Of to a swingers club - who to take?

[Circusboy]

Hi chaps

I’m in Manchester next week and want to head to a swingers club. I’d like to invi a cheeky local wg… … but who?

Any suggestions?

Thanks in advance.
J

[Bigerection]

I did this last year.
I put up a reverse bid on AW and got a good initial response off about 8 girls but getting one the girls to follow it through was another matter.
I ended up going by myself in the end but still had plenty of horny fun and saved my money 
Which club you going to?

[Circusboy]

Thinking of Cupids. Is that an ok club? Looks best from what I can see. Adam and Eve just doesn’t look as naughty!

[Southernbloke]

Not a swingers club but Adult Parties are meant to be fun

External Link/Members Only

[markballoon]

Have a look on some of the swingers forums.  They can spot a wg a mile off.  Some don't like it.

[thefilthyfucker]

Yes I agree with you Mark.
Proceed with caution. The swingers has some very unfriendly attitudes sometimes. Not like our world which is much more inclusive, lol.
It's quite weird how there is a real cultural divide. Especially given how couples using working girls is very common these days.
I've found a lot of swingers have secretly just wanted romantic partners. This may be part of the problem.

[scutty brown]

Just take the wife
And swap her

[lewisjones23]

Yes I agree with you Mark.
Proceed with caution. The swingers has some very unfriendly attitudes sometimes. Not like our world which is much more inclusive, lol.
It's quite weird how there is a real cultural divide. Especially given how couples using working girls is very common these days.
I've found a lot of swingers have secretly just wanted romantic partners. This may be part of the problem.

agreed, hard work the swingers scene

I managed to get one meet off Fab Swingers but it must have taken hundreds, if not thousands of messages, along with untold man hours

Wasn't worth the time of effort involved

[Blackpool Rock]

agreed, hard work the swingers scene

I managed to get one meet off Fab Swingers but it must have taken hundreds, if not thousands of messages, along with untold man hours

Wasn't worth the time of effort involved

I've been on Fab for about 8 years and not really bothered with it much only sending a few messages and never getting a reply, i've had a few messages from gay men and a fat bird who i'd never be able to fuck 

I've thought about trying to increase my activity but seems like you need to be in a couple and exchange details in clubs etc to get veris which then opens you up to getting more success etc

I did have a couple in my HL and was going to message them a few weeks ago but had too much on so left it but then their profile said they were visiting Blackpool so happy days I thought 
My message was read but not replied to despite me matching their criteria (I thought) and sending a fairly well considered message to cover all the points in their profile.
Fair enough they probably had so many messages and lots of interest that they could pick and choose a few guys to meet 
The next day they then updated their profile saying how disappointed they were that there was nobody in Blackpool 

[Johndy]

Interesting discussion.

Yes I would agree Cupids appears to be the fave, I have been to a few in Manchester.

Attitude towards differs, I have taken a few wig to clubs and had a great time.
You just need to be careful, there are some little groups and if you pick a couple on there own, usually on a couples night you will find some newbies and they are looking for similar newbies. Just don't try to jump into an established group ,

You may have to the girl first, so there is trust.

Have fun.

[lewisjones23]

I've been on Fab for about 8 years and not really bothered with it much only sending a few messages and never getting a reply, i've had a few messages from gay men and a fat bird who i'd never be able to fuck 

I've thought about trying to increase my activity but seems like you need to be in a couple and exchange details in clubs etc to get veris which then opens you up to getting more success etc

I did have a couple in my HL and was going to message them a few weeks ago but had too much on so left it but then their profile said they were visiting Blackpool so happy days I thought 
My message was read but not replied to despite me matching their criteria (I thought) and sending a fairly well considered message to cover all the points in their profile.
Fair enough they probably had so many messages and lots of interest that they could pick and choose a few guys to meet 
The next day they then updated their profile saying how disappointed they were that there was nobody in Blackpool 

I made a fake female profile and got some thirsty male to verify the profile despite there being no prior contact, I then used that profile to verify my proper one

That gained me a bit of traction when sending messages etc but the amount that a single female profile receives in each day is ridiculous

Even if you are chatting to someone and they are interested, your messages can quite easily be lost in the sea of messages off other men

I sometimes log in to see but only to see if there is anyone local that I recognise

[Johndy]

The only ( well for now) I would like to say is, if your are not thirty year old, super fit guy, then don't take a twenty five year old, sex goddess, you will stand out.

Try to play in your own league and look for opps  there. I once met a late thirties couple on a quiet night, probably their first time in a club. I was thee only male who talked to them about normal day to day conversations, I ended up having a great time, the macho types, shaking their heads.

It can be a bit of a game and you have to pick it up as you go along.

[Southernbloke]

The only ( well for now) I would like to say is, if your are not thirty year old, super fit guy, then don't take a twenty five year old, sex goddess, you will stand out.

Try to play in your own league and look for opps  there. I once met a late thirties couple on a quiet night, probably their first time in a club. I was thee only male who talked to them about normal day to day conversations, I ended up having a great time, the macho types, shaking their heads.

It can be a bit of a game and you have to pick it up as you go along.

That sounds good advice. Especially about turning up with a WG who is around your own age, so at least you look like a couple or even shag buddies

[Johndy]

Yes, exactly.

You can have fun at clubs, just don't stand out.

[Cent]

Kim in Swinton(you will have to search your self as the website is not allowed on here) used to work at cupids and here and here friend Irene do still go in there so she might be a good bet to dip your toe in the water.

[Johndy]

Kim is lovely, don't think I know her friend though?

Any info on Irene ?

[Circusboy]

Cheers for the great advice.

I agree about not taking a girl who is much younger - although I could just say that she’s my daughter! (Only kidding).

I’ll keep my options open.

I did meet a lady at a swingers club in the midlands who was loads of fun. I have offered to take her. But I just fancied the true filth of a good wg.

 Also agree as a single bloke on fab swingers is quite difficult. Luckily I have done a few 3some with a mate and his girl which has given me some verification on there and therefore I do get a little more success on there than if I had no verification.

My naughtiest club session was with VeeEasy (formally on AW) who I took to kitkat club in Berlin for the night. Now that was some fun and no one cared that I was with a girl who looked more than 10 years younger than me.

I may put a rb together to see what happens….

…regardless I’ll keep you all posted on my success (I hope).

[lewisjones23]

I agree about not taking a girl who is much younger - although I could just say that she’s my daughter! (Only kidding).

Although an obvious joke, its a fucking odd one that 

[Circusboy]

Sorry sick sense of humour!

[chrishornx]

Although an obvious joke, its a fucking odd one that 

very odd.