one of my experiences of this forum is that genuine punters are direct so will sometime sound abrasive at first, but ultimately genuine punters look out for each other. Its a key part of modern punting, actually. With warnings, the heads up, pms, moving to get info removed if it is inadvertently public etc. The problem is knowing a) who the exceptions are b) who is not a real punter, as it were. there are large numbers of interwebz spetsnaz these days, and many fantasists. An issue is that this forum attracts people who seek out punters, rather than punting info also.
actually sending out identifying information is full on fucking retarded, and naivete shouldnt lead one to do it.
Its worth pointing out:
1)genuine punters dont want identifying or personal info about other punters. it can have no legitimate use. nor is there a need for personal or identifying info about wgs. Obviously, by personal, I exclude things like loves anal, gorgeous long labia etc which is info inherent to the pursuit we share but would be considered very personal about a civvie woman.
2) genuine wgs dont want personal or identifying info about punters, nor do they want to give it out about themselves. Neither can have a legitimate use.