Why do you punt?

[Brompton]

No interaction with Mrs W, only on birthdays. Very plain, roll on/ off allowed. And the suggestion of talking about spicing anything up is met with a weeks silence.

Ev3n the basics like a hug, is out the question.

So punting is the only way to go.

You will see in my post #30 you are not alone mate re a hug (kiss, let alone anything more)

Seems in some cases women have a real knack for making some of us feel like total perverts.

Need to stop checking this thread as it’s winding me up & brings back memories that are not great.

I’ll check the thread again later 

[webpunter]

No interaction with Mrs W, only on birthdays. Very plain, roll on/ off allowed. And the suggestion of talking about spicing anything up is met with a weeks silence.

Ev3n the basics like a hug, is out the question.

So punting is the only way to go.

Birthdays only crikey
A couple of my mates in the taps turned off situation
One of them mentioned BBC & my response was WTF
He was meaning birthdays bank holidays & christmas day

The RORO ferry shag seems to be common

Punting isn't the only way to go - tho needs must
If life is this frosty gotta think about kicking her into the long grass
Only one go at life ...
Carry on punting [obvs] & no [permanent] trailer-in-tow makes this sooo much easier 
 

[Rockhead]

I've been punting for nine years, although haven't done so in the past 12 months.

I saw it as making up for lost time. Never got to have sex in my younger, hornier years (I am early 50s now), but it has mostly been bloody great catching up in that department, and shagging around 30 women who would obviously be way out of my league otherwise. A few of those I have seen multiple times.

I would love to be in a mutually loving relationship with someone I fancy, but that's increasingly unlikely to happen again now, but I am looking forward to punting again from next month due to an upturn in financial fortunes!

[Mrwumpty]

I really don't mean to be dick, but realise this may come across that way. Does she not show you ant affection at all? Or does she not allow a hug because (understandably if you are sexually frustrated) trying to turn the hug into something more?

Just nothing mate… like being married to a sister ( apart from the birthday of course)

[Mrwumpty]

Deeper issue is…

Mortgage free, so if we split, 50/50, i end up renting because dont want a mortgage at my age, thats even if i could get one..

So… punting it is.

[PumpDump]

One woman has never been enough for me. I want different things on different days, sexually, looks wise, socially, racially, whatever. Whoever the woman Im with has been Ive always wanted that variety. Its not something that will ever change. Punting (and sugaring) is a way to control that without letting emotions get in the way and really fuck things up. For punting I’ve always liked the illegality (yes I know), the seediness, the risk of getting caught. Fir some reason that shit turns ne on

I feel exactly the same. It is not just the deed, but the lead up to it, the organising of it, that first walk in to a strange girls bedroom (more so when she is semi-pro, or even better uni student).

[PumpDump]

I've a relative in a care home and they are, unironically, paying roughly £1,000 per week to be there. For that price they should be providing at least once weekly escort visits for the inmates clients!

Kind of related question, but if you live in a care home do they try to stop you bringing escorts in or fucking the other residents?

[Mrwumpty]

You will see in my post #30 you are not alone mate re a hug (kiss, let alone anything more)

Seems in some cases women have a real knack for making some of us feel like total perverts.

Need to stop checking this thread as it’s winding me up & brings back memories that are not great.

I’ll check the thread again later 

100% agree mate. Same here..

In my head i call her Mrs Frosty.. cause shes that cold towards me..

She is a perfect wife in every other way tbf. But totally emotionally nothing. Zero, zilch,

Its difficult for so many reasons, which is why punting is important to me, very much needed.

[8MillionDollarMan]

It's the only way I get to have sex, and I still really like having sex.

Well summed up.

[Spacecowb0y]

A wife that doesn't prioritise sex and never has.
I found a review site by accident and it opened pandoras box around 1998.
We have grown children and an otherwise good marriage, but sex has always been a struggle for her.
I figured long ago that fast cars and fast women keep me sane.
Golf drives me nuts, but i try

[NickyBobby]

It's the only way I get to have sex, and I still really like having sex.

Same, but for different reasons.

