What makes "the best sex you ever had"?

[MJ.spritzen]

Until yesterday, I struggled to think of the best sex I'd ever had.

In my 16 years of punting, I've been chasing this. And in the process, had a wild variety of encounters. I've been with younger women from 18+, I've been with older women (76yo being the oldest!), black women, white women, Asian women, Latina women, Indian women, European, Eastern European... fat, thin, fit, average... I've tried watersports (which I enjoy, but only from beautiful women), gangangs, orgies, 2 girl bookings, mild DOM (spitting in my face, slapping, name calling)... but despite all of this variety in both punting and personal relationships I dont think I had a single encounter that was "the best sex ever". Ironically, several times, I've been told by women I was casually seeing, or GFs, that a session was their best ever.

I dont know what it is?

At least until yesterday. I had my best punt, and my best sex ever. [https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=430244.new#new] And she didnt need to piss on me, call me names, dress up in a uniform - it was the energy and enthusiasm she brought to the punt. Manifested by DFKing, (appearing to) be enjoying herself - such as being attentive, orgasming during the session, and doing things withhout you having to ask.

So far, I think the equation goes:

Physical Attractiveness + DFK x Enthusiam = Good Sex

So perhaps its not what she does, but how she makes you feel (and not just with your dick).

This was a game changer for me. And has made me seriously reconsider ever going for a "pump and dump" elsewhere. Why bother with scraps when I can save it up for a real trip?

[Blackpool Rock]

Link to your review not working so i'll add it again
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=430244.0

Well yes it's the Million dollar question and i'm not sure that all of the stars have ever totally lined up for me but perhaps that's just me being a picky twat but seemingly I can find some sort of fault with every girl or punt.

I guess the girl has to be your "Type" in terms of body; looks; age etc but crucially her service has to also be what you want, now this is a difficult one as we are all different but IMO what makes a really great punt is when you are made to feel like the girl wants you to fuck her like a new GF would

[mills_and_bhuna]

It's all about the dopamine.
90% of sexual pleasure is in the head.
Which is fine until you consider that there are some fucked up heads out there

[RandomGuy99]

Passion and enthusiasm.

They don't have to be the hottest but if they deliver a good service with passion then it's best.

[lewisjones23]

The best paid for sex I've had was with English Totti a few years back, would love for her to come back on the scene.

The best civvie sex was with one of my exes, we'd ended up in a Yorkshire hotel for a weekend and for whatever reason she fucked the life out of me, oral like a woman possessed, literally hours of shagging until my hips were aching in pain and multiple facials.

I came away from both completely spent

[MJ.spritzen]

IMO what makes a really great punt is when you are made to feel like the girl wants you to fuck her like a new GF would

That's exactly it, mate. I think that sums it up nicely.

[Thephoenix]

I the punting world I find it's difficult to say as I've enjoyed such a variety of experiences.

I suggest that the best sex may be 'make up sex' with someone you love.
That's something that readily comes to mind for me.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I the punting world I find it's difficult to say as I've enjoyed such a variety of experiences.

I suggest that the best sex may be 'make up sex' with someone you love.
That's something that readily comes to mind for me.

I think the L word is key. Sex with someone who you love is infinitely better than sex with anyone else, it’s about that connection. Repeat sex with the same person gets better as you grow to understand what works and what doesn’t.

Sex with a WG can be mind blowing but ultimately it’s transactional and in many cases it’s an opportunity to tick off a kink which your significant other won’t entertain.