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Author Topic: Prossies with loads of rules  (Read 3018 times)

Offline NIK

Linked to the 'safety steps' thread below I can't understand why punters even bother with prossies who have loads of rules. If they have loads of do and don'ts on a profile they are very likely to have 'attitude' and it will almost certainly be a poor experience.
I wouldn't even dream of patronising such profiles. There are plenty more out there.
Carla Louise, Nicoletta apart, far and away the best girl I've ever seen, didn't have ANY rules or so much as ONE do or don't.  :cool:

Offline JV547845

I know what you mean - unless it's something unusual (one of my favourites has "no anal fisting" as one of her few rules) that's what the likes list is for, if they just want to say no anal and no bareback, OW only etc.  I'd have to have a serious hard on for their photos or have read stellar reviews to go for someone with rules.  A lot of WGs seem to use their profile to slag off all the time wasters and weirdos back expecting them to stop.  Well even if you manage to put off internet assholes from time wasting and barebackers from booking you, you'll also put off a shit load of your potential clients.  If you already have enough regulars and clients then fair enough I suppose, but make the most of them while they last.

It's just a terrible marketing tactic - what other company in the world uses it's precious limited free advertising to complain about the minority of shitty customers?  I know WGs put up with a lot of bullshit and creepiness but that's just part of the deal of getting to charge so much, especially on the internet now. 

Having a constant stream of nice, respectful and polite customers who find you attractive and pay you £150 an hour to have sex with them sounds great but it's obviously too good to be true.

Offline smiths

Linked to the 'safety steps' thread below I can't understand why punters even bother with prossies who have loads of rules. If they have loads of do and don'ts on a profile they are very likely to have 'attitude' and it will almost certainly be a poor experience.
I wouldn't even dream of patronising such profiles. There are plenty more out there.
Carla Louise, Nicoletta apart, far and away the best girl I've ever seen, didn't have ANY rules or so much as ONE do or don't.  :cool:

All very simple to me. I punt to suit me NOT the WG. WGs that insist on me singing to their tune wont get my business.

All very simple to me. I punt to suit me NOT the WG. WGs that insist on me singing to their tune wont get my business.

Agreed 100% :thumbsup:

Offline Sedlmayer

100% - there is nothing more off-putting than a profile page with dozens of do's and don'ts. Almost always indicative of a poor attitude and lack of enthusiasm.
All girls need to put is - "Please read my "Likes" list carefully"

Offline yorkshire123

All very simple to me. I punt to suit me NOT the WG. WGs that insist on me singing to their tune wont get my business.

Well said sir  :hi:
Banning reason: Making false malicious allegations against admin

Offline hendrix

Totally puts me off, as does "extras".

Offline Jimmyredcab

Linked to the 'safety steps' thread below I can't understand why punters even bother with prossies who have loads of rules. If they have loads of do and don'ts on a profile they are very likely to have 'attitude' and it will almost certainly be a poor experience.
I wouldn't even dream of patronising such profiles. There are plenty more out there.
Carla Louise, Nicoletta apart, far and away the best girl I've ever seen, didn't have ANY rules or so much as ONE do or don't.  :cool:

NIK, the problem is that many punters do what they are told, you only have to look at all this nonsense with punter feedback on Adultwork ------------------- I am the buyer, I don't need feedback.    :bomb:

Offline The happy one

Totally puts me off, as does "extras".

Extras can wind me up but not if clearly posted on the profile. It is when you get there after asking if all is included to be told that is when I walk no matter how hot the body

I have a couple of things I like that I understand being asked a little extra to undertake is fair

Anal
Being rimmed so deep I can feel my ears being cleaned from the inside
Filming

But not owo cim kissing and the list goes on
Banning reason: Suspected pimp involved in organizing parties

NIK, the problem is that many punters do what they are told, you only have to look at all this nonsense with punter feedback on Adultwork ------------------- I am the buyer, I don't need feedback.    :bomb:

I'm going to disagree here, and almost certainly mark myself down as a bit of a fluffy, but I wonder how many people might agree with me. I am not looking for a mechanical transaction -  if that were the case, I might as well stay at home and have a wank. For sure, I am the client, and I expect that everything will be geared towards that, of course I do. But I guess eBay use feedback for a reason - you go into the transaction with a bit less of the unknown, and therefore a bit more comfortable. I punt (or rather I punted) to meet nice girls, have fun, and have great sex, and that's generally what happened.

