Premature ejaculation solution

[night5ky]

I'm just writing with my tried and tested solution for this debilitating problem, which might hopefully help someone else who suffers with PE.

A bit of background, I have always suffered with this my entire sex life. It has led to many embarrassing and frustrating encounters and has really affected my relationships and mental health at times. PE is described as reaching ejaculation within a few minutes of penetration, but sometimes it would literally be seconds. It's an awful problem to suffer with.

I think there is something of a misconception that men who pop quickly are selfish and only care about their own pleasure rather than their partner's, however I'm sure in a lot of cases, including mine, this couldn't be further from the truth. I was desperate to satisfy any partner I was with, and not being able to do so was absolutely crushing. As a consequence I've become very good at satisfying women multiple times over with foreplay, but I still wanted a good long session as well!

The problem was, nothing really worked. I tried the squeeze technique and the stop and start technique with no joy, tried having a wank first and then hoping second time around lasts longer, which didn't always work and sometimes would stop me being able to get it up again at all, and I tried Promescent, which I actually did have some success with, but it had a very noticeable sterile smell and is very expensive. Sometimes it wore off quickly as well.

The solution I've settled on and has worked faultlessly for over a year now is a combination of Viagra Connect, and EMLA cream. I don't actually need Viagra, but the EMLA works so well that sometimes the little fella is desensitized by the cream and needs a little help. It also stops you from going soft when you start getting a bit tired from all the fucking you're about to do.

 I order both items online from a UK pharmacy. There's a quick online consultation to fill in and that's it. Your items are sent out and arrive within a few days.

So, the application. A bit of cream a bit smaller than a pea rubbed into the underside of the head and down the shaft works great. Do this about half an hour before you want to have sex. Take the pill at the same time. Then you can begin foreplay and let them both do their job. After 25-30 minutes, and before any penetration or a blow job occurs, rinse off your penis with water and dry thoroughly. This stops the transfer of any of the cream to your partner.

This combination has had me banging from anywhere from 45 minutes to 3 hours. This kind of longevity has been completely unheard of my entire sex life, and now women think I'm an actual stud  It has definitely changed my sex life so so much.

I hope this helps anyone else who's suffered with this problem and gives you renewed joy in your sex lives!

[RandomGuy99]

Thanks for sharing and congratulations on finding a solution for you.

[night5ky]

Thank you. It's made a big big difference. I actually enjoy sex now and am not embarrassed by it or fearful of it.

[night5ky]

I forgot to mention another advantage of the Viagra Connect, which is that it allows you a really swift recovery time once you do pop! You'll be raring to go again pretty much right away, sometimes without any break at all if you (and her!) can handle it!

[Stevelondon]

The thought of banging away for anything between 45 minutes to three hours…… definitely does not appeal to me one bit.

I’ll stick to the age old method to halt PE. Soon as you think you’re getting close. Think of Margaret Thatcher lowering her twat on your face. 

[GingerNuts]

I forgot to mention another advantage of the Viagra Connect, which is that it allows you a really swift recovery time once you do pop! You'll be raring to go again pretty much right away, sometimes without any break at all if you (and her!) can handle it!

Whatever benefits/advantages you're getting with Viagra Connect you'd get from generic sildenafil tablets at a much lower cost.

[KatieEdinburgh]

I don’t think women particularly want to bang for 3 hours non stop either 

[night5ky]

I don’t think women particularly want to bang for 3 hours non stop either 

Oh of course! The benefit though is regaining control over it. If the guy wants to cum, he can. If he doesn't want to, he can keep going. It's just about being able to decide when it's over, rather than having absolutely no control over it.

[Dipper]

All seems a bit of a pallava for the sake of a shag. But good luck to you.

[scutty brown]

Get yer pubes and bollocks waxed smooth, that'll reduce sensitivity

[mr.bluesky]

The thought of banging away for anything between 45 minutes to three hours…… definitely does not appeal to me one bit.

Banging away for 45 minutes to 3 hours only happens in porn films. Banging a service provider for 45 minutes will bring the " Get a bloody move on" response  and " have you cum yet ?"

[RogerBoner]

Thank you. It's made a big big difference. I actually enjoy sex now and am not embarrassed by it or fearful of it.

I wonder if this hack will continue to work after six months. Good luck and enjoy yourself 

[michaelkh]

Thanks for sharing, and I think this method makes sense.

[scutty brown]

EMLA cream ingredients
Lidocaine (25mg) and Prilocaine (25mg), Macrogolglycerol Hydroxystearate, Carbomer 974P, Sodium Hydroxide and Purified Water.

Don't even think of OWO or unprotected sex if you've applied that to your dick. No fingering either.

[8MillionDollarMan]

EMLA cream ingredients
Lidocaine (25mg) and Prilocaine (25mg), Macrogolglycerol Hydroxystearate, Carbomer 974P, Sodium Hydroxide and Purified Water.

Don't even think of OWO or unprotected sex if you've applied that to your dick. No fingering either.

Simply wash it off.

[8MillionDollarMan]

The thought of banging away for anything between 45 minutes to three hours…… definitely does not appeal to me one bit.

I’ll stick to the age old method to halt PE. Soon as you think you’re getting close. Think of Margaret Thatcher lowering her twat on your face.

Dianne Abbot works better.

[scutty brown]

Simply wash it off.

Not convinced that would be effective as the lidocaine can be absorbed into the skin then resecreted back out by saliva/body fluids

[8MillionDollarMan]

Not convinced that would be effective as the lidocaine can be absorbed into the skin then resecreted back out by saliva/body fluids

Used it scores of times never had that happen.

