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Offline Diehard

I have red notes, left by a lady on the prostitute black list, saying all sorts of crap. These were in revenge for me leaving her negative feedback for being a timewaster.

I have found that it makes no difference to genuine quality escorts, the very few that are on aw!! The good escorts pay more attention to positive feedback as they are not anonymous notes. If in doubt they simply ask, so in some ways having red notes is useful in that it can help screen out timewasters.

The ladies who have refused to see me because of notes turned out to be timewasters or scammers. How do I know? I briefly had two accounts on aw when I found out about the notes system and contacted All those who would refuse to see me because of notes. So I was not down as an alias my two accounts were accessed from different computers in different buildings!!

It was a useful exercise. So I would say any hooker who refuses to see you because of the red anonymous notes is likely to be a timewaster, unless you don't have any positive feedback at all then of course the hooker has no choice but to judge off the notes.

Offline Clooney

Serious question. Cat, maybe you can offer information from the perspective of a WG.

I have spotless feedback, but only 5 which I think is a decent amount to make any lady I try to book realise that I'm at least polite, clean, respectful etc.

I tried to book with  a lady a few months ago, but our schedules didn't match. Could she have taken me for a time waster and marked me?

Since then I've tried to book two girls. One which is known not for answering comms, but the other has no such track record that I'm aware of.

The former (Scarlett Domina) has not even opened my AW email. The other (ScarlettHart) has but has not responded.

Could I have a red mark unbeknown to me, or are they more than likely just being lazy?

BTW, I have left all ladies very fair and pretty positive feedback that I have seen, so I have no reason believe that I've done anything to warrant it.

Offline CatBBW

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Serious question. Cat, maybe you can offer information from the perspective of a WG.

I have spotless feedback, but only 5 which I think is a decent amount to make any lady I try to book realise that I'm at least polite, clean, respectful etc.

I tried to book with  a lady a few months ago, but our schedules didn't match. Could she have taken me for a time waster and marked me?

Since then I've tried to book two girls. One which is known not for answering comms, but the other has no such track record that I'm aware of.

The former (Scarlett Domina) has not even opened my AW email. The other (ScarlettHart) has but has not responded.

Could I have a red mark unbeknown to me, or are they more than likely just being lazy?

BTW, I have left all ladies very fair and pretty positive feedback that I have seen, so I have no reason believe that I've done anything to warrant it.

It could be either or both - however, you won't have a red mark (well, you shouldn't, not if all is how you decribe), it will be an orange if anything (Orange = Timewaster). Just the one orange shouldn't faze a WG, but I guess it could be a good excuse to refuse a booking or ignore the email if the lady can't be bothered to take your booking.

Do note that ANY Verified lady that you message can leave a note for you, not just the ones you officially book.

Hope this helps :thumbsup:

Offline Clooney

Thanks. It clarifies it but doesn't help because I can't see what has been marked (if indeed anything) nor contest it if something has. That's obviously not your fault though.

I would very much doubt that this has occurred. Certainly not a red one, but you never know.

Frustrating because I try to behave impeccably in all my AW dealings.

'It's against AW rules to discuss the "Notes" system with clients' writes one lady to me, so I am not getting very far.

Offline CatBBW

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OK, I am now pretty pissed off that one of you has decided to contact me via the Adultwork messages to OPENLY ask about your Notes, knowing full well that this can - and probably will - lead to AW removing the Notes privelidge from me. That's incredibly indiscreet and ignorant!

Client notes are {snips} supposed to be secret, and if AW find out that a WG has tipped you off about what they say, that WG will be denied access to Client Notes in future (this happened to Dani).

So ask a friendly WG to check you out, but DON'T do it openly, or you'll be getting her into trouble.  Do it via PM on here, or via non-Adultwork email or text. 

PRECISELY! :dash:

Offline CatBBW

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'It's against AW rules to discuss the "Notes" system with clients' writes one lady to me, so I am not getting very far.

Just how fucking stupid would I have been to reply "yes HP, of course I can do that for you, let me just flag it up to AW that I'm about to do that" ...!!!

As it is, I cannot see the notes myself, my computer won't let me (and I'm not the only one, according to posts on Saafe), a box sort of flashes open and then immediately disappears. It's annoying, it's the main reason I got verified, and if I want to see any client notes I have to use a friend's computer.

Still!!!

