the wording if that’s the case

from reading the rules a fair amount of people would think it’s fine as long as no links are posted. 
And might keep making that mistake again

[puntingking]

Back to the Ops original question - I can't think of a massage shop that would be best suited for your GF but if you go to adult work then click "other servicies" you may find places to rent a room for your gf to go at it independently.

Also, The massage people or masha tantric would be a good shout
External Link/Members Only
External Link/Members Only

She can always advertise her services herself via vivastreet massage section or gumtree.

All the best   

[daviemac]

If the rules are you can discuss other forums but not link to them, the rules are not clear on about just naming a forum (but not linking to it). Should probably change the wording if that’s the case

from reading the rules a fair amount of people would think it’s fine as long as no links are posted. 
And might keep making that mistake again

It depends on what you are trying to name, if the system auto changes the name of a site or anything else anyone with a modicum of common sense would realise it has changed for a reason and that maybe it isn't allowed and not try to bypass the system.

Some words auto change, some put the post in premod for the mods to check but the fact remains non of the systems on here should be bypassed.

It isn't really difficult if you post xxxx and it auto changes to yyyy then don't try to post x x x x to get round it. If it happens there's always the report to moderator button to ask why and you will get an answer.

I should add that there's some sites we don't want to give publicity to in any way shape or form.

[Doc Holliday]

So my girlfriend who's recently become a qualified masseuse, currently has a dream of working as a naughty masseuse giving extras to clients who want them. We've been looking around for ideas, but unfortunately nearly all of my experience with these places comes as a client seeking a service, not as a potential naughty masseuse trying to get employed in a shop with generally safe management.

We were hoping some of you guys would be able to point us in the right direction. Ideally, I think not working in a Chinese or Thai shop would be best though as she only speaks English and Spanish and might stick out like a sore thumb!

Is she is happy that you use such services? Just curious 

[Doc Holliday]

It depends on what you are trying to name, if the system auto changes the name of a site or anything else anyone with a modicum of common sense would realise it has changed for a reason and that maybe it isn't allowed and not try to bypass the system.

Some words auto change, some put the post in premod for the mods to check but the fact remains non of the systems on here should be bypassed.

It isn't really difficult if you post xxxx and it auto changes to yyyy then don't try to post x x x x to get round it. If it happens there's always the report to moderator button to ask why and you will get an answer.

I should add that there's some site we don't want to give publicity to in any way shape or form.

As a further tip here if anyone is thinking of posting the name of another forum then preview your post before submitting it to see if it has been auto-censored. Then do not try to bypass it.

[scutty brown]

Don’t break any more rules tonight, step away from the keyboard, don’t name any other forums, post any photos, social media, don’t mention pm”s, be nice to other members, ring ya mum (tell her ILO says is she out tomorrow night), don’t talk about drugs (they are bad for you), don’t review gay sex, no white knighting, be discreet about SP’s info, just have 1 account here, I’m not deleting reviews,  don’t arrange a gangbang meet….. please  just for tonight 

You forgot to remind him about the ban on dogging............

[scutty brown]

So my girlfriend who's recently become a qualified masseuse, currently has a dream of working as a naughty masseuse giving extras to clients who want them. We've been looking around for ideas, but unfortunately nearly all of my experience with these places comes as a client seeking a service, not as a potential naughty masseuse trying to get employed in a shop with generally safe management.

We were hoping some of you guys would be able to point us in the right direction. Ideally, I think not working in a Chinese or Thai shop would be best though as she only speaks English and Spanish and might stick out like a sore thumb!

Presumably you're in London? Which part would she want to work in?
Does she have any other skills - e.g. beautician or similar? Waxing?

[Doc Holliday]

Does she have any other skills - e.g. beautician or similar? Waxing?

I was surprised he said she was a recently qualified 'masseuse'? This terminology is obsolete and I would expect her to use Massage Therapist?

Anyway if she wishes to go down the sex work career pathway, she would be far better asking on a forum for SPs. I cannot post the link 

[quatter11]

I was surprised he said she was a recently qualified 'masseuse'? This terminology is obsolete and I would expect her to use Massage Therapist?

Anyway if she wishes to go down the sex work career pathway, she would be far better asking on a forum for SPs. I cannot post the link 

It reads like a fantasy in a wank mag to me. If he really has a girlfriend and her 'dream' is to massage and wank off blokes, then why doesn't she just get on with it?

[Stevelondon]

It reads like a fantasy in a wank mag to me. If he really has a girlfriend and her 'dream' is to massage and wank off blokes, then why doesn't she just get on with it?