Before, it was because the wife wanted a champagne lifestyle on a Prosecco budget to keep up with the Jones and withheld sex a few years into marriage when she didn’t get everything she wanted

Now, reality has hit, we are in the process of divorcing because she over-stretched our finances wanting a house that’s far too big for us leaving us vulnerable to interest rate rises. I perversly hope the house is in negative equity so she gets fuck all and I can start life again, but I think we’ll both get a decent payout

[pantywetter]

I feel exactly the same. It is not just the deed, but the lead up to it, the organising of it, that first walk in to a strange girls bedroom (more so when she is semi-pro, or even better uni student).

There’s nothing like hearing the heels clicking as she comes to open the door.  My favourite sound in the world!

[Chazz]

Deeper issue is…

Mortgage free, so if we split, 50/50, i end up renting because dont want a mortgage at my age, thats even if i could get one..

So… punting it is.

I'm in a similar situation. It's a choice between living in some sad lonely bachelor's bedsit paying all my income on rent, or living in a nice house where I get my meals cooked and my shirts ironed and I've got loads of disposable income to literally spunk all over an endless supply of beautiful women. Bit of a no-brainer really! 

[The Monk]

Just love the excitement and the variety of sex available from a wide range of females couples and trans.

[MysteryManNo.7]

There’s nothing like hearing the heels clicking as she comes to open the door.  My favourite sound in the world!

Ah I thought this yesterday and couldn't agree more. Doesn't matter if it's a woman I'm meeting for the first time or the 15th time, that sound always gets me to attention! 

[webpunter]

There’s nothing like hearing the heels clicking as she comes to open the door.  My favourite sound in the world!

+1
The magic door moment & what lies behind it
& the feeling of a new pair of hands & gob

[ik8133]

There’s nothing like hearing the heels clicking as she comes to open the door.  My favourite sound in the world!

It's the anticipation, the excitement of it, wondering if she'll look as good as her pictures!

Having been married for nearly 40 years, I like the variety that punting offers, I'm not a frequent punter but have been have visited some fine escorts and a few sugar babes.  The sugar babe dynamic is more like a real girlfriend and not one has used lube in any of our encounters!   

[Markc]

Like many l expect l started punting when the sex stopped in our marriage. When we were first married for the first 18 months sex was on tap when ever l wanted it as the wife wanted to get pregnant. When she was and for about 2 years after our daughter was born there was no sex at all.

This was about 30 years ago and in those days l used to see adverts in local papers and then phone a landline number for details and the address as then there where few mobiles around then. Got a bit easier to contact a SP when l got a mobile myself but it was still adverts in papers and visiting a massage parlour when 3 or 4 girls would be working. As l was late 20’s by then l was seeing woman around my own age.

I have punting regularly now over the years and do about 15 punts a year. Maybe not many by some people’s standards on here but it is fine for me. Trying to find new decent girls is now getting to be a nightmare so l have 2 main regulars l see, one just a little younger than me and a blonde in her 30’s. I do visit Manchester regularly and like to visit some of the parlours and get outcall bookings from agencies to my hotel. Even though l am 57 now still like to see woman in their 20’s and punting allows me to do this. I am only ever looking to book punts and would never go down the root of trying to be a sugar daddy.

I have fucked many great escorts over the years including Russians, Polish and American women. Would have never had a chance with these if l wasn’t paying for it.

Strangely after years of no sex with the wife and now our daughter has left home, now she turned 50 she wants sex again.
I get to fuck her about 3 times a month but it is very vanilla to what l get with my regulars. With the wife l do most of the work and she likes to be massaged and played with. Sometimes for birthdays and anniversary’s l might get a blow job but there no cumming in her mouth.

[Southernbloke]

Why do I punt ? Good question, probably to begin with it was because I didn’t want to get tied down with girlfriends who would only put out if they had a ring on their finger. So seeing girls who charged was the best way for me. Eventually I got married late twenties and stopped punting for about 2 years but I missed the thrill of punting too much .
I love spending time with different women ( and money) . I try to punt a couple of times a month but now usually see ladies I have seen before and reviewed .
Don’t plan to give up ever , I’ll probably have escorts visit me in my care home 😆

[Landscape]

I lack the looks, personality and chat to get women so punting is the only way I'll have sex.

