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Offline yorkshire123

I have had a few try it on, maybe because i normally prefer regulars over newbies, But the worse one was below....

I can remember seeing a Polish prossie in one of Blackpool's many parlours & she was such a great shag i decided to return the next day.
Within minutes of getting into the room she started to cry & tell me that she needed £1,500 to send back to her family to look after her kids. I'm a soft fucker but not a complete fucking idiot so turned on my heels & headed for the door.
Strangely enough the tears stopped & the verbal abuse started with her shouting & screaming that i hadn't paid her enough & she would get the security onto me if i didn't pay for the extras that i didn't get (I didn't even take my trousers off)

I must admit the maid was great & she gave me my money back without question.

I now have the opinion that most prossie's will have some sort of sob story & try it on if you allow it thats why i very rarely encourage them to talk about their personal lives during a punt.
Banning reason: Making false malicious allegations against admin

Offline Matium

More than ever it's important to have a punting bio:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=38014.msg513900;topicseen#msg513900

so that you never, ever inadvertently reveal any true details about yourself.

As for those three men who lent money:

If you're married then shrug your shoulders and write the money off, the last thing you'll ever want is for your wife to find out so say and do nothing.

However, if you're not then go straight to the Police.
« Last Edit: October 05, 2014, 11:39:56 AM by Matium »

Offline PumpAction

What are the police going to do? It's a civil matter. They lent the money of their own free will. They were not conned, blackmailed or extorted.

It's sad to hear about these experiences. An expensive lesson hopefully learned and a warning for others.

Offline Ongbak

Why are some punters so stupid?

It is not the fact we are ''stupid'', more like easily mislead. There's difference between the two. I looked at my own situation, the personal information given to me by the WG to prove she's ''genuine'' and went with my gut instinct, we all make mistakes so there is really no need to brand us as ''stupid'' when you don't know all the relevant information.

I'm one of the  two who got scammed by the same WG. If it was up to me I'd name and shame but due to the other members situation I'm holding back for now, Admin know why this is. 

Offline berksboy

  Why the fuck would you  lend money to someone who can earn far far more then most of us by just opening her legs ?  :dash: :dash:

I think .. therefrore it hurtz  .. that my ex wife took more money off me than any bunch of WG's ever could have;(..

I have never been asked for money by a WG and i have got change from most all, it's good to see if they do offer it to see what their attiude is towards their client;).

A few times when I know shes supporting her child then I have offered a tip or keep the change and buy the nipper something, it makes me feel a better that a small child might well benefit rather than some smack supply chain;!..

Why are some punters so stupid?

Same could be said for lonely old women who fall for nigerian internet scammers

Offline Jimmyredcab

Same could be said for lonely old women who fall for nigerian internet scammers


That is a good analogy.     :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Many of the men who visit Thailand would never pull a half decent bird in the UK so when young girls start to call them "hansum" man they get carried away, the next thing is that they are giving/lending them huge amounts of cash.   :crazy:

Offline James999

Many of the men who visit Thailand would never pull a half decent bird in the UK so when young girls start to call them "hansum" man they get carried away, the next thing is that they are giving/lending them huge amounts of cash.   :crazy:

Funnier still is when they bring them back and introduce you to them, they always have a story of how she's from a village / not a pro$$ie / different etc, but the reality is they met her in a bar and fucked her for the price of a Starbucks coffee.

A few years later the same guys explain how she's a frigid lazy bitch who wants to constantly send money home.


Mate of mine has got a thai bird as a wife but he does have business reasons for going there but he tells me that shes fine and a great girl and she makes more moeny than what he does!, and she subs her mum a few bob on occasion;!.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Funnier still is when they bring them back and introduce you to them, they always have a story of how she's from a village / not a pro$$ie / different etc, but the reality is they met her in a bar and fucked her for the price of a Starbucks coffee.

A few years later the same guys explain how she's a frigid lazy bitch who wants to constantly send money home.

That is if she is still with the guy a few years later, once they get into this country they have no reason to stay with the fat old bastard who brought them here.
I have seen these guys acting like 14 day millionaires, when the girls marry them they then find out they will be living in a council flat in Dudley.    :wackogirl:

Offline Dani

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What I don't get is why would a punter lend a prossie money when she earns at least 8 times his probably hourly wage.  Unless she is seriously ill , if she needs the money all she has to do is work a full week.  If she only did 5 hours a day @ £100 an hour for five days that would be £2,5K. 
Hell if I need money O just work a few extra hours each day to get what I need or work at the weekend instead.
The only ones who will need to borrow are those who either offer a crap service so get no repeat business (its the repeats that keep us going) or the ones who are already scamming people and getting a bad name.

Giving money to someone whos name and address you don't know is stupidity as it would be giving not lending.  The only way anyone can ever lend money is with a signed and notorised document stating the amount loaned and the prepayment terms which would mean knowing the full name and address of the person as well as knowing them on a personal level so it is easy to take them to county court when they don't pay back.  Personally I would only lend money to a family member and then only if I didn't really care if I got it back or not.  Even with friends and family loaning money can be the quickest way to fall out with someone

Offline James999

That is if she is still with the guy a few years later, once they get into this country

They continue to leach off the guy  :thumbsdown:

Offline Jimmyredcab

They continue to leach off the guy  :thumbsdown:

Not if they find someone younger/richer.    :hi:

What I don't get is why would a punter lend a prossie money when she earns at least 8 times his probably hourly wage.  Unless she is seriously ill , if she needs the money all she has to do is work a full week.  If she only did 5 hours a day @ £100 an hour for five days that would be £2,5K. 


