Displays of wealth and attracting gold diggers

[HappyShopper82]

Hopefully not jinxing my chances of winning by posting this, but with Fridays Euromillions Jackpot set at £201m, thoughts turn to how I'd spend the money and how my sex life would improve as a consequence. Currently early 40's bachelor, reasonably good looking, got my 'shit together' (to coin a phrase from these dating apps  ). Yet I'm so perplexed by modern dating that I rarely get a look in these days as women's delusion is through the roof. I'm therefore curious if this would change if suddenly winning the lottery? I've was briefly on Seeking a while back and all I encountered was either women with baggage, or women with partners wanting to sell me boob pics for financial donations and I punt maybe once or twice a year purely to scratch the itch. Personally I like the idea of having a hareem of women in a constant audition phase but I'm not convinced having the flash car/house guarantees this.

So the question is, if you won the Jackpot how would you use this to benefit your sex life? Question goes out to single and those with partners meeting women on the side.

[Southernbloke]

Plenty of very nice people out there. If you are looking at ladies who want to send you boob pics or “ baggage “
If I was you I’d stop using dating apps and find ladies in real life with intrests in common.
As for winning a huge jackpot all the above stays the same.
Use your common sense. Plenty of opportunities to meet very nice people out there

[delta69]

 Charter a private jet to the Maldives and have a MFFFFFFF   

[Hornydevil666]

I'd be living life and making Dan Bilzarian jealous, I'd be on a speed boat somewhere with 6x  23 yr old Instagram models sunbathing on my cock.
Then back to my 6 bed mansion so the wife can get some too.

[PilotMan]

"I like the idea of having a hareem of women in a constant audition phase"

You seem to have / know the answer already

Win the lottery, flaunt your wealth to gold diggers and build your hareem.

If you haven't got two halfpennies to rub together ..... That's another story.

[HappyShopper82]

"I like the idea of having a hareem of women in a constant audition phase"

You seem to have / know the answer already

Win the lottery, flaunt your wealth to gold diggers and build your hareem.

If you haven't got two halfpennies to rub together ..... That's another story.

Sort of, however I'm not very prevalent on social media and as far as displays of wealth, not really sure how this is best achieved in a day to day setting. I drive a nice car yet not sure upgrading to a Lamborghini would make much difference as I'm yet to see a woman turn her head when i drive by/fill up. I think the only way would be to literally ship/chauffeur women into my mansion using the likes of Seeking/OF/Awork/Slide into their 'DM's' etc. Fk them//fk them off and go radio silent to see which ones stay in contact for second helpings. Sounds quite crass but I think even with a ton of money women wouldn't randomly appear without taking the party to them first.

[RandomGuy99]

I don't want to attract gold diggers.  There are plenty of non-gold digging women out there that I'd prefer to attract. I've already had two SPs joke about marriage but they were Thai.

I would just give myself a punting budget and spend it when I get the chance. Getting the chance is more of the problem now.

I just don't bump into many women these days, so I guess I would spend time at appropriate venues, but again I don't get much chance to do this given my job. I'm not entirely sure what these venues are though.

Is it hanging out in Sainsbury's?

Where do people bump into women?

[HappyShopper82]

I don't want to attract gold diggers.  There are plenty of non-gold digging women out there that I'd prefer to attract. I've already had two SPs joke about marriage but they were Thai.

I would just give myself a punting budget and spend it when I get the chance. Getting the chance is more of the problem now.

I just don't bump into many women these days, so I guess I would spend time at appropriate venues, but again I don't get much chance to do this given my job. I'm not entirely sure what these venues are though.

Is it hanging out in Sainsbury's?

Where do people bump into women?

I used to work in hospitality and live in shared staff accommodation. It was like a revolving door of young women. I always found providing you don't get friendzoned the 'law of propinquity' always paid dividends. Sadly I outgrew that job, moved away, bought a house etc.

These days my only interactions with women are in passing as I mostly work with men. I'd really have to go out of my way to join clubs/societies etc wth no guarantee of success.

One thing I will say is that being in shape helps as I was back then. If I won the lottery I'd definitely go down the personal trainer/personal chef route and get absolutely ripped.

[PilotMan]

One thing I will say is that being in shape helps as I was back then. If I won the lottery I'd definitely go down the personal trainer/personal chef route and get absolutely ripped.

Spend more on your "head" game - that's what counts, being ripped is way secondary.