This way I get to see women who are willing to do what I'm into so it works for me.

[Malvolio]

I'm not going to have sex with four different women 20 years younger than me on the same day in any other way.

[Charliehutton]

I'm not going to have sex with four different women 20 years younger than me on the same day in any other way.

Change '20' to '40', and 'on the same day' to 'in the same month', and I'm with you all the way, Malvolio!

[alabama1]

Change '20' to '40', and 'on the same day' to 'in the same month', and I'm with you all the way, Malvolio!

With you on this one Charlie 

[ppunterr]

Strangely after years of no sex with the wife and now our daughter has left home, now she turned 50 she wants sex again.
I get to fuck her about 3 times a month but it is very vanilla to what l get with my regulars. With the wife l do most of the work and she likes to be massaged and played with. Sometimes for birthdays and anniversary’s l might get a blow job but there no cumming in her mouth.

Having had my wife not putting out for 15 years and reverting to punting, if she suddenly decided she wants sex again, I'd be so tempted to just tell her to 'fuck off' and give her a taste of her own medicine ... but in reality, not sure what I'd do as the punting does fill the void.

[Thephoenix]

Change '20' to '40', and 'on the same day' to 'in the same month', and I'm with you all the way, Malvolio!

Slight edit:

Change (20 to 40) to read ' from age 20 to 75ish.
Don't like my ladies too old.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Asian women, the only reason.

[Steveraynor]

Having had my wife not putting out for 15 years and reverting to punting, if she suddenly decided she wants sex again, I'd be so tempted to just tell her to 'fuck off' and give her a taste of her own medicine ... but in reality, not sure what I'd do as the punting does fill the void.

I agree. I would do the same.

[Mr Sinister]

I had a scratch to itch, itch got scratched, it opened the door to reality I could get easy access to sex and settle certain urges without having to go through the hoops of civvie dating world. Like I want a specific body type/features it can easily be had punting I go direct to the source.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Asian women, the only reason.

Edit: Asian women in stockings.

[Bluelight85]

I started my first punting with taking HE at massage parlours, then later full sex with WG’s, I liked the intimacy as it was more than I get at home, from a wife who otherwise treats me like she trod on me accidentally in the park, it’s not simply about the wife “putting out” for me, it’s about her making me feel like shit. My first encounter was a covered blowjob which I felt so guilty to the point of almost being sick over it, but then the constant moods from the wife, sometimes even blackmailing me with sex led me to do other things and to be honest with a wife that lays there like a piece of wood it’s not enjoyable at all, with her 5 second blowjob and tired ‘can’t be bothered’ hand jobs, but with a working girl there is the excitement and the fun side of it, and it’s no strings it’s not a case of “you forgot to  take down the rubbish so no sex” kind of shit I get with her indoors

[JontyR]

I started my first punting with taking HE at massage parlours, then later full sex with WG’s, I liked the intimacy as it was more than I get at home, from a wife who otherwise treats me like she trod on me accidentally in the park, it’s not simply about the wife “putting out” for me, it’s about her making me feel like shit. My first encounter was a covered blowjob which I felt so guilty to the point of almost being sick over it, but then the constant moods from the wife, sometimes even blackmailing me with sex led me to do other things and to be honest with a wife that lays there like a piece of wood it’s not enjoyable at all, with her 5 second blowjob and tired ‘can’t be bothered’ hand jobs, but with a working girl there is the excitement and the fun side of it, and it’s no strings it’s not a case of “you forgot to  take down the rubbish so no sex” kind of shit I get with her indoors

Sorry pal, think you’ve posted this on the wrong thread. You’ll be wanting the “Why do you stay?” one.

[Jujy78]

The amount of people in a sexless marriage. Nice to know I'm not the only one

[Bluelight85]

The amount of people in a sexless marriage. Nice to know I'm not the only one

Indeed!! And by far sometimes even if a marriage has sex in it, it’s boring - at least with a WG they are willing to satisfy you rather than lay there like a sack of potatoes.