But like with any other transaction (I work in sales), it's going to go a lot better if you are more at ease with each other. It's a position for the girl of "I know nothing about this guy" versus "I've never met him, but from his feedback he seems OK".

There's a psychological model, a very simple one called Betari's box, that my attitude affects my behaviour, which in turn will affect your attitude, which will affect your behaviour. Don't get me wrong, I've seen lots of girls where I haven't used the AW booking system, and therefore feedback was not an issue, but even there, they've tended to be phone bookings, where at least you've had a chance to speak to them, and again, it's the beginning of that process of thinking "they seem alright" or "eek, I'll give it half an hour, then send a text to cancel"

So I've no problem whatsoever with the AW feedback system, as flawed as it is with false feedbacks, etc (which are easy enough to discern anyway).

Offline Jimmyredcab



So I've no problem whatsoever with the AW feedback system.

Your money, your choice.     :hi: :hi:

If a girl does not display a telephone number for booking then I am not interested, hundreds of pro$$ies to chose from, I make the rules------------ not them.    :hi:

Your money, your choice.     :hi: :hi:

If a girl does not display a telephone number for booking then I am not interested, hundreds of pro$$ies to chose from, I make the rules------------ not them.    :hi:

Fair comment Jimmy - I'm just having a conversation  :)

Offline Jimmyredcab

Fair comment Jimmy - I'm just having a conversation  :)

Indeed, that's why I said ----------------------  " Your money, your choice."

Offline Ali Katt

I'm going to disagree here, and almost certainly mark myself down as a bit of a fluffy, but I wonder how many people might agree with me. I am not looking for a mechanical transaction -  if that were the case, I might as well stay at home and have a wank. For sure, I am the client, and I expect that everything will be geared towards that, of course I do. But I guess eBay use feedback for a reason - you go into the transaction with a bit less of the unknown, and therefore a bit more comfortable. I punt (or rather I punted) to meet nice girls, have fun, and have great sex, and that's generally what happened.

But like with any other transaction (I work in sales), it's going to go a lot better if you are more at ease with each other. It's a position for the girl of "I know nothing about this guy" versus "I've never met him, but from his feedback he seems OK".

There's a psychological model, a very simple one called Betari's box, that my attitude affects my behaviour, which in turn will affect your attitude, which will affect your behaviour. Don't get me wrong, I've seen lots of girls where I haven't used the AW booking system, and therefore feedback was not an issue, but even there, they've tended to be phone bookings, where at least you've had a chance to speak to them, and again, it's the beginning of that process of thinking "they seem alright" or "eek, I'll give it half an hour, then send a text to cancel"

So I've no problem whatsoever with the AW feedback system, as flawed as it is with false feedbacks, etc (which are easy enough to discern anyway).
You raise some interesting points. I have had some punts where I left the house in a good mood, was immaculately clean, phoned on time, turned up on time and the prossie was a crap shag and wanted to get away with doing as little as possible sexually. Surely my attitude can't be to blame and other punters had similar experiences.

Offline Jimmyredcab

You raise some interesting points. I have had some punts where I left the house in a good mood, was immaculately clean, phoned on time, turned up on time and the prossie was a crap shag and wanted to get away with doing as little as possible sexually. Surely my attitude can't be to blame and other punters had similar experiences.

Some women hate this work with a passion, how can they give a good service when they feel like that, they stay in the business because they don't want to go back to stacking shelves.    :hi:

Offline dandaley

I'm going to disagree here, and almost certainly mark myself down as a bit of a fluffy, but I wonder how many people might agree with me. I am not looking for a mechanical transaction -  if that were the case, I might as well stay at home and have a wank. For sure, I am the client, and I expect that everything will be geared towards that, of course I do. But I guess eBay use feedback for a reason - you go into the transaction with a bit less of the unknown, and therefore a bit more comfortable. I punt (or rather I punted) to meet nice girls, have fun, and have great sex, and that's generally what happened.