You say that Dani but do all girls do that number of bookings a day or week?. You perhaps might but does that accord over the country like that?.

Offline berksboy

   A girl i used to see was doing over 4G a week 15 years ago , most punts just dont get just how must money a prossie can earn if she is young good looking fucks good and puts the hrs in.

Offline Dani

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You say that Dani but do all girls do that number of bookings a day or week?. You perhaps might but does that accord over the country like that?.

Im in a shitehole where there is little money floating around (Derby) and if I did not have my condition I could see 5 or more a day everyday so if I can do it being in a shitehole and being older and larger then I am sure a fit young prossie can do it easily. 

Its about actually putting in the hours.  Many do one or two a day then cannot be arsed to do anymore, or they expect to get all that work from AW so don't bother building a website or placing ads anywhere else.  If you really need the money you do everything you can to get it yourself.  I cannot think of anything that means you need money instantly with no warning or time to save up for it and even if there was something if you are self employed you should always have a decent amount put away for times when you are sick or need to have a few weeks off work.  Being self employed means if you don't have savings when you are ill you have no money and only a fool would live like that

Offline smiths

It is not the fact we are ''stupid'', more like easily mislead. There's difference between the two. I looked at my own situation, the personal information given to me by the WG to prove she's ''genuine'' and went with my gut instinct, we all make mistakes so there is really no need to brand us as ''stupid'' when you don't know all the relevant information.

I'm one of the  two who got scammed by the same WG. If it was up to me I'd name and shame but due to the other members situation I'm holding back for now, Admin know why this is.

Firstly i am sorry to hear you lost money. I view you as gullible with no basic common sense to fall for WGs bollocks, its a VERY well trodden path for some WGs to give sob stories of one kind or another. I dont wish to hear them, ever. Not my problem or responsibility in any shape or form. This WG who suckered you is a scumbag and i hope she gets her just desserts within the law soon.
« Last Edit: October 05, 2014, 03:10:12 PM by smiths »

Offline Jimmyredcab

Im in a shitehole where there is little money floating around (Derby) and if I did not have my condition I could see 5 or more a day everyday so if I can do it being in a shitehole and being older and larger then I am sure a fit young prossie can do it easily. 


I think that even young cuties like Michelle Independent would struggle to get 5 punters a day every day ----------- but of course I will never actually know for sure.    :hi:

Offline Dani

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I think that even young cuties like Michelle Independent would struggle to get 5 punters a day every day ----------- but of course I will never actually know for sure.    :hi:

Really?  I know women who get up to 8 a day most days as well as some who work part time daily and are fully booked for the whole time they work.  Then again I guess it depends on the area and the amount of women working.  London is big but it is also saturated with prossies whereas Derby is smaller but even for the size of the area is not saturated.  It also depends on the amount of advertising as well.  Aw can only support so many people so other forms of advertising are needed to keep busy

Offline GeeWiz

These guys need a check up from the neck up.

Average hourly pay rate is £13.60 before tax.  Why would anyone lend to someone with the ability to earn ten times more than that, based on a verbal agreement with a person (I assume) that they they only have an AW profile page for showing their stage name and their mobile number.

Offline RedKettle

  Being self employed means if you don't have savings when you are ill you have no money and only a fool would live like that

Dani, with some exceptions such as yourself most WGs are fools, certainly in the business sense.  There is loads of evidence to back that up!

Offline AnthG

What I don't get is why would a punter lend a prossie money when she earns at least 8 times his probably hourly wage.  Unless she is seriously ill , if she needs the money all she has to do is work a full week.  If she only did 5 hours a day @ £100 an hour for five days that would be £2,5K. 
Confidence tricking is a lot like hard selling. They put an artificial urgency to it.

She will likely have said something along the lines of my landlord is kicking me out the flat tomorrow morning at 9am. The hospital has said they need the money by the end of the week or the heart goes to someone else.

Or some other urgent timefactor being in place to mean the guy feels like dirt in saying no to her as she needs the money now.

Offline nova painted floozie

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It is not the fact we are ''stupid'', more like easily mislead. There's difference between the two. I looked at my own situation, the personal information given to me by the WG to prove she's ''genuine'' and went with my gut instinct, we all make mistakes so there is really no need to brand us as ''stupid'' when you don't know all the relevant information. 

Not all punters are stupid and not all WGs are untrustworthy. If you ever do hear a hard luck story (whether as a punter or in another capacity) and the sobber ends by asking you for money AND you are not willing to give it (which you never ever should as a punter) the only sane response is to say somethyng like: "Sadly I am not able to help you with this. (Don't say you 'can't'.) What do you think you can do to help yourself/what other options do you have? etc. Just keep saying 'oh no, that's awful. Realistically, what are you going to do?'
That's if you are a nice guy who is willing to offer empathy. If you don't give a shit just say you don't give a shit and walk out the door.  :cry:


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