Successful men are attractive to women, but its not the be all and end all as already mentioned.
You can still be average and have a partner etc. Just dont be lazy and broke.
The kind of women that only chase rich fellas for the money are the sort that arent wife material anyway.
Plus more women are starting to earn good wages these days. Those kinds will often date fellas on less money if they find them attractive enough in other ways.
One of the best posts I’ve read on the thread and mostly it’s simple common sense. As a very general rule, women are more drawn to successful men than unsuccessful men, which is partly cultural and partly just Darwinian.
It helps if the measure of success is by the man’s own metric rather than just competitively — for instance, a harried stockbroker lamenting how others are constantly doing better is not very attractive. She wants to feel good in his company.
You won’t make her feel good if you’re just a miserable cunt. Even forever-miserable Morrissey had the redeeming quality of being successful in himself and finding his ‘misery’ amusing.
So rich or poor, much comes down to thinking the right thing at the right time. That’s where game comes in: thinking about being attractive to women and succeeding in your own way.
A young and happy,
physically attractive person has an advantage, as well as drive. As men get older they typically have less physical things in the moment to be happy about. Money can offset that to an extent. Many women are attracted to the idea of the cheque: not literally but just the folding stuff and its benefits in one form or another, whether as payment for sex, an allowance or the more subtle provision of ‘the good things’ in life. I had a good friend who worked as an SP for a while and I asked her what got her juices going and she said money, plain and simple, the thought of money made her horny.
A large number of women though are also attracted to ‘the poem’, the story that captures her imagination, takes her flight of fancy. Ross Jeffries uses that all the time. She also wants to think about the right things at the right time, so the man can make it easy for her. Fascinate and engage her mind with fun things, a set psychological pathway that leads to having sex. Thinking about the right thing at the right time.
Most men are lazy. We’d rather she just fell in bed with us. Find us interesting without making any effort. Let her get drunk while we talk shite. That might have worked but can lead to regret-it-in-the-morning syndrome which was maybe not a problem for us but is considered very politically incorrect now unless you’re a teenager and even teens are having trouble these days just going out and getting drunk to get laid.
The most reliable way is to learn what to say and when. It can serve you well even into your 60s. I’ve had more civvies than I can count so you could say I’m very lucky but in my 20s I tried to notice what worked and worked at it. Wealth can also make you lazy. Especially if you’re busy. Buying an SP session as simply as phoning for pizza. Why waste time? Plus you can fart and belch and she won’t mind.
I’ve never seen the attraction of paying large sums for prossies. Mostly people who do are paying for cleaner sheets and fancier clothes., though they swear it’s about ‘quality’. After the first few hundred most people realise it’s bollocks. Get out there and experience. Chicken farms to luxury boutique brothels, multi-day GFE to three pump-n-dumps a day for a week or more. See what makes you happy then work out how to get that.
