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Author Topic: I don't understand...........  (Read 714 times)

domination. 

It's something I've never understood, I'm sure there must be someone on here who has enjoyed this & I'm just trying to figure out what the appeal is? 

For example, I've just noticed this profile on AW https://www.adultwork.com/1290659.  The girl looks gorgeous & I'm sure a lot of blokes would love to meet her & shag her (if she offered it) but reading some of her profile has me bewildered  :dash:

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I am Mistress Freya I am a young blonde bombshell, and i deserve to be treated and spoilt like one. I enjoy nothing more than manipulating weak men, taking there hard earned money and leaving there stupid little imaginations to run wild with what I might be doing with real men whilst spending there cash.
I also love to make men suffer under my supremacy by trampling, whipping ,ballbusting, spitting and faceslapping them just to name a few of the ways I love to torture slaves.
I want you to pay my bills and shower me in gifts whilst you fantasize over my pictures and my perfection to have little losers like you twisted round my little finger . If you have now read this then I have you right where I want you so its time to worship me and become addicted to your new Princess.
Crawl to me now!!
I AM your ONLY escapism, enlightenment, and enjoyment!
YOU ARE my pet, my play thing, PATHETIC slave, sissy and payment piggy.


I can understand the pleasure / pain thing to a certain extent though I'll give ballbusting a miss  :scare: but I don't understand what the turn on is for a man in the bits I've highlighted.

Can someone explain how they get excited about a service like this?

Offline Marmalade

Not my kind of thing at all, but if would want to understand the psychology for some strange reason, Venus in Furs (by Sacher Masoch) is the book for you. It makes shit like that so totally believable you are worried about the author's own mental state to be able to write it. Bloody masterpiece of course.

Offline ladyofthemansion

I do phonechat for a man called Money Pig. He fantasises about me dragging him by a collar and dog lead to the cash machine and making him give me the lot. Trouble is he keeps promising to turn up and do it for real but sadly never does. :( So he gets off on a 20pound pound call.

Not my kind of thing at all, but if would want to understand the psychology for some strange reason, Venus in Furs (by Sacher Masoch) is the book for you. It makes shit like that so totally believable you are worried about the author's own mental state to be able to write it. Bloody masterpiece of course.

Thanks, just found a free online copy so will have a read at some point.

Offline GlasgowGirl

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It is a great book, and is not too long either so easy to read in one sitting

Offline smiths

domination. 

It's something I've never understood, I'm sure there must be someone on here who has enjoyed this & I'm just trying to figure out what the appeal is? 

For example, I've just noticed this profile on AW https://www.adultwork.com/1290659.  The girl looks gorgeous & I'm sure a lot of blokes would love to meet her & shag her (if she offered it) but reading some of her profile has me bewildered  :dash:

I can understand the pleasure / pain thing to a certain extent though I'll give ballbusting a miss  :scare: but I don't understand what the turn on is for a man in the bits I've highlighted.

Can someone explain how they get excited about a service like this?

I gave it a go but its not my bag, being called an ugly cunt by an ugly WG wasnt my idea of fun. However some guys love it and get off on it so its what floats their boats. ;)

Offline Marmalade

Thanks, just found a free online copy so will have a read at some point.
Not the same unless you have an e-reader personally methinks. I don't feel skimming will work so well. Bit like reading a horror story - you have to let the ideas and characters seep into you. The guy starts out fairly normal then develops into (what most of us would view) as one sick fuck. Her role is to humiliate him as much as possible, which is what he also gets off on.

With Marquis de Sade (a heavier but also interesting read, from the opposite perspective) there is the sense of tongue in cheek and being in control (he just made a lot of it up anyway). Whereas with Masoch you feel sucked into his world. As GG says, it's a great read and one you can do in a single sitting - maybe late at night - then wake up the next day and feel pleased that you have more 'normal' desires. With de Sade, it's more physical stuff (like, how spanking the buttocks brings the blood to the surface and hence increases sensitivity and hence pleasure etc . . .); but with Masoch it is deep nasty psychological games . . . The taste lingers . . . !
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Offline SteveNova

Two way spanking can be a turn on, but I don't understand the hands off worship and humiliation services where guys are subject to demeaning commands.  For those into it, it's good that there are providers available.  I read that it appeals to those with high levels of responsibility and decision making, who want someone else to take control.

Offline Melb

I get all that at home for free!
Torture, humiliation and knicking my money.

Online NIK

I used to seek domination, however by and large the reality was never as good as the fantasy.
My problem is that I also like sex too and most 'proper' dommes don't cater for this. Furthermore I don't find many of them attractive. If I am to submit to a woman I simply have to find her attractive - indeed fancy her!- which comes back to sex.
There is no way I could submit to some fat, old cow  :scare:
I suppose I am just happy to give the woman pleasure and let her take the lead if she wants.

As for financial and distance domination that is just complete bollocks as far as I am concerned.
Women who can get men to just send them money without actually doing anything for it must think all their Christmases have come at once.  :cool:
However if they are lucky enough to get 'financial slaves' I don't blame the women but the men must be totally barmy.

Now who wants to be MY 'money pig'? I could do with a bob or two.  :lol: :lol: :lol:


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