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Offline Frenchie

Never had a prostrate massage from a WG - but looking at the Bondara website -they have got some  interesting vibrating devices ...anyone bought/ tried one . There is one for £39 that looks as though it could be worth parting with some cash  !

Any thoughts ? Is the sensation of a prostrate massage coupled with a BJ or wank really good ?
« Last Edit: November 17, 2014, 03:28:40 pm by Frenchie »

Offline StevenS

If it's done right it's quite a sensation. Unfortunately many WGs who put prostate massage as a service, think it's just a case of popping a finger up your hole.

Offline hockogrockle

If it's done right it's quite a sensation. Unfortunately many WGs who put prostate massage as a service, think it's just a case of popping a finger up your hole.
No. The original poster wanted to know about PROSTRATE massage. Since I have never been massaged standing up, I'm not sure what he is on about.

Offline StevenS

No. The original poster wanted to know about PROSTRATE massage. Since I have never been massaged standing up, I'm not sure what he is on about.

An unwanted finger up the pooper might get you to your feet sharpish

Offline nigel4498

Confusing, prostate or prostrate?
Since all massages are normally with you lying prostrate I imagine the OP means a prostate massage.

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If it's done right it's quite a sensation. Unfortunately many WGs who put prostate massage as a service, think it's just a case of popping a finger up your hole.

A client almost broke my wrist once, he was enjoying the massage so much his whole body was bucking like a humping dog, trapping my whole hand under him! So yes, I guess it's rather a pleasant sensation :D


And yes, it's prostate.

Offline StevenS

A client almost broke my wrist once, he was enjoying the massage so much his whole body was bucking like a humping dog, trapping my whole hand under him! So yes, I guess it's rather a pleasant sensation :D


And yes, it's prostate.

I might come and see you!

Offline Horizontal pleasures

Be careful, if you try to massage HER prostate with your finger up her bum, she might break YOUR wrist as she is bigger than you are.

Offline Frenchie

Do I feel an idiot !!!!  Best I go and rip up my A level ( no pun intended ) English certificate ...
Anyway ..my original question still stands about PROSTATE massage .

Thanks .

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Be careful, if you try to massage HER prostate with your finger up her bum, she might break YOUR wrist as she is bigger than you are.

Genetic females don't have prostates.

Tjkooker

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So no doubt you would love a prostate massage then cat.

Quesadilla

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Never had a prostrate massage from a WG - but looking at the Bondara website -they have got some  interesting vibrating devices ...anyone bought/ tried one . There is one for £39 that looks as though it could be worth parting with some cash  !

Any thoughts ? Is the sensation of a prostrate massage coupled with a BJ or wank really good ?
I have bought massagers from the likes of bondara and they can be good, but my experience is a lot of the devices are a bit cheap and you only get a few uses out of them before something goes wrong - as with lots of sex toys you get what you pay for.  I had a quick look at their £39 massagers and have never used any of them so if you pick one with reasonable ratings it should be good for a go. TOFTT and report back.  :D

That said a good prostate massager is better than 90% of WG's I've asked to oblige. Although when done really well (Sensual Secret / Sarah - filthy milf from Surbiton) it's out of this world, there is a real technique to it.

Actually, the pursuit of the perfect prostate massage has given me a newfound understanding of how women probably feel about us poking around randomly with fingers in their pussies seeking a g-spot.   :lol:  The prostate gland is very like the g-spot - it's in a certain spot and needs a specific pressure/rubbing to stimulate it. A finger thrusted in and out just doesn't do it.


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So no doubt you would love a prostate massage then cat.

I'm a genetic female, I don't have a prostate.


