Hello Kadiee, I hope you're still joining us. The following will be of little interest to anyone else.
On the basis of your plea to quote "...let me mingle back into the background..." I didn't respond further to your raving rage rant, full of misrepresentation, misquoting, negative stereotypes, and vitriol. However rather than fading away you seem to believe you're on a crusade, and you have added to your rant. You're right I've never met you, but your writing is a form of self-expression, and your apparent need to prevail and achieve vindication (you even quote karma) suggests brittleness. This is also evident in the fact that you are the one making the most abusive, inflammatory comments, and trying (albeit unsuccessfully) to belittle and debase others. Surely you understand that the only person you diminish with that behaviour is yourself.
If you're so certain that you're right then post the link to this thread and let other decide for themselves. The incendiary and overly dramatic statements probably have had the paradoxical effect of people coming on here to see what the fuss is about anyway. You may actually be increasing traffic to UKP. Either way, I'm more than happy for people to compare what I actually posted with your misrepresentation of it.
Although you misquoted it, I stand by my statement that this is not a "hobby". You engage in paid sex, prostitution, and therefore you are a service provider receiving a fee. As such you have responsibilities, and you are accountable for the paid services that you provide. That's not a hobby.
You also note your objection on the basis of your desire for privacy and discretion. I doubt that there's a punter on here who does not wish to preserve his and your privacy and discretion; the mutuality of that is vital. Identifying details are only posted on here when a punter has experienced an event that would qualify as an offence i.e. assault, theft / robbery, blackmail, etc. These have all occurred recently in this region alone. Is that the real reason you object, or is it more accurately that you do not wish to be written about in a sexualised manner. I suggest that as your profile and posts are riddled with euphemisms ("hobby", "date", bizarrely referring to the men who pay you for sex as "fans", etc) that possibly indicate your discomfort in identifying with the fact that what you offer is prostitution?
Your characterisation of the men who use this site is spurious and ridiculous. Generally they are a diverse and decent bunch of men, and broadly represent the range of men who pay for sex. I think it likely that you've already met some and enjoyed their company. This is also predominantly a forum for men, and the discussions about paid sex can be pragmatic and frank. That does not equate to misogyny, and the majority of men on here don't seem to experience too much difficulty in taking a courteous, respectful approach to women. Have a proper read around the forum and reviews, instead of the obviously selective approach you have taken.
Your characterisation of me is so absurdly misguided that I needn't really respond. I'll correct you on one issue that seems to be of importance to you. Several years ago, and in the context of a jocular bet between friends, we took the supervised Mensa test. The eligibility criterion is an IQ score at or above the 98th percentile i.e. the top 2% and not the 10% you insist upon. My score placed me at the 99.6 percentile. You can make of that what you will. I'm ambivalent about it as I was born that way so it's not really an achievement. I am however proud of the qualifications, knowledge, wisdom that I've earned in learning and experience. You seem to want to use a degree and Mensa as a "trump card" and that's nonsensical. Matters are debated on their relative merits rather than someone stating that their views are more valid and correct just because of a degree or Mensa. If only it was so simple, because this exchange would've been concluded ages ago, and not in your favour.
I have little else to say to you, and you may respond in whatever manner you like. However, as a supposedly intelligent woman in her 40s, you might consider injecting a little class into your behaviour.
