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Author Topic: Incall - Safe?  (Read 2739 times)

Offline akauya

All these replies and advice, yet New_Punta cannot even confirm if he means outcall not incall.

I know what you mean. There are so many of those one post wonders, post a question asking for info or advice and you never hear from them again. It makes you not want to help newbies.

There's one going on here a thread started by "scanman" (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=35475.0) loads of guys replying and he didn't even bother to say thank you.


Offline GeeWiz

I prefer outcalls for the reasons Happylad lists and really miss them since my regular quit earlier this year.   Seeing touring girls in hotels or flats doesn't compare in my opinion.

I feel safer in my own home.  The only precaution I take is to lock the door and pocket the key after they arrive.  Not so much locking the WG in, but any driver out.

Offline New_Punta

Hey guys, sorry for the reply. Really busy at the moment. I've been reading all of them.

I did INDEED mean calling the prostitute to ones own house. Sorry I'm not proficient with the terms yet.

I'm actually 21 and live with my girlfriend. We are engaged. My fiance lives with me but she is away in Washington D.C. for three weeks as of this Thursday. Hence the question.

Offline New_Punta

I know what you mean. There are so many of those one post wonders, post a question asking for info or advice and you never hear from them again. It makes you not want to help newbies.

There's one going on here a thread started by "scanman" (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=35475.0) loads of guys replying and he didn't even bother to say thank you.

I can assure you I'm not a one-post wonder and I appreciate all the replies!

Edit : Based on these replies; I think I would go the place of the prossy. Seems the most logical idea. Thanks!
Still a bit nervous as it is my first punt though. Would be a uh...paranoid to say the least. Maybe I'll keep a knife in my sock. Haha, just kidding.
« Last Edit: October 21, 2014, 01:07:22 PM by New_Punta »

Offline akauya

I can assure you I'm not a one-post wonder and I appreciate all the replies!

That's good to know. Do come back to UKP more often and contribute.

Good luck with your punt.

 :hi:

Offline hendrix

Never been a problem for me over many years, but the points raised against incalls are all valid.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Never been a problem for me over many years, but the points raised against incalls are all valid.

It goes without saying that everything of value should be hidden away or nailed down, not every girl is a thief but best not to put temptation their way.    :hi:

Online fredpunter

Hey guys, sorry for the reply. Really busy at the moment. I've been reading all of them.

I did INDEED mean calling the prostitute to ones own house. Sorry I'm not proficient with the terms yet.

I'm actually 21 and live with my girlfriend. We are engaged. My fiance lives with me but she is away in Washington D.C. for three weeks as of this Thursday. Hence the question.

None of my business but if you already feel that your fiancee is not enough to keep you satisfied, why you planning on marrying her? Either you're already bored with her or you havent sowed your oats enough yet. Either way is marrying her wise? And you're only 21! Do you need to rush things?

Ps the info about her going to Washington for three weeks and your age pretty much identifies you to her, or her dad, should either of them ever read this thread. Be careful.
« Last Edit: October 21, 2014, 01:20:33 PM by fredpunter »

Offline StPunt

or brothers or cousins......even uncles so yeah be careful about the info you post. cant you just wait for her to come back? its only 3 weeks  :sarcastic:

....back on topic, i would visit the wg rather than have one to your house just in case you book a nutter  :wackogirl:

Offline Quesadilla

Hey guys, sorry for the reply. Really busy at the moment. I've been reading all of them.

I did INDEED mean calling the prostitute to ones own house. Sorry I'm not proficient with the terms yet.

I'm actually 21 and live with my girlfriend. We are engaged. My fiance lives with me but she is away in Washington D.C. for three weeks as of this Thursday. Hence the question.
Be very. Very. Careful.

This is not the same risk as for those of us who have no wives/girlfriends.  In order to get a WG in your house you will probabaly tidy up, or move things, or the WG could accidentally leave some evidence which - in your sex addled state you will miss when you put things back.  It doesn't matter how careful you think you are, women are VERY observant.  You will get caught.  Maybe not this time, but next time, because once you've gotten away with it once you will think it's easy, and be just slightly less cautious.  Eventually it will catch you out. It's inevitable.

Stick with an incall to a WG's location, or an outcall to a hotel you have booked, really think twice (think three times, four times, and don't stop thinking) before you shit where you eat!  In your situation there are absolutely no benefits to an outcall that aren't vastly outweighed by an incall - incalls are generally cheaper, safer for you, and minimise the risk as far as is possible.

You might feel your home is more comfortable, but woe betide you if your fiancee finds out you had a whore in her home, her sanctuary, her BED!

Just think about how that conversation might go.

On the other hand, as Fred Punter rightly says if you're thinking of playing away at this stage you might as well call it quits with your fiancee anyway - if your intention is to find a way out of the relatinoship trust me there are safer ways than letting her find out you fucked a pro$$ie in her bed. 

Just a thought.  :hi:


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It doesn't matter how careful you think you are, women are VERY observant. 

Yes, they are! And seem to have a sixth sense to detect when other women have been on their patch.

Actually you can get away with it, but as said you need to be very, very careful. Think CSI and remove all traces. What to do with a used condom is tricky, ideally dispose of it elsewhere.

Offline smiths

Hey guys, sorry for the reply. Really busy at the moment. I've been reading all of them.

I did INDEED mean calling the prostitute to ones own house. Sorry I'm not proficient with the terms yet.

I'm actually 21 and live with my girlfriend. We are engaged. My fiance lives with me but she is away in Washington D.C. for three weeks as of this Thursday. Hence the question.