[mr.bluesky]

Buy yourself a puppy or cute dog, take it for a walk, women will soon approach you, women love cute dogs. Unfortunately they will probably be more interested in the dog than you 
Failing that buy yourself a Ferrari  fanny magnet

[Marmalade]

Travel

[RandomGuy99]

I think the easiest way is to see a £1000 SP and mention to her that you're interested in a exclusive relationship and you're a millionaire. She'll move in tomorrow.

If you want more then she'll probably have work mates to help you spend your money. By Christmas 2024 you'll be skint and they'll be gone.

[willie loman]

I used to work in hospitality and live in shared staff accommodation. It was like a revolving door of young women. I always found providing you don't get friendzoned the 'law of propinquity' always paid dividends. Sadly I outgrew that job, moved away, bought a house etc.

These days my only interactions with women are in passing as I mostly work with men. I'd really have to go out of my way to join clubs/societies etc wth no guarantee of success.

One thing I will say is that being in shape helps as I was back then. If I won the lottery I'd definitely go down the personal trainer/personal chef route and get absolutely ripped.

Fully agree with your first paragraph, where there is social opportunity there is sexual opportunity, people who dont have a social life, dont have a sex life.

[8MillionDollarMan]

So the question is, if you won the Jackpot how would you use this to benefit your sex life?

It will benefit you if you pay for sex if not you just become paranoid women are after your money like me.Or that might just be me.

[Viper90]

Plenty of very nice people out there. If you are looking at ladies who want to send you boob pics or “ baggage “
If I was you I’d stop using dating apps and find ladies in real life with intrests in common.
As for winning a huge jackpot all the above stays the same.
Use your common sense. Plenty of opportunities to meet very nice people out there

Well said.

[fudi_maar]

Marmalade has given a great answer, in just one word : 'Travel'.

My punting life, and my life in general, totally changed once I started to travel.

Nowadays, I rarely punt in the UK, cos I've become a little jaded by the mediocre services here. And as for dating, well, a lot of the women on dating apps are just plain delusional. They've been dopamined to the hilt with constant 'likes' on their social media accounts, and have come to believe that they are all princesses who deserve nothing but Chad Thundercock.

So, OP, if you win the lotto, take a flight to South America or Asia. You can have your hareem on rotation there, and they'll THANK you for fucking them.

[stanr]

Marmalade has given a great answer, in just one word : 'Travel'.

My punting life, and my life in general, totally changed once I started to travel.

Nowadays, I rarely punt in the UK, cos I've become a little jaded by the mediocre services here. And as for dating, well, a lot of the women on dating apps are just plain delusional. They've been dopamined to the hilt with constant 'likes' on their social media accounts, and have come to believe that they are all princesses who deserve nothing but Chad Thundercock.

So, OP, if you win the lotto, take a flight to South America or Asia. You can have your hareem on rotation there, and they'll THANK you for fucking them.

Totally agree... UK scene is jaded....Elsewhere esp the Far East is more vibrant

[RandomGuy99]

Totally agree... UK scene is jaded....Elsewhere esp the Far East is more vibrant

But the Far East scene feels more like sexploitation to me. In the UK it feels more like a career decision. I could be wrong.

[stanr]

But the Far East scene feels more like sexploitation to me. In the UK it feels more like a career decision. I could be wrong.

For the Far East, think beyond just Thailand and its perceived image...there is far more to the region than Thai

[scutty brown]

Get a yacht in the Med.
Employ yacht girls to crew it.

[HappyShopper82]

For the Far East, think beyond just Thailand and its perceived image...there is far more to the region than Thai

Tbh Thai girls don't do it for me. Of the handful I've been with they definitely give off a strange aroma. Possibly diet related, same as with some black girls.

I think if I were to do a 'passport Bro's' thing I'd definitely go Eastern Europe, Russia, Balkans etc.

[RandomGuy99]

For the Far East, think beyond just Thailand and its perceived image...there is far more to the region than Thai

Like where?

[scutty brown]

Tbh Thai girls don't do it for me. Of the handful I've been with they definitely give off a strange aroma. Possibly diet related, same as with some black girls.

I think if I were to do a 'passport Bro's' thing I'd definitely go Eastern Europe, Russia, Balkans etc.

Russia? How do you reckon you're going to get there ...........?

[Marmalade]

Russia? How do you reckon you're going to get there ...........?

There’s still flights. Even ones advertising ‘return’.

[scutty brown]

There’s still flights. Even ones advertising ‘return’.

