I sometimes use a lube called YES! by a company called Luberation, all organics stuff. But oily ladies are not my scene as I end of going home to Missus HP with oily skin or clothes or scent, or smelling of someone else's soapy showery stuff from their bathroom when trying to wash it off. Twenty or thirty years ago I loved to do mutual oily massage and then slither into sexy embraces but that is history.
It is the oily looking photos I really do not like, a turn off for me. Like Marmite I suppose, love it or hate it. (I like Marmite!).