[Lou2019]

I don’t think women particularly want to bang for 3 hours non stop either 

Definitely not! Not in one session, happily spread throughout the day though with other sexual activities 

[martin1964]

And on the other side of the coin there are those of us who have DE, Delayed Ejaculation, basically where you can't shoot! Those of us with 'DE' would be overjoyed if we had 'PE'!

DE is really unpleasant as you can be banging away for ages, getting hot, bothered, exhausted, tired, fatigued etc.

I'm now fortunately over it and can usually deliver the goods within 3-4 minutes, some people might call this 'PE' but believe me it's better than not being able to ejaculate at all or it taking a long time...!!!

[Maak]

In my experience, it's mostly a psychological issue. When I'm comfortable & relaxed I can go for 10-20mins.

When I'm anxious & uncomfortable I come very quickly in less than a minute.

Edging is proven to help improve premature ejaculation.

[Munter84]

I'm now fortunately over it and can usually deliver the goods within 3-4 minutes, some people might call this 'PE' but believe me it's better than not being able to ejaculate at all or it taking a long time...!!!

Interesting, how did you manage to move yourself so far to the other end of the spectrum, if you don't mind me asking?

[Demon8]

I started my punting journey last year on the back of about 4 years of dead bedroom in a 10 year relationship. My late twenties and early thirties, getting laid maybe once every 6 months if I was lucky, but really once a year after spending hundreds of pounds on a hotel and all the effort of driving. In the relationship I put a lot of pressure on myself because I was spending a lot of money to get the physical parts of a relationship I so needed to keep the relationship together. I ended up busting quicker and quicker. I think she was quite happy with this situation as it meant less work for her and more money spent on her in the future.

I realized I could save money by returning to my normal girlfriend spend rate and just set aside "golf money" each month and use it to punt during work trips. Hoping of course that with some work on the relationship, we could be physical more often and in the meantime I will see escorts to desensitize and hopefully as our relationship improves, I would last longer, she would enjoy it, and we would be with each other more frequently and I could cut out seeing escorts entirely. Obviously that has not gone to plan, or its taking longer than expected.

I had a similar issue as you when seeing the first few escorts I did. I would use viagra because its all I knew about and I wanted to ensure I got the most out of my one hours bookings (have since moved to 30 min!). The issue is, I would still cum quick, be rock hard, and then not be able to cum again for at least an hour and would just ware myself tender.

Enter priligy. These expensive little pills can change your life - doesnt require the synchronisation of ELMA (applying at the right time etc), as just take a few hours before a meet and you will last much longer. Where previously I would last perhaps 1-2 min, I could now withstand a 5 min hard onslaught before finishing. No loss of sensitivity either.

You could use priligy in conjunction with ELMA but be very careful. I have not been able to cum at all in a 45 min booking on at least one occassion using this method - do not masturbate within 24 hours of the booking and really focus and you could push yourself into orgasm. If you combine them, the best route is to take the priligy a few hours before, apply the cream and take the viagra 1h-45 min before the booking; wash off the cream after 15 min (use wetwipes), head to the booking, ensure you have a shower there prior and really wash yourself as you can make the SP ill with that cream. after the 30 min mark the cream will have lost its affect and your sensitivity will rapidly increase whilst also experiencing slight supression from the priligy.

^I use that method with girls I see infrequently but at least feel I have sexual chemistry with. Otherwise I use ELMA and viagra in a 30 min booking and if Im feeling close, change it up by letting her suck whilst I finger or go down on her.


Ive been training myself off this medication, and have noticed on a few dry runs that my natural time is increasing slowly and steadily - just knowing I can lean into this if I have to next time is peace of mind enough.

[Stevelondon]

Bloody hell.
Too much of a faff if you ask me.

Mind you. I’ve never really been one of those blokes who has e we wanted too or felt like shagging for an extended length of time. So I suppose the super shaggers out there will be more interested in the various techniques used to prevent cumming too quickly.

[Jonestown]

Its my experience that PE is best countered the natural way, by upping your shag rate, the more you do it the less it is a problem, don't shy away from it, get stuck in.

[JontyR]

Can't say I spent too much time workign out the logistics of OPs solution but would point out that lots of folks here on the many viagra / ED threads report that a blue support can lead to a delay in orgasm.

I'd also wonder about whether there was anything in terms of condom use. Plenty of folks seeking thinner, better more sensitive nodders. I'd suggest doing the opposite.

[Southernbloke]

Occasionally suffer with PE and I know that once I cum that’s it for about 2 hours. So if it happens, I usually ask the lady for a massage or I spend some time having a kiss and cuddle which I enjoy

[martin1964]

Interesting, how did you manage to move yourself so far to the other end of the spectrum, if you don't mind me asking?

Basically stopped looking at porn and giving myself HJs! Got too acclimatised to only being able to do it with porn or vigorous hand motions!

[gurds]

another way is to use sex toys and fleshlights to train stamina.

You can use bj toys with vibration and suction modes as well 2-3 times a week.

Also if wanting to last really long can just wank say 2hrs before sex. If having long sex session and not wanking before you could cum twice, once after say 15 mins then 2nd time go really long.

[uncle jessie]

Dianne Abbot works better.

FFS only want to stop premature ejaculation not made impotent or wanting to becoming homosexual 

[JontyR]

Dianne Abbot works better.

Works better than Norman Tebbit? Each to their own.

[Ivor Hunch]

Works better than Norman Tebbit? Each to their own.

Bugger-  I'd managed to hold off with Maggie and Diane, but a strong image of On Yer Bike having a tight fisted wank while Diane goes down on Maggie's mouldering corpse has I am afraid tipped me over the edge and I fear I have creamed myself.

[Thephoenix]

Unfortunately I don't get any ejaculation solution these days, premature or otherwise.
What little is produced can't even be bothered making the journey, prefering to stay indoors.