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Author Topic: With partner and Still paying for it!  (Read 3072 times)

Offline Ben_Dover

Hi all,

Been viewing this and few other forums for ages. One thing I have found is so many experienced people have so much to offer. I am not alone.

I also feel the sense of community is very strong. Even yahoo groups with are almost dead have unique environments.

I feel this is because deep down “paying” for it is just a taboo and yet we all do one way or another.

Direct cash is an issue. My local business and business partners seem to love cash.

I want to express my opinion on something related to the topic and I would love input from you all.

My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t. Paying while having a partner is having an affair in my opinion and it is a fact too. Being dishonest is a slimy path to further issues.

Communication is the key and I do feel all differences can be sorted out. No need to pay for sex with a partner.

Many get caught and we all do in the end one way or another. I guess question is being on a downward negative path of dishonesty is it worth it? Epically when cost is attached?

Can something ever justify dishonesty when it comes to sex?

Reason why I asked the question is I fear because of my own paying habit trusting the lady has become an issue and I don’t feel I can trust myself not to do it especially in the first few weeks of meeting someone.

I suppose this post highlights my own weakness. I would want some responses please.

Offline Tjkooker

You need a shrink not ukpunting. Waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle
Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

Offline Happylad

He slipped up; he completely forgot to mention HELLFIRE and DAMNATION and THE WAGES OF SIN.

Waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle waffle

You sound hungry.

Offline Cornish sub

Hi all,

Been viewing this and few other forums for ages. One thing I have found is so many experienced people have so much to offer. I am not alone.

I also feel the sense of community is very strong. Even yahoo groups with are almost dead have unique environments.

I feel this is because deep down “paying” for it is just a taboo and yet we all do one way or another.

Direct cash is an issue. My local business and business partners seem to love cash.

I want to express my opinion on something related to the topic and I would love input from you all.

My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t. Paying while having a partner is having an affair in my opinion and it is a fact too. Being dishonest is a slimy path to further issues.

Communication is the key and I do feel all differences can be sorted out. No need to pay for sex with a partner.

Many get caught and we all do in the end one way or another. I guess question is being on a downward negative path of dishonesty is it worth it? Epically when cost is attached?

Can something ever justify dishonesty when it comes to sex?

Reason why I asked the question is I fear because of my own paying habit trusting the lady has become an issue and I don’t feel I can trust myself not to do it especially in the first few weeks of meeting someone.

I suppose this post highlights my own weakness. I would want some responses please.
Ok, here's mine - fuck off with your preaching, you self righteous twat.


 
Ok, here's mine - fuck off with your preaching, you self righteous twat.

 :lol: :D tears are literally streaming down my eyes.

Offline portable

My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t. Paying while having a partner is having an affair in my opinion and it is a fact too. Being dishonest is a slimy path to further issues.
Communication is the key and I do feel all differences can be sorted out. No need to pay for sex with a partner.

Fair enough.

Reason why I asked the question is I fear because of my own paying habit trusting the lady has become an issue and I don’t feel I can trust myself not to do it especially in the first few weeks of meeting someone.
I suppose this post highlights my own weakness. I would want some responses please.

Well they are perhaps not for you in the long term.



Offline yorkshire123

Banning reason: Making false malicious allegations against admin

Offline Jeremy

Didn't we already have a "Ben Dover"?

 :bomb:

Offline dezzatheblue2

Hi all,

Been viewing this and few other forums for ages. One thing I have found is so many experienced people have so much to offer. I am not alone.

I also feel the sense of community is very strong. Even yahoo groups with are almost dead have unique environments.

I feel this is because deep down “paying” for it is just a taboo and yet we all do one way or another.

Direct cash is an issue. My local business and business partners seem to love cash.

I want to express my opinion on something related to the topic and I would love input from you all.

My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t. Paying while having a partner is having an affair in my opinion and it is a fact too. Being dishonest is a slimy path to further issues.

Communication is the key and I do feel all differences can be sorted out. No need to pay for sex with a partner.

Many get caught and we all do in the end one way or another. I guess question is being on a downward negative path of dishonesty is it worth it? Epically when cost is attached?

Can something ever justify dishonesty when it comes to sex?

Reason why I asked the question is I fear because of my own paying habit trusting the lady has become an issue and I don’t feel I can trust myself not to do it especially in the first few weeks of meeting someone.

I suppose this post highlights my own weakness. I would want some responses please.


Bawbag!
Banning reason: Fluffy twat

Offline Dani

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I take it you are not married then if you feel all differences can be sorted out by talking.  If a woman decides she no longer wants sex or she is going or has gone through the change and her libido has completely gone then you can talk all you want and it will get you nowhere.  Do you expect a wife to say "Oh ok I really hate the idea of sex but ill lay there and allow you to do it to me even though the thought of it turns me cold" No?  so how does talking change that especially if it is due to hormonal changes which as women get older can make sex painful to the point they never want to bother again.  Or talking will make her decide that although she just no longer wants to have sex she will because you talked about it?
There are many reasons why men punt and lack of sex is one of them.  No amount of talking will change that and many have tried before going down the punting route. 

