Been viewing this and few other forums for ages. One thing I have found is so many experienced people have so much to offer. I am not alone.
I also feel the sense of community is very strong. Even yahoo groups with are almost dead have unique environments.
I feel this is because deep down “paying” for it is just a taboo and yet we all do one way or another.
Direct cash is an issue. My local business and business partners seem to love cash.
I want to express my opinion on something related to the topic and I would love input from you all.
My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t. Paying while having a partner is having an affair in my opinion and it is a fact too. Being dishonest is a slimy path to further issues.
Communication is the key and I do feel all differences can be sorted out. No need to pay for sex with a partner.
Many get caught and we all do in the end one way or another. I guess question is being on a downward negative path of dishonesty is it worth it? Epically when cost is attached?
Can something ever justify dishonesty when it comes to sex?
Reason why I asked the question is I fear because of my own paying habit trusting the lady has become an issue and I don’t feel I can trust myself not to do it especially in the first few weeks of meeting someone.
I suppose this post highlights my own weakness. I would want some responses please.
It's rare that I'm moved to be quite so direct, but who the fuck are you to judge anyone on here?
You are privy to the intricacies of every married punter's relationship? You know when the guy still basically loves his wife but for some reason sex ain't happening and he couldn't bear to see his family split up over an affair, so he plays a discreet one every now and then.
I tell you what, I always say that nobody knows what goes on in a relationship apart from the two people involved, an even then usually one of them doesn't.
Binary twats like you are like politicians and coppers, so go and patronise someone else.