[alabama1]

Indeed!! And by far sometimes even if a marriage has sex in it, it’s boring - at least with a WG they are willing to satisfy you rather than lay there like a sack of potatoes.

Some, by no means all !

[webpunter]

Some, by no means all !

New potatoes ?

[adamza]

I punt because I love beautiful women of all shapes, sizes, and colours. Whilst I've had some luck in civvy life pulling girls "out of my league", realistically, I'm no prince charming and I would never be able to scratch every itch without punting.

I've had sex with some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen, of every ethnicity you could think of. I love variety, and punting has allowed me to have sex with a gorgeous young English woman, a beautiful Indian lass, a sexy Black girl, a voluptuous Latina, and a pretty little Oriental bird...all in the same month. I've had threesomes, been to parties, had gangbangs - there aren't many fantasies that have been left unfulfilled!

Also in terms of the sex itself, I've had some great relationships and enjoyed a good sex life with civvy partners...but there are certain things that civvy girls just don't seem keen on doing on a regular basis. Whilst I do enjoy having sex with someone I care for, sometimes I need more than just vanilla love making. Punting allows me to get down and dirty and find ladies that are willing to do everything I'm in the mood for 

The only downside of punting for me is the significant financial outlay If I won the lottery tomorrow, I'd be punting every other day for the rest of my life...but alas, I live in the real world, and for that reason I have to keep a lid on my desires these days 

[Fush]

I know this is an old thread, but I wasn't a member back then and I'm sure there are other new(ish) members who would like to contribute.

My story is already known, but for me it's to play catch-up and get to experience things that I wished I'd done in the past. To chat, kiss, hug and have sex with beautiful women of different ages, types and looks. To gain more confidence with women for the real world (still a work in progress) and frankly because its fun and exciting (when it goes right!)

[Paul9144]

I know this is an old thread, but I wasn't a member back then and I'm sure there are other new(ish) members who would like to contribute.

My story is already known, but for me it's to play catch-up and get to experience things that I wished I'd done in the past. To chat, kiss, hug and have sex with beautiful women of different ages, types and looks. To gain more confidence with women for the real world (still a work in progress) and frankly because its fun and exciting (when it goes right!)

I feel meeting and enjoying the experience of having good (no strings attached) sex with multiple highly attractive women is a significant factor. I enjoy many aspects of punting, most of it turns me on to be honest (obviously, apart from the few negatives).

I feel that being a member of UKP has heightened my punting experiences to indeed a great level, sharing as well as reading.

[MaxVerstappen]

Why do you punt?

Because it beats chatting, dating and listening to their bullshit.

[deg_dilemma]

OK as we're dredging up old threads:

I went for the quality time spent with a SP where I could have some conversation with, be close to as in hold, caress, kiss - the more 'feely' stuff ... and then get real kinky and enjoy some good foreplay and sex. I struggle much these days trying to find SPs that are willing or able to have these more intimate kind of meetings. It's much more the Roms and Brazilians that have made the industry more transactional than personal, which is real shame.

[therichardrichard]

Why do you punt?

Because it beats chatting, dating and listening to their bullshit.

The ROI is definitely better than in my younger days out on the pull in terms of cost, time and effort!

I'm mostly happy with everything I've got in life right now but there are some itches I need to scratch so for me it's all about getting to fulfil those needs (and kinks!) that I can't get satisfied in real life given my "social situation" and increasing age. Like I'm not that old but whatever else in my life changes even if I lost it all my days of pulling a fit and willing twentysomething in a nightclub are a long way behind me!

I've always had a bit of a thing for bums and there was a girl who I was fucking for a while who let me stick a finger up hers while eating her pussy and it turned out I liked it. Once we ended it was extremely rare that I got to do that again with only the occasional drunken one night stand permitting me to slip a finger up my now favourite hole.