Offline Frenchie

I have bought massagers from the likes of bondara and they can be good, but my experience is a lot of the devices are a bit cheap and you only get a few uses out of them before something goes wrong - as with lots of sex toys you get what you pay for.  I had a quick look at their £39 massagers and have never used any of them so if you pick one with reasonable ratings it should be good for a go. TOFTT and report back.  :D

That said a good prostate massager is better than 90% of WG's I've asked to oblige. Although when done really well (Sensual Secret / Sarah - filthy milf from Surbiton) it's out of this world, there is a real technique to it.

Actually, the pursuit of the perfect prostate massage has given me a newfound understanding of how women probably feel about us poking around randomly with fingers in their pussies seeking a g-spot.   :lol:  The prostate gland is very like the g-spot - it's in a certain spot and needs a specific pressure/rubbing to stimulate it. A finger thrusted in and out just doesn't do it.
At last !..an answer ...Thanks for your thoughts and the info Q  ... might ask my regular this week for her advice .....

dantheman

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The feeling of having an escort giving you a blow job whilst inserting three fingers inside you is very erotic.
I have never tried a massager but i doubt if it can replace the personal touch.
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The feeling of having an escort giving you a blow job whilst inserting three fingers inside you is very erotic.
I have never tried a massager but i doubt if it can replace the personal touch.

THREE? Never (yet!) met a man who could take more than 1 without pain.

Quesadilla

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At last !..an answer ...Thanks for your thoughts and the info Q  ... might ask my regular this week for her advice .....
Pas de probleme Frenchie!  :hi:

Offline StevenS

THREE? Never (yet!) met a man who could take more than 1 without pain.

Game on!


Quesadilla

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THREE? Never (yet!) met a man who could take more than 1 without pain.
Why would a man's arse be any different to a woman's?  If I was to shove three fingers in your arse without suitable warmup / preamble I doubt you would be smiling.  If you have time to relax and enjoy you can take whatever.  ;)

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Why would a man's arse be any different to a woman's?  If I was to shove three fingers in your arse without suitable warmup / preamble I doubt you would be smiling.  If you have time to relax and enjoy you can take whatever.  ;)

Where did I say I shoved the three up without warm-up? Picture the scene: man with arse in air, me with glove and lube, happily poking away. He's happily squealing like a pig and requests another finger. I lube up more and insert a second finger. He goes from squealing to groaning with pain, begging "take it out, take it out!"

Some people like more, some people like less. I just haven't (yet) met a man who likes more. :hi:

Offline maxxblue

Why would a man's arse be any different to a woman's?  If I was to shove three fingers in your arse without suitable warmup / preamble I doubt you would be smiling.  If you have time to relax and enjoy you can take whatever.  ;)

...because it's attached to a man.

...because when it bends over, the urge isn't quite the same as when the arse belongs to a woman.

...because most women's arses tend not to be hairy.

...because a man's arse is VERY different than a woman's.

If you don't agree, you could probably save yourself a few pounds using Gaydar instead of AW...


...best of luck!

 ;)

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...because it's attached to a man.

...because when it bends over, the urge isn't quite the same as when the arse belongs to a woman.

...because most women's arses tend not to be hairy.

...because a man's arse is VERY different than a woman's.

If you don't agree, you could probably save yourself a few pounds using Gaydar instead of AW...


...best of luck!

 ;)

Proper LOLing here!! :sarcastic:

Quesadilla

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...because it's attached to a man.

...because when it bends over, the urge isn't quite the same as when the arse belongs to a woman.

...because most women's arses tend not to be hairy.

...because a man's arse is VERY different than a woman's.

If you don't agree, you could probably save yourself a few pounds using Gaydar instead of AW...


...best of luck!

 ;)
You don't half talk some shit. Literally. If anything a man's arse is more sensitive to stimulation than a chicks due to the prostate gland but for both it has huge amounts of nerve endings and is a major erogenous zone.

By all means ignore a major source of potential sexual pleasure, your loss.