But like with any other transaction (I work in sales), it's going to go a lot better if you are more at ease with each other. It's a position for the girl of "I know nothing about this guy" versus "I've never met him, but from his feedback he seems OK".

There's a psychological model, a very simple one called Betari's box, that my attitude affects my behaviour, which in turn will affect your attitude, which will affect your behaviour. Don't get me wrong, I've seen lots of girls where I haven't used the AW booking system, and therefore feedback was not an issue, but even there, they've tended to be phone bookings, where at least you've had a chance to speak to them, and again, it's the beginning of that process of thinking "they seem alright" or "eek, I'll give it half an hour, then send a text to cancel"

So I've no problem whatsoever with the AW feedback system, as flawed as it is with false feedbacks, etc (which are easy enough to discern anyway).

Good post and very good points, I also have no probs with aw bookings and feedback as I have said before its very very useful and its a no brainier to pick the good ones if its used properly.

 :thumbsup:

I also completely agree with Josh. The punter doesn't make "the rules", he makes his rules.

Offline NIK

I also completely agree with Josh. The punter doesn't make "the rules", he makes his rules.

That's as maybe, but as the paying customer they accept my rules or don't get my business. Simple as that. For too long I've played by their rules and often suffered from poor service.
In what other industry would the buyer have to prove themselves to the seller rather than the other way round?  :crazy:

Last week I read a pro$$ie profile that basically stated that any punter who shows up for an incall, doesn't like what they see etc and decides to walk away will have to pay a cancellation fee!! You couldn't make this shit up if you tried.  :wackogirl:

A lot of these pro$$ies fail to realise they're in the SERVICE industry. They're the one's spending all day on forums moaning about not getting any bookings - whilst the good 'uns are getting all the cock and cash.  :thumbsup:

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Last week I read a pro$$ie profile that basically stated that any punter who shows up for an incall, doesn't like what they see etc and decides to walk away will have to pay a cancellation fee!!
The only problem is that Kevin or Sergei could be there with a knife or worse.

Offline dandaley

Last week I read a pro$$ie profile that basically stated that any punter who shows up for an incall, doesn't like what they see etc and decides to walk away will have to pay a cancellation fee!! You couldn't make this shit up if you tried.  :wackogirl:

A lot of these pro$$ies fail to realise they're in the SERVICE industry. They're the one's spending all day on forums moaning about not getting any bookings - whilst the good 'uns are getting all the cock and cash.  :thumbsup:

that is stupid as nobody would pay it but if the punter did a bit of research and spoke to the girl and saw pics it shoultnt happen.

i think the good ones can be selective to a certain extent as they are busy getting bookings.

i spose you can liken it to sales jobs in the service industry where some customers are just going to be trouble and you avoid them, dont need the hassle , move on to customers why are easy to deal with but you can still sell to.  Same thing really imo.

Offline Ali Katt

That's as maybe, but as the paying customer they accept my rules or don't get my business. Simple as that. For too long I've played by their rules and often suffered from poor service.
In what other industry would the buyer have to prove themselves to the seller rather than the other way round?  :crazy:
If you accept their rules that's a crap massage everytime.

Offline ju1

If you accept their rules that's a crap massage everytime.

all sellers have rules - recall being thrown out of Tesco for wearing a bikini - as long as they are known before hand,

Offline smiths

all sellers have rules - recall being thrown out of Tesco for wearing a bikini - as long as they are known before hand,

The point is you have a choice whether to follow their rules or go elsewhere.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I also completely agree with Josh. The punter doesn't make "the rules", he makes his rules.

Your opinion means very little, you have been here over a year and not a single review ------------ you could be a pro$$ie for all we know.    :bomb: :bomb:

MY money MY rules
what part of that don't you understand. ????????


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