Well at risk of feeding the troll ...
Have you ever been sucked off by a woman in a club etc who you never got into bed? Well she may have actually had a cock and now you are gay.
For fuck sake.
Anyway, which is gayer, having intimate relations with someone you consider female, who considers themselves female, and lives as a female but just happens to have different bits to other women you've been with. Or is it gayer to go to bed with a someone on male hormones, who've had their tits off, has a full beard, a receding hair line and calls themselves Bernard, but still has a fanny.
I've punted lots of TS. I don't consider that I've been to bed with a bloke. If I thought they were a bloke I wouldn't punt them. Thats why I'm quite particular in relation to seeing they have some kind of tits and not reliant on wigs.