Offline maxxblue

Why would a man's arse be any different to a woman's?  If I was to shove three fingers in your arse without suitable warmup / preamble I doubt you would be smiling.  If you have time to relax and enjoy you can take whatever.  ;)

You don't half talk some shit. Literally. If anything a man's arse is more sensitive to stimulation than a chicks due to the prostate gland but for both it has huge amounts of nerve endings and is a major erogenous zone.

By all means ignore a major source of potential sexual pleasure, your loss.

I think I have just highlighted a CONTRADICTION in your argument.  ;)

BTW, I have held off joining in the nominations to make you 'Wanker of the Week', but I must admit that I am struggling!

Offline maxxblue

You don't half talk some shit. Literally.

Firstly, I thought this discussion was just a bit of banter, but from your response this is clearly not the case.

Never mind.

Secondly, are you completely thick?

Don't you know the meaning of the word "literally"?

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Quesadilla

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I think I have just highlighted a CONTRADICTION in your argument.  ;)

BTW, I have held off joining in the nominations to make you 'Wanker of the Week', but I must admit that I am struggling!
Fair enough good point well made. In terms of penetration, no different at all, in terms of sensitivity to stimulation - men's arses are more sensitive due to the prostate gland.  Point I was trying to make was there's no good reason why should a man be less able to take a couple of fingers? Just takes a bit of practise, and much better to start with a tongue.
   
Appreciate your forbearance. Haven't had a wank in nearly two weeks in fact as I've been trying to wean myself off so I enjoy the punting more, but it has made me a bit testy. Would be quite ironic to win WOTW.  :)

Offline maxxblue

Fair enough good point well made. In terms of penetration, no different at all, in terms of sensitivity to stimulation - men's arses are more sensitive due to the prostate gland.  Point I was trying to make was there's no good reason why should a man be less able to take a couple of fingers? Just takes a bit of practise, and much better to start with a tongue.
   
Appreciate your forbearance. Haven't had a wank in nearly two weeks in fact as I've been trying to wean myself off so I enjoy the punting more, but it has made me a bit testy. Would be quite ironic to win WOTW.  :)

 :hi:

Offline JohnEv

Never had a prostrate massage from a WG - but looking at the Bondara website -they have got some  interesting vibrating devices ...anyone bought/ tried one . There is one for £39 that looks as though it could be worth parting with some cash  !

Any thoughts ? Is the sensation of a prostrate massage coupled with a BJ or wank really good ?

Its an amazing feeling, you feel like cumming and number-two-ing at the same time (yes, its better to do the obvious preparations first).

Some blokes can't stay hard while they have anal stimulation but it still feels good.

Don't do it too regularly, you end up dependent on it and you won't be able to cum without anal stimulation.

Anal beads are good as well, putting them in takes practice without discomfort, its on the way out the magic happens ... either pulling them out while trying to clench them in, or the other way around, trying to push them out but preventing it happening.  Don't do any fast moves until you are practiced, it feels like you've just passed a gorilla (very similar to a dead-leg but on your sphincter)

[waiting to get slated by those that are missing out  :D )

CaptainRoscoe

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This seems like dangerous territory. To each their own though.

potato

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Research has indicated that regular prostate massage can reduce the risk of getting prostate cancer so there would be a double benefit if you can find someone to do it..

Curious6705

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Research has indicated that regular prostate massage can reduce the risk of getting prostate cancer so there would be a double benefit if you can find someone to do it..

Apparently wanking also has the same benefit and is much easier to arrange.

Curious6705

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Never had a prostrate massage from a WG - but looking at the Bondara website -they have got some  interesting vibrating devices ...anyone bought/ tried one . There is one for £39 that looks as though it could be worth parting with some cash  !

Any thoughts ? Is the sensation of a prostrate massage coupled with a BJ or wank really good ?

I do enjoy a prostrate massage, but I personally prefer WGs to leave my prostate alone. I don't think prostate massage is for everyone.

Ravanelli

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I think I have just highlighted a CONTRADICTION in your argument.  ;)

BTW, I have held off joining in the nominations to make you 'Wanker of the Week', but I must admit that I am struggling!

