It boils my blood how people bang on about “It’s PC gone mad when you can’t say coloured any more!” and the like. It’s not hard to use the right naming for ethnic groups, otherwise it’s ignorance and you’ll end up being the butt of a Russell Howard impression.
Your punt will go much better if you don’t offend her in the first 10 seconds.
Of course, don’t let me stop you from calling them all coloureds, Pakis and Chinks. Women love a smooth talker.