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Author Topic: Ripped off: a cautionary tale  (Read 16460 times)

+1 pointless thread if no name and shame.
Tap Dancer isn't relevant, she ripped you off and may do the same elsewhere.

Sadly, both cancer and depression are pretty common, and I've had plenty of experience with both.  So this isn't a wind-up (and if anyone thinks I've made up all of this for some bizarre reason, my Adultwork emails would prove otherwise, I could give Adam and Nik access to my AW account to verify).

Meanwhile this thread is giving me a chance to "vent" somewhat... and maybe it will encourage the escort to do some thinking when she reads it.


For instance: among the many things I don't understand about this... where did the rage come from?

She didn't actually blacklist me until after my visit to her apartment, she'd just been ignoring all my messages until then.  But then she went ballistic.  I later spotted the fact that every single email I had ever sent her (right back to the run-up to our first meeting) was flagged as "deleted", and she had even deleted some UKP PM's we had exchanged... as if she was trying to erase me from existence.

But what did she expect?  I was only doing what I had to do: what she had forced me to do, by refusing to answer my messages for so long.  If any other escort had done that to me, I would have given up on her and moved on: but she had my money.  So how did she think that was going to work out?  And why flip out when the inevitable finally happened?  Yes, I was rather harsh with her, but I was the one who actually had a reason to be pissed off... what was her problem?

How could she ever possibly have imagined that I would just quietly "walk off into the sunset", and leave her all that money... without ever knowing why???

Really, "mental illness" is the only explanation that sounds even vaguely plausible.  Somehow she was incapable of understanding the consequences of her actions, or was so wrapped up in her own little bubble of misery that she couldn't think about anything else:  until I popped her bubble and she flipped out.

punch yourself in the teary vagina next time you feel like sharing. Useless bullshit.

things we learnt from youonlybelievehisbullshitonce:
he is a fluffy falling in love with courtesans of the nighttime variety
gives a 1300 loan to someone who vanishes and eventually tells him to fuck off, etc and doesnt want to warn others in case it harms her livelihood
is in denial still
hopes for true love in a tale of fraud, theft, scamming stories, prostitution and being tolf to fuck off.


yougotdonemanytimes I suggest you stop punting. This story is so transparent, it is hardly the da vinci code, and she is no bourne identity here.  Your fluffiness means punting is as wise for you as  your vaginal pyramid scheme was. Seriously, you need to cease punting. like stephen hawking paintballing, you are a very easy mark and they probably see you a mile off.


Offline west8

The 'cancer' part was the giveaway. But we're not all cold-hearted sceptics, so sometimes it doesn't hurt to give even a stranger the benefit of the doubt.

Heck, I even give my change to the pretend homeless guy who is ALWAYS outside a certain local shop. He has a shiny iphone, a well-groomed dog and is always clean-shaven.

But if he has the time and bollocks to sit there all day for £50, that's his business. FUCK sitting in office all day like 85% of the sad cunts who probably walk past him.

Offline CBPaul

Yet another post detailing how a prossie is a thief / dangerous and presumably should be avoided followed by refusal to post a link and ending with the inevitable accusations of the OP being bullshit.  :dash:

OP if this is true then you were well and truly suckered. She spotted you as a good, soft  target and played you well. Surely the buy 1 get 2 free offer should have rung alarm bells. Then to keep you at arms length and ensure you don't start making trouble she plays the cancer card.

Obviously you were never going to post a link - not because she may have cancer but because you don't want the repercussions of having a pissed off prossie after you. A link isn't that necessary though, most of us would never lend a prossie money and so wouldn't be done over like you have been. Instead we will do what most punters do - go and pay the going rate, have a session and leave.

I'm curious though - you got an inheritance but can now only divert £100 a month for punting. Excluding the 1300, did you punt your way through the entire windfall ? If so perhaps you need to re-evaluate punting in general. 


Offline dboy74

Whether this "guy" is a time waster or a fantasist this is a completely pointless thread!

Offline Simon S

Banning reason: Pestering admin + Making accusations against admin

Offline PumpAction

Sadly, both cancer and depression are pretty common, and I've had plenty of experience with both.  So this isn't a wind-up (and if anyone thinks I've made up all of this for some bizarre reason, my Adultwork emails would prove otherwise, I could give Adam and Nik access to my AW account to verify).

Meanwhile this thread is giving me a chance to "vent" somewhat... and maybe it will encourage the escort to do some thinking when she reads it.


For instance: among the many things I don't understand about this... where did the rage come from?

She didn't actually blacklist me until after my visit to her apartment, she'd just been ignoring all my messages until then.  But then she went ballistic.  I later spotted the fact that every single email I had ever sent her (right back to the run-up to our first meeting) was flagged as "deleted", and she had even deleted some UKP PM's we had exchanged... as if she was trying to erase me from existence.

But what did she expect?  I was only doing what I had to do: what she had forced me to do, by refusing to answer my messages for so long.  If any other escort had done that to me, I would have given up on her and moved on: but she had my money.  So how did she think that was going to work out?  And why flip out when the inevitable finally happened?  Yes, I was rather harsh with her, but I was the one who actually had a reason to be pissed off... what was her problem?

How could she ever possibly have imagined that I would just quietly "walk off into the sunset", and leave her all that money... without ever knowing why???

Really, "mental illness" is the only explanation that sounds even vaguely plausible.  Somehow she was incapable of understanding the consequences of her actions, or was so wrapped up in her own little bubble of misery that she couldn't think about anything else:  until I popped her bubble and she flipped out.

Any sympathy I had for you is long gone. You sound like a complete sap. She took your money over a year ago and you're now "venting" with this rambling nonsense. If you're not going to expose her, just shut up and get over it.

