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I have been punting a long time but this dreadful experience shows that, no matter how experienced and savvy we think we are, virtually all of us are prone to making mistakes. This horrible escort:
- double-booked me and kept me waiting 40mins
- stole my money, providing no service
- claimed she was filming me and threatened blackmail
- attempted to kidnap me and threatened to have me beaten up
Long version: I made a booking by text (30mins @ £100) a few hours in advance, texting again before I got in the car to leave for where KinkiiKat was working, a hotel in central Swindon. When I arrived and parked near the hotel, I noticed that she had texted saying her friend had taken another booking without her knowing so would not be free till 30mins after the appointed time.
Normally I would have knocked this on the head there and then but there seemed few alternative appealing options locally and I had already seen this escort on two previous occasions (reviewed once), both positive punts. Therefore, I stuck with it and said I would wait. As it turned out it was a further 10mins, so 40mins after the original appointment time before she was ready and I made my way to the room.
Given the long wait, I thought it was reasonable to ask for a discount - and I have received this on previous occasions with escorts when they've kept me waiting a considerable time. This was no more than a suggestion in a calm and polite way. Kat refused (got bills to pay etc) so I said okay. I had handed over the money first, anyway, which was a mistake.
She then put on this ridiculous act of being stressed by this suggestion, saying she was uncomfortable and doing deep breathing. FFS. I just gave her time to calm down but as time went on, I suggested either we continue or she refunds my money and I leave. She asked me to leave but refused to give my money back, holding on to it tightly.
The escort put her phone up to my face, saying she was filming me, would post it and would tell my wife (I don't have one). She also said she was going to phone someone to come and beat me up, and did phone someone to come to her room.
Attempting to take the money back would have involved some violence, which I didn't really want to do, so tried to reason with her, but it to no avail. I did threaten to report her which set her off. Unfortunately, she did manage to get past me to the door and blocked it, not letting me leave, again putting the camera up and demanding I speak into it and say I could keep the money and wouldn't report her.
At this stage, I just wanted to get out of there, even without the £100, but she was still blocking the door. I did manage to force it open and leave minus the money. On exiting, I did see her friend/fellow escort/wife as she calls her. Which I suspected was the person who she called but one never knows if they called anyone else or not.
So this escort is not only physically unattractive, but she is a horrible person as well.
ConclusionsI have taken a number of lessons from this:
- pull over a couple of times mid-journey and check text messages
- don't stick around longer than 15mins even if there are no other options unless you really can trust the escort
- don't bother to even ask politely for discounts and if you do, do so in advance via text
However, these are mistakes in putting myself in this position; it does not excuse the disgraceful behaviour of this skank who is liable to do something similar to other punters.