I was thinking more that the Russians are unlikely to let anyone from the UK into the country for quite some time

[Marmalade]

I was thinking more that the Russians are unlikely to let anyone from the UK into the country for quite some time

I wouldn’t be inclined to risk it just now, but if they weren’t letting people in you’d think there wouldn’t be flights. All I can think of is, since you need a visa, they might have clamped down. You also need to go by very roundabout routes and your travel insurance is non-existent as ukgov has advised against all travel there. There’s plenty of Russian women in more accessible countries.

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[wristjob]

When I was younger I wouldn't say I was paranoid of gold diggers but I was certainly alert to them, especially when I had a bit of cash. Now I'm getting older I think send them my way - you can't take it with you and I guess we are all people who pay for it, it's just a different way of doing it.

[PepeMAGA]

Depends on the scope of what's considered a gold-digger.
Like money is an attractive trait for women, for various reasons, so they may be attracted to it, not looking to rip you off.

[willie loman]

When I was younger I wouldn't say I was paranoid of gold diggers but I was certainly alert to them, especially when I had a bit of cash. Now I'm getting older I think send them my way - you can't take it with you and I guess we are all people who pay for it, it's just a different way of doing it.

good post, women looking for a man with money are merely being sensible, an awful lot of women are in the sex business cos they made poor choices when young , and were left holding the baby.

[Viper90]

good post, women looking for a man with money are merely being sensible, an awful lot of women are in the sex business cos they made poor choices when young , and were left holding the baby.

Do you not think though that theres a difference between a gold digger  and a women wanting a man with his shit together?

Id say you can be the latter without being wealthy enough to attract any money chasing types.

[Stevelondon]

Travel

Nail on the head Marmalade. I like to travel already and am lucky enough to do so. Winning that sort of amount on the lottery simply safeguards my family from having to work and would definitely give me the opportunity to travel more.

[Marmalade]

Nail on the head Marmalade. I like to travel already and am lucky enough to do so. Winning that sort of amount on the lottery simply safeguards my family from having to work and would definitely give me the opportunity to travel more.

The more I travel the more I think the situation in the UK sucks. Prossies are still treated as special treats and only have to work minimal hours to earn a living while punters have to fork out lots of money, sometimes drive distances, rarely have more than one punt in a day, and are limited for choice and often given lacklustre service. The price and rarity IMO causes the experiences to be overrated when they should be more like a service that can be expected like buying a coffee, well made and with polite service.

[willie loman]

Do you not think though that theres a difference between a gold digger  and a women wanting a man with his shit together?

Id say you can be the latter without being wealthy enough to attract any money chasing types.

agree with you, but so many men feel sorry for themselves, they want top girls, but if a girl wants a man with status and looks etc they are enraged. Its still way better to be a man , if you want a sex life, with each decade more and more women drop out of the sex market, we keep marching on.

[Marmalade]

agree with you, but so many men feel sorry for themselves, they want top girls, but if a girl wants a man with status and looks etc they are enraged. Its still way better to be a man , if you want a sex life, with each decade more and more women drop out of the sex market, we keep marching on.

Tbh when I was in one particular high paid job everything else was compartmentalised. The gf bit was a strict add-on. I’d spend an allotted amount of time, wine dine, gentlemanly in the sack, superficial chat and that was it. Fine while she knew or accepted the score and if she didn’t then there were others where she came from. It was pretty heartless but I didn’t want something fulfilling I just wanted to make more money at that point. If she was intelligent that was a bonus but an executive who was as busy I was the only sort that worked for very long. Presentable enough at company dinners. Great.


You have to find what suits your life. That may change. Many women drop out with each decade but not all. So practice your game while you’re young!

[willie loman]

Tbh when I was in one particular high paid job everything else was compartmentalised. The gf bit was a strict add-on. I’d spend an allotted amount of time, wine dine, gentlemanly in the sack, superficial chat and that was it. Fine while she knew or accepted the score and if she didn’t then there were others where she came from. It was pretty heartless but I didn’t want something fulfilling I just wanted to make more money at that point. If she was intelligent that was a bonus but an executive who was as busy I was the only sort that worked for very long. Presentable enough at company dinners. Great.


You have to find what suits your life. That may change. Many women drop out with each decade but not all. So practice your game while you’re young!

i dont think you grasped my point, each decade women drop out of the sex market, but men remain active, so at age 60 say, the majority of men are still shagging, but the percentage of women with a sex life is way lower, this was always my perception, thankfully a scientific survey recently confirmed my views, sure a man like you can find it.

[Viper90]

i dont think you grasped my point, each decade women drop out of the sex market, but men remain active, so at age 60 say, the majority of men are still shagging, but the percentage of women with a sex life is way lower, this was always my perception, thankfully a scientific survey recently confirmed my views, sure a man like you can find it.

