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Offline peewee

Just wondering whether you take your wedding ring off when you see a WG?

Offline Quesadilla

Just wondering whether you take your wedding ring off when you see a WG?
Yes, but only to prevent me losing it up her fanny while fisting her.  :hi:

Kidding - separated now so not an issue anymore and I never punted while married but for me there would have been no point in removing it. It always left a clear mark on my finger so would not only be obvious that I was married but also that I was keen to hide the fact. 
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

Just wondering whether you take your wedding ring off when you see a WG?

Leave mine on. You're there to fuck her not pull her. WGs aren't interested one way or the other.

tcm

Offline doc14

Agree with TCM they are not bothered.  In the past WG's have told me about forthcoming holidays with their fellas, kids, also about saving money for kids presents. I am under no illusions some have partners, husbands, kids etc so do not be bothered about wearing / not wearing wedding rings.  They really do not care. 
Would be interesting if a WG actually said "sorry I can't see you as you are married"!

Offline ruby-tuesday

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If a WG is bothered about seeing married punters she is definitely in the wrong job.. Firstly because moralising about it in her shoes is frankly bizarre and secondly, married men are likely to be her bread and butter. Don't bite the hand that feeds and all that (yes, I came across ParisGate!)

From a WG perspective, don't worry about it at all! We know a large percentage of our clients are likely to be married, it's okay. Maybe don't bring your wife up though, partly to protect yourself and your privacy and partly because it's just not the time or the place  :P

Personally I think it's better to go to a pro than risk an affair with all that emotional attachment and a far higher risk of it getting messy.. I know that when I've cheated in the past I felt far worse when there was some emotion involved. Thankfully I'm single now and would love to settle down one day but would probably go for an open relationship, just because I an so very aware of the drive for sex outside long term relationships and how normal that desire is!!
« Last Edit: October 28, 2014, 11:13:37 AM by ruby-tuesday »

Offline west8

I took my wedding ring off the day after I got married and put it in a drawer for safe keeping.

It's been there ever since!

When I was married many moons ago I left mine in a locker in a massage parlour one time. Didn't have time to go back once I realised as was meeting the Mrs in town. Made up a cock and bull story how I lost it and she seemed to buy it

Offline LL

I don't take it off on a punt but have considered doing so since WGs often comment on it and then want to know whether I've got kids too, how long I've been married, etc.  I.e. they want to know stuff that I don't want to talk about on a punt.

I take it off and leave it behind whenever I remember to do it.

There might be a psychological aspect (I don't want to be suddenly reminded that I'm married when I'm groping an escort), but I also prefer to leave all unnecessary valuables behind (it's a chunk of gold after all).  And as my fingers haven't got thicker since I first started wearing it, the indentation left behind after I take it off becomes pretty much invisible after a few minutes.  I prefer not to announce that I'm married on a "first date" with a new escort.

I've lost the plot with this one. As long as you pay her, she ain't interested. And if she asks, give her some bullshit. The last thing I'd be doing is taking it off as your chances of losing it are 200x greater...... FFS use your brains!!!

tcm

Offline bakerted

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FFS use your brains!!!

Don't get married in the first place!


I'm not worried about whether she has an issue with married men (I would assume not).  I'm more concerned about the possibility of being robbed, or announcing that I'm vulnerable to being blackmailed.

If I forget to take if off and stash it in a safe place before the meet, I'll leave it on.  Too much risk of it getting lost otherwise.

But I think it's mostly because I like to be "not married" for awhile.

Offline raylondoner

if you take it off they will see the ring mark anyway - WG's are not stupid, usually!  :dance:

Offline Hertsgent

I followed the same path as west8.....much easier !

Offline dilettante

I'm sure they prefer married punters as the cutoff afterwards will be complete and total, just how they like it.

Offline Dante

Take it off? I hardly ever wear it on my finger in the first place, never have.

Offline Krystyna

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Iv only ever known 1 guy who used to take his wedding ring off . He once forgot to put it back on and had to leg it back into the brothel and knock on door to the room he had been in disturbing some guy who was on the `vinegar strokes `!

I keep mine on, what does it matter...I'd only loose it, if removed..

I had a little chuckle to myself the other day whilst fingering a girl and watching my wedding ring getting wet..oh such fun... not sure the other half would find it amusing though...


Offline carefree

Why SHOULD you take it off, WG's dont give a flying fuck as long as you hand over the cash, its not a relationship its a business transaction.
Banning reason: Troll

Offline Stiltskin

I take it off and leave it behind whenever I remember to do it.

There might be a psychological aspect (I don't want to be suddenly reminded that I'm married when I'm groping an escort)

Me too, there's always a remote possibility that they might ask you about your marriage. It has happened to me in the past and I find it a real turn off.

Offline Daffodil

Why SHOULD you take it off, WG's dont give a flying fuck as long as you hand over the cash, its not a relationship its a business transaction.

I imagine the fluffier ones amongst us take them off, precisely because they do see it as a relationship  :crazy:

Offline Dante

I don't see any reason to give confirmation of my marital status by wearing it. Don't ask, don't tell.
« Last Edit: October 30, 2014, 04:56:43 PM by Dante »

Offline Greenman

Don't wear it anyway

Don't recomend that you take it off as you wil probably looses it

Girl doesn't care as its a Buisness transaction
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End off

Just wondering whether you take your wedding ring off when you see a WG?

nope, but I always insist she removes hers.


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