Ended up in a long term relationship and although great in every other way that kind of thing was definitely off the cards. A few years in I found myself in a situation with an old acquantantace and we ended up sleeping together in a hotel. I knew she wasn't adverse to a finger up the bum so indulged myself. I'd never tried rimming before and neither had she but while she was bent over and her asshole was right there in front of me it looked so perfect I stuck my tongue in without thinking and it turned out we both LOVED IT and it was a fucking incredbible moment!

Obviusly felt guilty but we still met up a couple more times but we lived a long way apart so it fizzled out which was for the best but there was now no outlet for my love of a good bottom. Then I found AW and realised I could just pay girls with nice bums to let me rim them without any other expectations! First few punts were just me rimming then and then a blowjob but one early Romainian with poor English assumed I wanted to fuck her...so against my own rule I did...and it all spiralled from there and now I feel like I'm living my 20's again and that feeling in the back of my mind that I was missing out on something or some part of my life is "over" is gone!

[Arripotter1971]

Mate of mine said he just gets sex on his mrs birthday, and unfortunately for him she was born on a leap year !!!
With me my Mrs went through early menopause when she was in her 40's over 10yrs since we had sex now, I have tried on a few occasions to initiate the deed, but that door gets well and truly slammed shut firmly in my face  So if I ever do get caught, this will be my rather weak defence LOL

[alabama1]

Mate of mine said he just gets sex on his mrs birthday, and unfortunately for him she was born on a leap year !!!
With me my Mrs went through early menopause when she was in her 40's over 10yrs since we had sex now, I have tried on a few occasions to initiate the deed, but that door gets well and truly slammed shut firmly in my face  So if I ever do get caught, this will be my rather weak defence LOL

Weak ? Cast iron more like. I rest my case !

[Jonestown]

Why do I punt, well it’s down to a lack of parental love when I was child, so I was told by an expensive psychologist, but on the other hand there are few things in life so enjoyable and exciting.

[midspunter]

For me, punting is a continual reminder that good sex doesn't start in the bedroom but is part of a whole journey of seduction that begins with the very first message. And I really love that whole journey, every step of it, whether it is with fabulous regulars that I've known for years or the occasional new woman (or sometimes man). It's a joy.

[alabama1]

For me, punting is a continual reminder that good sex doesn't start in the bedroom but is part of a whole journey of seduction that begins with the very first message. And I really love that whole journey, every step of it, whether it is with fabulous regulars that I've known for years or the occasional new woman (or sometimes man). It's a joy.

You sound like the punter from hell ! 

[midspunter]

You sound like the punter from hell ! 

 

[MaxVerstappen]

For me, punting is a continual reminder that good sex doesn't start in the bedroom but is part of a whole journey of seduction that begins with the very first message. And I really love that whole journey, every step of it, whether it is with fabulous regulars that I've known for years or the occasional new woman (or sometimes man). It's a joy.

You are describing chatting up a local girl etc etc. what has that got to do with this thread? 

Why do you punt?

[midspunter]

You are describing chatting up a local girl etc etc. what has that got to do with this thread? 

Why do you punt?

No, I'm not describing chatting someone up. I've explained that I punt because I enjoy the process. I like the search, reading an ad, the first contact, deciding whether she seems worth going ahead with after swapping a couple of messages, agreeing a time and a date, visiting the cash machine, driving there, the door opening, the hello conversation, the sex, and the shower after. Then, if it all works out, that's even better, because you have got someone you know is hopefully primed to meet you again where you'll probably have a good time with any uncertainty removed.

[MaxVerstappen]

No, I'm not describing chatting someone up. I've explained that I punt because I enjoy the process. I like the search, reading an ad, the first contact, deciding whether she seems worth going ahead with after swapping a couple of messages, agreeing a time and a date, visiting the cash machine, driving there, the door opening, the hello conversation, the sex, and the shower after. Then, if it all works out, that's even better, because you have got someone you know is hopefully primed to meet you again where you'll probably have a good time with any uncertainty removed.

Oh bloody hell, and I thought I had issues 

But in all seriousness, the reason your post put me off was you mentioning something about seduction etc. Fucking whores and seduction should never be mentioned in the same sentence 

But I get what you mean now, good luck