Online James999

OK, I am now pretty pissed off that one of you has decided to contact me via the Adultwork messages to OPENLY ask about your Notes, knowing full well that this can - and probably will - lead to AW removing the Notes privelidge from me. That's incredibly indiscreet and ignorant!

How would Adultwork know they'd contacted you and thus remove your priviledge from you  if you hadn't blurted it out on here?


Offline Clooney

Just to clarify, I wasn't the one to ask!!!!

Eff all to do with me!!!

Offline CatBBW

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How would Adultwork know they'd contacted you and thus remove your priviledge from you  if you hadn't blurted it out on here?

Dani said nothing on here, and she got banned from the Notes system.

My reply to him wasn't helpful, so I have stuck to the AW rules.
« Last Edit: November 18, 2014, 09:44:06 PM by CatBBW »

Online James999

Dani said nothing on here, and she got banned from the Notes system.

So why blurt it out on here?

Very indescreet  :thumbsdown:
« Last Edit: November 18, 2014, 09:46:30 PM by James999 »

Offline CatBBW

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Offline CatBBW

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So why blurt it out on here?

Very indescreet  :thumbsdown:

I was (and still am) astonished that despite all the advice, I was still openly contacted. My reply was within AW's rules, so I have that on my side.

Online James999

I was (and still am) astonished that despite all the advice, I was still openly contacted. My reply was within AW's rules, so I have that on my side.
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AW may read this and clearly see you are open to discuss the notes system (but not on AW) so may well decide to remove your priviledge, you can't blame anyone but yourself if they do  :music:

But then as most of your clients are regulars / repeat visitors (as you told us) it's not likely to cause you a problem  :unknown:
« Last Edit: November 18, 2014, 09:54:23 PM by James999 »

Offline Johny Stone

I was (and still am) astonished that despite all the advice, I was still openly contacted. My reply was within AW's rules, so I have that on my side.

Just pm HP on here and finish complaining.
If you can help him just do it.

Offline GeeWiz

OK, I am now pretty pissed off that one of you has decided to contact me via the Adultwork messages to OPENLY ask about your Notes, knowing full well that this can - and probably will - lead to AW removing the Notes privelidge from me. That's incredibly indiscreet and ignorant!

PRECISELY! :dash:

Why make a song and dance about it - you're a cam girl, so why do you need the facility anyway?

Offline Diehard

OK, I am now pretty pissed off that one of you has decided to contact me via the Adultwork messages to OPENLY ask about your Notes, knowing full well that this can - and probably will - lead to AW removing the Notes privelidge from me. That's incredibly indiscreet and ignorant!

PRECISELY! :dash:

So, it would appear from your rant that aw monitor all emails between punters and escorts! Otherwise how the flying fuck would they know whether someone messaged you about their notes?

And, apparently according to this thread aw monitor this board. If that is the case then I have a message for aw site owners, and that is your site is fucking shite, full of scamming foreign whores and bait and switchers and timewasters. Get your house in order and make the site punter friendly rather than hooker friendly you fluffy pathetic pricks.

Now, somehow, I don't think my little rant will get to the attention of aw!! So my dear, I think you perhaps overreacted?

Online James999

Why make a song and dance about it - you're a cam girl, so why do you need the facility anyway?

Just seems like a cry for attention from her that's backfired  :thumbsdown:

As you've only been here three weeks I doubt any sensible pro$$ie would take your request seriously  :D

Why does matter how long I've been on this site?

I am uncertain about this discussion. I made no 'open' approaches. I asked first one lady privately if she could help and she cannot. I asked another lady privately if she can help and she said she would not. I used the private message service here and on AW. The point of those message services is that they are private. I did not openly contact anyone.

A third lady has approached me privately to offer help, and has discovered for me that there are 3 red marks against me on AW. I do not know who posted them or why. I am very grateful to her.

I have no negative feedback, on the contrary I have a huge number of positive feedback points and I do not have any information in a profile of me. I discovered how many positive feedback points I have by looking at the profile of a lady I saw last summer and I have over 50+ and no negatives. It is my second profile as a a few years ago a jealous bloke threatened to out me if I met his lady friend again and she advised me to vanish.

