how many others here are married, wife lost all interest in sex and tired of being asked to fuck/suck, so you're given permission to splash with a WG ?
I have a "don't ask, don't tell" arrangement. Not yet punted (here learning how to make the first one a positive experience)
Separated from my wife this year after we became "friends without benefits" over the years - we just stopped enjoying sex together, so it stopped feeling like a marriage and felt just like we were room mates. Life's too short for that and we never had kids so decided to move on and do our own thing.
End result I am now able to punt guilt free but we are still great friends so we can talk about it openly which is a bit odd. She's seeing other men (from legit dating sites not AW / UKP type!!
) and she asks my advice which is also odd I suppose.
BTW if you have no kids divorce does not have to be complicated or particularly expensive. Sure you have to split the assets but if you can manage to do it amicably, then no leeches - I mean divorce lawyers - are needed, you just need to work out a fair settlement between you.
Seems crazy to stay together with someone you're not completely happy with - it's your life and you only have one!