I’ll add my own “pass” too - had a rare opportunity a few weeks back to see her. Had discussed a time and date several days (almost a week) before hand but didn’t pin down the specifics as never got an opportunity to! Suddenly, mid-conversation, she disappeared for several days, and only logged on again the day after we were supposed to meet!
Shame, as she seemed lovely in the comms and a proper redhead local is hard to find. She did email and apologise when she logged back on, but her reason was unconvincing and I just felt messed about.
While decent options are few and far between these days, I’m saving my hard earned cash for reliable girls who I know (a) will deliver and (b) seem to give a shit.