Cos I suspect she wants to be paid for it.

I dream quite a lot about shagging long legged models. Surprisingly it just never comes to reality in my normal everyday existence.
Yet when I contact a lass (certain ones) and offer money……. Hey presto.
 

[Waterhouse]

It reads like a fantasy in a wank mag to me. If he really has a girlfriend and her 'dream' is to massage and wank off blokes, then why doesn't she just get on with it?

Completely agree.  The OP is either a fantasist or trolling IMO.  Most likely starting a banal/ BS thread for the sake of attention (like a couple of others who spring to mind).

Besides, this is punting forum, not a careers advisory service.

[Doc Holliday]

Completely agree.  The OP is either a fantasist or trolling IMO.  Most likely starting a banal/ BS thread for the sake of attention (like a couple of others who spring to mind).

Besides, this is punting forum, not a careers advisory service.

Then there was this post two months ago?

So after a series of truly terrible FBSM experiences over the last eight months or so  I'm starting to get to a point of desperation of needing just one great punt to remind myself of why I got into this in the first place! I've realised the whole in and out on the dot with a bad attitude from the provider thing and clinic handjob with no massage training just doesn't do it for me anymore.

So I'm in a desperate need of a provider recommendation to get my faith in the scene and in FBSM in and around London restored, otherwise I'm going to start to fear for my sexual and spiritual well-being gentlemen..!

So why not give up looking and wasting money and stick with the girlfriend giving FBSM in the comfort of your own home etc?

[puntingking]

As a further tip here if anyone is thinking of posting the name of another forum then preview your post before submitting it to see if it has been auto-censored. Then do not try to bypass it.

ok.

[puntingking]

Completely agree.  The OP is either a fantasist or trolling IMO. Most likely starting a banal/ BS thread for the sake of attention (like a couple of others who spring to mind).

Besides, this is punting forum, not a careers advisory service.

we can't confirm nor deny that what the OP is saying is sincere so we just have to take his word for it 

[puntingking]

Back to the Ops original question - I can't think of a massage shop that would be best suited for your GF but if you go to adult work then click "other servicies" you may find places to rent a room for your gf to go at it independently.

Also, The massage people or masha tantric would be a good shout
External Link/Members Only
External Link/Members Only

She can always advertise her services herself via vivastreet massage section or gumtree.

All the best   

also,
Im just thinking out loud here but your gf could spend a good few hours just walking in a good few massage parlours and ask the managers and see where that leads

[RedKettle]

we can't confirm nor deny that what the OP is saying is sincere so we just have to take his word for it 

no we don't - we can form a view based on our experience and intelligence.  Do you just believe everything you are told?  If so I have a bridge to sell you that you will make a fortune with.

[PilotMan]

It reads like a fantasy in a wank mag to me. If he really has a girlfriend and her 'dream' is to massage and wank off blokes, then why doesn't she just get on with it?

Completely agree.  The OP is either a fantasist or trolling IMO.  Most likely starting a banal/ BS thread for the sake of attention (like a couple of others who spring to mind).

Besides, this is punting forum, not a careers advisory service.

+2

[JKOL94]

Completely agree.  The OP is either a fantasist or trolling IMO.  Most likely starting a banal/ BS thread for the sake of attention (like a couple of others who spring to mind).

Besides, this is punting forum, not a careers advisory service.

You guys really do yourselves and this community a huge disservice when you make these wild claims because you make it so people like us don't want to contribute.

I know it might shock you that a woman confidently wants to get into this field out of her own accord, but that is indeed the case and your blatant sexism is on clear display right now.

Thanks to those that actually offered helpful advice.

[puntingking]

You guys really do yourselves and this community a huge disservice when you make these wild claims because you make it so people like us don't want to contribute.

I know it might shock you that a woman confidently wants to get into this field out of her own accord, but that is indeed the case and your blatant sexism is on clear display right now.

Thanks to those that actually offered helpful advice.

Your welcome 

[RedKettle]

You guys really do yourselves and this community a huge disservice when you make these wild claims because you make it so people like us don't want to contribute.

I know it might shock you that a woman confidently wants to get into this field out of her own accord, but that is indeed the case and your blatant sexism is on clear display right now.

Thanks to those that actually offered helpful advice.

 It is the nature of a place like this. We get a lot of bull shitters so you have to expect some wariness from people. Overall it has been a pretty positive response.

[Waterhouse]

You guys really do yourselves and this community a huge disservice when you make these wild claims because you make it so people like us don't want to contribute.