You have come here to try and say that all the married men here are on a slimy path to further issues.  Why?  If they are happy punting and their wives are happy that they are being left alone then who is it hurting.  What issues will it cause.

Who are you to judge what other people do?  This is not a Christianity site nor it is a morality site.  So as you are single it is ok for you to pay for sex but if someone has a partner it is not ok?  Many would judge you for punting regardless of your marital status as they see it morally wrong so you cannot judge anyone else.  Who are you to say there is no need for a man to pay for sex if he has a partner.  Are you aware of what goes on behind closed doors in every punters home?

You are really on the wrong site to pass judgement on anyone which is exactly what you did with the statement that punting when married is being dishonest on a slimy path.

If you cant trust yourself that is your issue so perhaps judge yourself before anyone else


Offline punk

Hi all,

Been viewing this and few other forums for ages. One thing I have found is so many experienced people have so much to offer. I am not alone.

I also feel the sense of community is very strong. Even yahoo groups with are almost dead have unique environments.

I feel this is because deep down “paying” for it is just a taboo and yet we all do one way or another.

Direct cash is an issue. My local business and business partners seem to love cash.

I want to express my opinion on something related to the topic and I would love input from you all.

My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t. Paying while having a partner is having an affair in my opinion and it is a fact too. Being dishonest is a slimy path to further issues.

Communication is the key and I do feel all differences can be sorted out. No need to pay for sex with a partner.

Many get caught and we all do in the end one way or another. I guess question is being on a downward negative path of dishonesty is it worth it? Epically when cost is attached?

Can something ever justify dishonesty when it comes to sex?

Reason why I asked the question is I fear because of my own paying habit trusting the lady has become an issue and I don’t feel I can trust myself not to do it especially in the first few weeks of meeting someone.

I suppose this post highlights my own weakness. I would want some responses please.

try this


My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t.

My opinions are you should fuck off, and when you've fucked off, fuck off back here so I can tell you to fuck off again. Just saying'.

Offline Tjkooker

Puntico... Please change your avatar. The guys face is giving me nightmares  :crazy:
Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.


Puntico... Please change your avatar. The guys face is giving me nightmares  :crazy:

Unfortunately, that was the best selfie I could manage . . . talk about 'break the internet'!  :crazy:


Offline socks


My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t. Paying while having a partner is having an affair in my opinion and it is a fact too. Being dishonest is a slimy path to further issues.

Mine is that the ability to pay for NSA sex whenever I want it is fucking ace. But then I don't have a hang up about the fallacy that sex and relationships are intrinsically and inseparably linked. Or a hang up about NSA sex. Or a hang up about paying for it as I would any other service. You appear to have all three. My advice would be to try and free yourself from your self repressive moral code and go have some fun. HTH :drinks:


Online Clooney

Hi all,

Been viewing this and few other forums for ages. One thing I have found is so many experienced people have so much to offer. I am not alone.

I also feel the sense of community is very strong. Even yahoo groups with are almost dead have unique environments.

I feel this is because deep down “paying” for it is just a taboo and yet we all do one way or another.

Direct cash is an issue. My local business and business partners seem to love cash.

I want to express my opinion on something related to the topic and I would love input from you all.

My opinions are if you are single pay for it. If not then don’t. Paying while having a partner is having an affair in my opinion and it is a fact too. Being dishonest is a slimy path to further issues.

Communication is the key and I do feel all differences can be sorted out. No need to pay for sex with a partner.

Many get caught and we all do in the end one way or another. I guess question is being on a downward negative path of dishonesty is it worth it? Epically when cost is attached?

Can something ever justify dishonesty when it comes to sex?

Reason why I asked the question is I fear because of my own paying habit trusting the lady has become an issue and I don’t feel I can trust myself not to do it especially in the first few weeks of meeting someone.

I suppose this post highlights my own weakness. I would want some responses please.

It's rare that I'm moved to be quite so direct, but who the fuck are you to judge anyone on here?

You are privy to the intricacies of every married punter's relationship? You know when the guy still basically loves his wife but for some reason sex ain't happening and he couldn't bear to see his family split up over an affair, so he plays a discreet one every now and then.

I tell you what, I always say that nobody knows what goes on in a relationship apart from the two people involved, an even then usually one of them doesn't.

Binary twats like you are like politicians and coppers, so go and patronise someone else.

Offline dezzatheblue2

First post to try and wind people up, obviously a trolling prick, tick tick
Banning reason: Fluffy twat

So Quesi whats-his-name post's about punting and lying when married and gets slated and within a couple of days a brand shiney new member chooses hus first post to be thus bollox - hi Quesidella  :music:

As they say in Norfolk "thas ulot'r old wordy skwit"


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