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I wanted to go to the hospital, but she didn't want me there (no makeup, she "looked terrible" etc.)
She forgot to mention in her list of excus.... , sorry, I mean reasons for not wanting you there was that she wasn't actually in hospital at all. You should've called her bluff, told her you don't care that she has no makeup on or whatever and that you're setting off now to visit her, "See you in xxx minutes."
 

Offline The happy one

Really sorry got bored trying to read all the posts

Did he name her in the end. That is the only thing let to do.

Was there other posts on another thread where the same prozzie had done the name to a couple of other clients
Banning reason: Suspected pimp involved in organizing parties

I was really feeling sorry for you as I read the beginning of the story but as the story went on and you continued to make excuses for her my sympathy declined. It reached the zero point when you refused to name and shame her despite numerous punters asking you to do so. Someone robs all that money from you and you are still concerned about their career and well being? You are an idiot, not because of your mistake of lending money to a wg (everyone makes mistakes) but because of your actions or lack thereof after being scammed.

Offline Matium

Not much of a cautionary tale if Youonlyliveonce is not going to tell us who it is who's being cautioned against.

The best thing Youonlyliveonce can do is forswear punting until he realises that it is a business transaction only.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2014, 10:42:42 AM by Matium »

The OP didn't start this thread for our benefit. It's a thinly veiled attempt for him to re-establish contact with the WG who robbed him.

Offline James999

If she actually exists, just sounds like a load of mae up bollocks to me  :thumbsdown:

Offline akauya


I'm curious though - you got an inheritance but can now only divert £100 a month for punting. Excluding the 1300, did you punt your way through the entire windfall ? If so perhaps you need to re-evaluate punting in general.

That's exactly what I was thinking. First he says he got a windfall then later that he was short of cash. It couldn't have been much of a windfall then, unless he was visiting courtesans in between lending money to prossies :)

Yet another post detailing how a prossie is a thief / dangerous and presumably should be avoided followed by refusal to post a link and ending with the inevitable accusations of the OP being bullshit.  :dash:

OP if this is true then you were well and truly suckered. She spotted you as a good, soft  target and played you well. Surely the buy 1 get 2 free offer should have rung alarm bells. Then to keep you at arms length and ensure you don't start making trouble she plays the cancer card.

Obviously you were never going to post a link - not because she may have cancer but because you don't want the repercussions of having a pissed off prossie after you. A link isn't that necessary though, most of us would never lend a prossie money and so wouldn't be done over like you have been. Instead we will do what most punters do - go and pay the going rate, have a session and leave.

I'm curious though - you got an inheritance but can now only divert £100 a month for punting. Excluding the 1300, did you punt your way through the entire windfall ? If so perhaps you need to re-evaluate punting in general.

Initially I had £10,000..  She got £1300, then about £4000 went on general punting, then £2000 on car repairs, leaving about £3000.

For those who are urging me to give up punting: this was an expensive lesson, but I learned it well, nothing like this will ever happen again.  I have now greatly cut back on how often I punt, I'm not about to blow the rest.

Offline akauya

But I think it's fair to say that I am now "cured"!  And I've carried on punting since.

I cringed through most of your posts on this thread and still not sure whether you are a wind-up or not but if you say you are "cured" why are you not naming the prossie in question?

I really don't know what you were expecting from UKP; a group hug perhaps? As you probably noticed (I hope you did anyway) we are not here for group therapy. We are here to share good and bad experiences and if some of the experiences are bad really bad then warn other members in case they get stung too and give them the full details to avoid scamming prossies.

What you did posting this thread would be fine to warn perhaps newbie punter of the pitfalls of our hobby if they end up getting too emotionally involved with prossies.

What you did wrong is post the thread as a warning but not giving the details of this prossie who really looks like a dangerous one to get involved with. Without the link to the prostitute who scammed you your post is just a story just like many others floating about on the internet... i.e. take it with a pinch of salt.

The OP didn't start this thread for our benefit. It's a thinly veiled attempt for him to re-establish contact with the WG who robbed him.

Yes, there is an element of that.  She is a UKP member.  She will read this thread.

This isn't over.

Offline Matium

UKP member!!!!!

Who?

You've got to name her now!

Don't you realise what you've just done?

You've put every girl on UKP under suspicion!

Offline west8

Yes, there is an element of that.  She is a UKP member.  She will read this thread.

This isn't over.

Assuming that the story is genuine, what would you like to happen next?

Offline maxxblue

Yes, there is an element of that.  She is a UKP member.  She will read this thread.

This isn't over.


Offline PumpAction

Yes, there is an element of that.  She is a UKP member.  She will read this thread.

This isn't over.

Oooh. I bet she's scared. It's been over a year you prick. Just let it go.


Offline akauya

Yes, there is an element of that.  She is a UKP member.  She will read this thread.

This isn't over.

It certainly isn't! For the sake of the good female members of UKP you have to name her now. Otherwise, as Matium said, all you do is put every girl on UKP under suspicion and that is just not on!

Predictable.  Every time a punter reports being scammed,  he gets attacked for it.

There actually IS a pretty good chance that she had cancer, or something suspected of being cancer.  And while that doesn't excuse what she did,  she has exploited the goodwill of a guy who has obviously had too many traumatic experiences with cancer in the past.

And let's not forget that she threatened his family .

But I've heard a rumour about a Bristol-based WG with an "ear problem", I will try to find out more. FWIW, this  one hasn't posted on UKP for a long time, though she's showing a fairly recent login.

I am single, and untouchable.  I can do what he cannot.

Offline west8

Predictable.  Every time a punter reports being scammed,  he gets attacked for it.

No-one attacked the OP for getting scammed.

He has rightly been criticised for his cowardice in failing to name the alleged scammer.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2014, 11:40:00 AM by west8 »


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