I know it might shock you that a woman confidently wants to get into this field out of her own accord, but that is indeed the case and your blatant sexism is on clear display right now.

Thanks to those that actually offered helpful advice.

I wasn’t “claiming”, I was posting an opinion… hence the use of “IMO”. 

How does my post calling you a fantasist and troll (in my opinion) lead to your accusing me of “blatant sexism”?  Did I in anyway comment on your GF (imagined or otherwise) in a sexist or derogatory fashion? No. You might want think before you jump the gun.

This is what happens when BS threads are started - I’ve seen it so many times here, both in threads and reviews.

[quatter11]

You guys really do yourselves and this community a huge disservice when you make these wild claims because you make it so people like us don't want to contribute.

I know it might shock you that a woman confidently wants to get into this field out of her own accord, but that is indeed the case and your blatant sexism is on clear display right now.

Thanks to those that actually offered helpful advice.

If she confidently wants to get into it of her own accord, why are you asking for advice on here on her behalf?

[Doc Holliday]

You guys really do yourselves and this community a huge disservice when you make these wild claims because you make it so people like us don't want to contribute.

I know it might shock you that a woman confidently wants to get into this field out of her own accord, but that is indeed the case and your blatant sexism is on clear display right now.

What do you mean by "people like us"? Who has made sexist comments or suggested she is being coerced? You appear to have avoided answering any of my specific queries?

[Doc Holliday]

we can't confirm nor deny that what the OP is saying is sincere so we just have to take his word for it 

Wow. It's an anonymous forum.

[alabama1]

we can't confirm nor deny that what the OP is saying is sincere so we just have to take his word for it

But you don't though. Just because it can't be proved, it doesn't follow that believing him (a stranger at that), has to be your default setting.

[RandomGuy99]

Let's not over analyse.

If she wants to do massages and HE then let her do it. I suspect there's a lot more to doing it than she thinks like random blokes of all shapes, sizes, level of cleanliness and attitude turn up and you have to be prepared to give them a good service. That must be hard to do.

You also have to be prepared for the time wasters, people turning up late/early, address collectors, robbers, violent people, boundary pushers and general nutters. That's probably quite a hard part of the job.

[Doc Holliday]

Let's not over analyse.

If she wants to do massages and HE then let her do it.

Can you show me a post where anyone has suggested she shouldn't do it?

[RandomGuy99]

Can you show me a post where anyone has suggested she shouldn't do it?

No, but I can see lots of posts calling him a fantasist. Let them do what they want without all this judging.

It doesn't really encourage people to get involved in the forum.

[puntingking]

No, but I can see lots of posts calling him a fantasist. Let them do what they want without all this judging.

It doesn't really encourage people to get involved in the forum.

+1

[RedKettle]

No, but I can see lots of posts calling him a fantasist. Let them do what they want without all this judging.

It doesn't really encourage people to get involved in the forum.

There were 3 posters who suggested the OP might not be telling the truth.  Hardly a lot when there are over 40 posts.

[RandomGuy99]

There were 3 posters who suggested the OP might not be telling the truth.  Hardly a lot when there are over 40 posts.

It doesn't really matter if he is or isn't and we have no way of knowing. Just leave them to it.

[Doc Holliday]

There were 3 posters who suggested the OP might not be telling the truth.  Hardly a lot when there are over 40 posts.

Actually if you read it again most of the thread is about PK struggling to understand how the forum functions.

Including me, I make it four (possibly five) who are of the view he isn't telling the truth. His reply confirms it for me.

There are another four members who appear to believe him and have offered direct advice.

As for putting him off posting that is just not valid either. He is not a newcomer. He has 27 posts since he joined in 2021

[daviemac]

No, but I can see lots of posts calling him a fantasist. Let them do what they want without all this judging.

It doesn't really encourage people to get involved in the forum.

Starting a thread like this, asking how his GF can get into sex work, will always get a mixture of responses, the trouble is there are far better places to ask.

There's one site where only service providers can post and another where both SP's and SS's can post and chat between themselves all they want that would give them all the advice they would ever need.

Of course there's always those who will question his motives for helping his GF get into sex work.

[Blackpool Rock]

Completely agree.  The OP is either a fantasist or trolling IMO. Most likely starting a banal/ BS thread for the sake of attention (like a couple of others who spring to mind).

Besides, this is punting forum, not a careers advisory service.

Has the OP changed his name from Gurds   

[Colston36]

also,
Im just thinking out loud here but your gf could spend a good few hours just walking in a good few massage parlours and ask the managers and see where that leads

Do you mean walking or working? And asking the managers what?