Women are good at picking up signs of other women being in the house and finding things like hairs so i wouldnt recommend you have a WG in your house fucking you.

Offline StPunt

admitt it, a pot noodle and a wank is starting to sound like the safer bet isn't it eh  :music:

Offline shagbambi

You are nuts to even think about it.

Neighbours.  Stray hairs. Stains. Possibility of theft.
The risks are too high for a man in a relationship. 

Offline Daffodil

I know what you mean. There are so many of those one post wonders, post a question asking for info or advice and you never hear from them again. It makes you not want to help newbies.

There's one going on here a thread started by "scanman" (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=35475.0) loads of guys replying and he didn't even bother to say thank you.

I disagree. I don't actually see that many "one post wonders" and they're certainly not in such abundance to make me reluctant to help.

Offline Daffodil

None of my business but if you already feel that your fiancee is not enough to keep you satisfied, why you planning on marrying her? Either you're already bored with her or you havent sowed your oats enough yet. Either way is marrying her wise? And you're only 21! Do you need to rush things?

Ps the info about her going to Washington for three weeks and your age pretty much identifies you to her, or her dad, should either of them ever read this thread. Be careful.

I don't agree with the first paragraph, but totally agree with the second. Be very careful with what you post here, or anywhere to do with fucking prossies. What hendrix says, about the info you've already posted being identifiable, is definitely true.

Offline Daffodil

Hey guys, sorry for the reply. Really busy at the moment. I've been reading all of them.

I did INDEED mean calling the prostitute to ones own house. Sorry I'm not proficient with the terms yet.

I'm actually 21 and live with my girlfriend. We are engaged. My fiance lives with me but she is away in Washington D.C. for three weeks as of this Thursday. Hence the question.

This paragraph makes an outcall an absolute fucking no. Don't be so stupid  :dash: :dash:

Offline New_Punta

Great advice from everyone. I'll be more careful with the information I disperse from here on out.

It does seem outcall is too much of a risk, and outweights the benefits.
Also : I do intend on staying with her, just want to line a few more women with my sweet nectar before being locked in the cage. Don't judge me? haha. Bad I know, but then again I'm on a bloody punting forum. lol.  I love how active this place is. It's pretty awesome.

Offline RedKettle

Great advice from everyone. I'll be more careful with the information I disperse from here on out.

It does seem outcall is too much of a risk, and outweights the benefits.
Also : I do intend on staying with her, just want to line a few more women with my sweet nectar before being locked in the cage. Don't judge me? haha. Bad I know, but then again I'm on a bloody punting forum. lol.  I love how active this place is. It's pretty awesome.

I don't think anyone judging -many of us have OHs (other halves) but I think some of the guys just giving you advice.  It is one thing to turn to punting after many years in a marriage when the sex life was died down or is a distant memory but another to be considering it when you should be in the excitement of young love (and lust).  As many on here have regretted marriages they perhaps think you might want to reflect on your reasons for punting now and whether that means your choice of OH is wrong.

Offline smiths

Great advice from everyone. I'll be more careful with the information I disperse from here on out.

It does seem outcall is too much of a risk, and outweights the benefits.
Also : I do intend on staying with her, just want to line a few more women with my sweet nectar before being locked in the cage. Don't judge me? haha. Bad I know, but then again I'm on a bloody punting forum. lol.  I love how active this place is. It's pretty awesome.

Assuming your genuine my advice is shag any woman you can while you can, fuck monogamy and all that bollocks. Punt for the sex and have a relationship for that and love.

Hey guys,
I'm sorry. I'm sure this question has been answered a million times. I would just like some perspective on whether in general you think it is wise to ever do a incall if you're home alone.

Secondly; I'll check out the search function in a bit, but if someone could direct me to some threads with general tips that would be golden. (I'm a first time punter)..

Looking forward to it & excited!
Thanks

Depends what you mean by safe. I guess you do have to consider you do not entirely know who you are hiring or dealing with so in that case, do lock away any items of value. Touch wood, I have never had any valuables taken however I have heard of horror stories where this has happened. In any case you have to be very very careful.

Offline Quesadilla

Great advice from everyone. I'll be more careful with the information I disperse from here on out.

It does seem outcall is too much of a risk, and outweights the benefits.
Also : I do intend on staying with her, just want to line a few more women with my sweet nectar before being locked in the cage. Don't judge me? haha. Bad I know, but then again I'm on a bloody punting forum. lol.  I love how active this place is. It's pretty awesome.
Seriously, if you think marriage is a cage now before your married I think you are pretty crazy to go through with it.  Most of us don't notice the bars until we're already well locked in and it's too late for anything other than divorce - which I'm going through right now.  It's really painful and destroys not only your relationship with your lady obviously but also often your own family / friends.  To be clear - I didn't cheat on her or get caught with an escort or anything, we just drifted apart but I had my doubts going in about whether we were 100% compatible for the long haul and I didn't listen. Really wish I had.

I'm "lucky" in that we didn't have kids but it would be 10 times worse if kids were involved. 

If you're playing away now, I doubt you will completely lose the urge to - ahem - "line a few more women with your nectar".  Maybe it won't come back for a few years, but then you'll have kids, the sex will drop right off and you'll be back here again.  Not saying there's anything wrong with that - it's a choice many on here make - but I'm not sure too many went into marriage knowing they'd end up here? 

Just because marriage is the default road for most people doesn't mean it has to be for you.  Lots of people have alternative / open relationships these days and you might want to seriously consider whether it's worth finding something that's more completely fulfilling/satisfying before tying yourself to a woman that you're cheating on before you're even married. 

Not judging, it's your life and all, just some food for thought.

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