I'm not seeing the contradiction, both points reference completely different issues.

Offline knightofthegarter

Its an amazing feeling, you feel like cumming and number-two-ing at the same time...

I won't slate you JohnEv. Lots of people on this forum enjoy anal play, so there is probably something in it and if you and others enjoy it then great. Your description is not selling it to me though. I've never once had an orgasm and thought to myself "Now if only I had the feeling of curling out a log at the same time" Surely there must be more to it than just feeling like your taking a dump ? Some nerve endings or something ?

Offline Horizontal pleasures

Genetic females don't have prostates.

I know, it was supposed to be funny.

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I know, it was supposed to be funny.

Oh, sorry, I thought you were implying I was a TS or something  :wackogirl:

Quesadilla

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I won't slate you JohnEv. Lots of people on this forum enjoy anal play, so there is probably something in it and if you and others enjoy it then great. Your description is not selling it to me though. I've never once had an orgasm and thought to myself "Now if only I had the feeling of curling out a log at the same time" Surely there must be more to it than just feeling like your taking a dump ? Some nerve endings or something ?
Yes - frankly don't relate to the description that it's like taking a dump....however if you actually do need a dump sticking something up your rectum will encourage you to start. Definitely a good idea to encourage regular bowel movements and clear out thoroughly before any anal play.  I also douche and avoid eating solid foods within 4 hrs minimum of a session.

To me the sensations are very intense but pleasurable and nothing remotely dump-like.  :D

Offline JohnEv

Perhaps my dumps squeeze my prostrate   :blush:

On the cancer thing, latest research has (possibly) shown the opposite.  Homosexual men have a higher rate of prostrate cancer, the current thinking is that the poor little prostrate is getting hammered too much.

Offline knightofthegarter

The precautions and preparations sound sensible Quesadilla, particularly your warning regarding the suppository effect.
....however if you actually do need a dump sticking something up your rectum will encourage you to start.

Presumably if such a mishap were to happen to someone, this would be recorded in their aw field report form as extras - hardsports (unexpected)

Offline maxxblue

I'm not seeing the contradiction, both points reference completely different issues.

The contradiction is that Q initially says that (1) men and women’s arses are the same:

Why would a man's arse be any different to a woman's?  If I was to shove three fingers in your arse without suitable warmup / preamble I doubt you would be smiling.  If you have time to relax and enjoy you can take whatever.  ;)

 and then says that (2) men and women’s arses are different:

You don't half talk some shit. Literally. If anything a man's arse is more sensitive to stimulation than a chicks due to the prostate gland but for both it has huge amounts of nerve endings and is a major erogenous zone.

By all means ignore a major source of potential sexual pleasure, your loss.

In my book, this is a contradiction.  :cool:



[BTW, this post is not directed at you Q - it is a response to Ravanelli's comment  :hi: ]
« Last Edit: November 18, 2014, 11:33:49 pm by maxxblue »

Quesadilla

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The contradiction is that Q initially says that (1) men and women’s arses are the same:

 and then says that (2) men and women’s arses are different:

In my book, this is a contradiction.  :cool:



[BTW, this post is not directed at you Q - it is a response to Ravanelli's comment  :hi: ]
Yep understood - and in my book you made a perfectly valid point, I did indeed contradict myself. I do that sometimes. :hi:

Offline Crazydave

A decent prostate massage can be amazing - it can make your body start spasming all over like an epileptic, possessed evangelist.  :wacko: I also enjoy receiving a good rimjob every so often. I've found that my arse is even more sensitive since I had the snip a few years back.

Ravanelli

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I've found that my arse is even more sensitive since I had the snip a few years back.

I've got a hairy arse too and need it snipping every few weeks.

Offline cunnyhunt

I've got a hairy arse too and need it snipping every few weeks.

How do you manage in the chair at the hairdressers ?