But I do know that when I email likely ladies now they read my message and do not reply - which I assume is due to the red marks.
« Last Edit: November 19, 2014, 09:12:09 AM by Horizontal pleasures »

Offline cunnyhunt

I am uncertain about this discussion. I made no 'open' approaches. I asked first one lady privately if she could help and she cannot. I asked another lady privately if she can help and she said she would not. I used the private message service here and on AW. The point of those message services is that they are private. I did not openly contact anyone.

A third lady has approached me privately to offer help, and has discovered for me that there are 3 red marks against me on AW. I do not know who posted them or why. I am very grateful to her.

I have no negative feedback, on the contrary I have a huge number of positive feedback points and I do not have any information in a profile of me. I discovered how many positive feedback points I have by looking at the profile of a lady I saw last summer and I have over 50+ and no negatives. It is my second profile as a a few years ago a jealous bloke threatened to out me if I met his lady friend again and she advised me to vanish.

But I do know that when I email likely ladies now they read my message and do not reply - which I assume is due to the red marks.

There is nothing you can do about it, Delete and make another profile.

AW feedback is shit, you say you have 50 +ve and cannot get answers.

If the feedback means something to you,  contact previous "ladies" you have fucked and make fake bookings with them to gain some more.

Offline ATMIV

The thing I have learnt from following this thread is:- correspondence on AW is more transparent to the site owners than I certainly realised.

Also there are AW restrictions on service providers I was not aware of.

This being the case, contacting the "punter friendly" escorts on this site via AW, on certain matters considered by AW to be taboo (but we are unaware of) can be detrimental to their business

I feel for Cat that her professional medium was put at risk by us trying to seek her assistance.

No malice was involved in seeking her assistance individuals were just unaware of the repercussions to her.

Perhaps, when the subject of contacting, someone like Cat or Dani was brought up anyone familiar with AW rules and regs could highlight the problems it could cause.

What I take away from this is, if I had any burning issues I wanted help/advice with from an escort - I would PM them on here. I wouldn't go through open forum on here and I definitely would not bring the subject up via AW email
Banning reason: Prossie fanboy

Offline Johny Stone

I am uncertain about this discussion. I made no 'open' approaches. I asked first one lady privately if she could help and she cannot. I asked another lady privately if she can help and she said she would not. I used the private message service here and on AW. The point of those message services is that they are private. I did not openly contact anyone.

A third lady has approached me privately to offer help, and has discovered for me that there are 3 red marks against me on AW. I do not know who posted them or why. I am very grateful to her.

I have no negative feedback, on the contrary I have a huge number of positive feedback points and I do not have any information in a profile of me. I discovered how many positive feedback points I have by looking at the profile of a lady I saw last summer and I have over 50+ and no negatives. It is my second profile as a a few years ago a jealous bloke threatened to out me if I met his lady friend again and she advised me to vanish.

But I do know that when I email likely ladies now they read my message and do not reply - which I assume is due to the red marks.

Don't use aw to book for a while, just call them.

Offline SamLP

This is why I never email girls. If there is a number I will call them. If they require email/AW bookings and a certain amount of positives I simply won't bother.

Offline CoolTiger

I am uncertain about this discussion. I made no 'open' approaches. I asked first one lady privately if she could help and she cannot. I asked another lady privately if she can help and she said she would not. I used the private message service here and on AW. The point of those message services is that they are private. I did not openly contact anyone.

A third lady has approached me privately to offer help, and has discovered for me that there are 3 red marks against me on AW. I do not know who posted them or why. I am very grateful to her.

I have no negative feedback, on the contrary I have a huge number of positive feedback points and I do not have any information in a profile of me. I discovered how many positive feedback points I have by looking at the profile of a lady I saw last summer and I have over 50+ and no negatives. It is my second profile as a a few years ago a jealous bloke threatened to out me if I met his lady friend again and she advised me to vanish.

But I do know that when I email likely ladies now they read my message and do not reply - which I assume is due to the red marks.

There is nothing you can do about it, Delete and make another profile.

AW feedback is shit, you say you have 50 +ve and cannot get answers.

If the feedback means something to you,  contact previous "ladies" you have fucked and make fake bookings with them to gain some more.

Au contraire.....

I had similar thing happen to me.... (HP i have PM'd you in the past about this).

I enquired from a WG I knew and I found out that some girl had left a false note against me, so I contacted AW directly explained this to them and the note was deleted. Now I know the Management of AW
are wankers and don't care about the punters, but on this occasion they were helpful to me by removing the note against me.


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