I get what you mean.

Men are interested in sex pretty much their whole lives.

Women generally lose interest as they age/ have kids /get married.

I think women also lose interest when their partners stop being the men that they used to find attractive.

[Marmalade]

i dont think you grasped my point, each decade women drop out of the sex market, but men remain active, so at age 60 say, the majority of men are still shagging, but the percentage of women with a sex life is way lower, this was always my perception, thankfully a scientific survey recently confirmed my views, sure a man like you can find it.

I haven’t, and don’t, disagree with you Willie. I could expand it considerably but i thought it was fairly obvious. I was adding a point on how to cope with it. Again, I can base it on my own experience or demographics. 

[willie loman]

I get what you mean.

Men are interested in sex pretty much their whole lives.

Women generally lose interest as they age/ have kids /get married.

I think women also lose interest when their partners stop being the men that they used to find attractive.

its not so much that women lose interest, they lose the opportunity, mature men get hit on all the time , mature women are scrabbling for crumbs, once a women becomes a widow, or divorced, its not quite game over , but her choices are way limited.

[Viper90]

its not so much that women lose interest, they lose the opportunity, mature men get hit on all the time , mature women are scrabbling for crumbs, once a women becomes a widow, or divorced, its not quite game over , but her choices are way limited.

Cant say i fully agree. Most experienced men will tell you the sex dries up with their wives/ partners through the above circumstances.

I reckon a few on here could testify to that.

[Viper90]

its not so much that women lose interest, they lose the opportunity, mature men get hit on all the time , mature women are scrabbling for crumbs, once a women becomes a widow, or divorced, its not quite game over , but her choices are way limited.

Plus mature men dont get hit on as much as you think. Only the ones with wealth get the attention.

[willie loman]

Cant say i fully agree. Most experienced men will tell you the sex dries up with their wives/ partners through the above circumstances.

I reckon a few on here could testify to that.

as per my post, i am talking about single women, divorced , widowed etc

[willie loman]

Plus mature men dont get hit on as much as you think. Only the ones with wealth get the attention.

dont go by my views or experience, spend a bit of time reading not allowed, that will give you a glimpse of the grim reality that faces most single women, they have a dating thread that is worth a read, women have a window of opportunity when they are young , but as the years go by, they have to accept its a mans world, when it comes to coupling up.

[Squire Haggard]

its not so much that women lose interest, they lose the opportunity, mature men get hit on all the time , mature women are scrabbling for crumbs, once a women becomes a widow, or divorced, its not quite game over , but her choices are way limited.

Women are like dogshit. The older they are, the easier they are to pick up. 

(could be said about men as well)

[PilotMan]

Plus mature men dont get hit on as much as you think. Only the ones with wealth get the attention.

It's not purely money, or even money at all.

You have to have game, be very presentable and interesting.

If you think just having copious amounts of money will get you far, you'll be scraping the bottom of the barrel over and over.

[Marmalade]

It's not purely money, or even money at all.

You have to have game, be very presentable and interesting.

If you think just having copious amounts of money will get you far, you'll be scraping the bottom of the barrel over and over.

True.

[8MillionDollarMan]

If you think just having copious amounts of money will get you far, you'll be scraping the bottom of the barrel over and over.

You clearly either don't have copious amounts of money or mix with people that do,probably both.

[PilotMan]

You clearly either don't have copious amounts of money or mix with people that do,probably both.

Clearly.

[Marmalade]

You clearly either don't have copious amounts of money or mix with people that do,probably both.

I suspect he maybe meant it slightly differently to the way you perhaps understood it, but that was just my impression. You can have good game with or without copious amounts of dosh. The latter can free up your concerns about a lot of things so it depends how you handle it. It can also be a barrier if you don’t. If you want a woman who can be your equal then it’s less fun if she’s dependent on you as it’s a disparity (just my opinion). If you’re not bothered about that then why worry about it.

One thing that makes it easier is that if you move in wealthy circles there’s more trust. It’s like being in a club.

[SonofAJohn]

Hopefully not jinxing my chances of winning by posting this, but with Fridays Euromillions Jackpot set at £201m, thoughts turn to how I'd spend the money and how my sex life would improve as a consequence. Currently early 40's bachelor, reasonably good looking, got my 'shit together' (to coin a phrase from these dating apps  ). Yet I'm so perplexed by modern dating that I rarely get a look in these days as women's delusion is through the roof. I'm therefore curious if this would change if suddenly winning the lottery? I've was briefly on Seeking a while back and all I encountered was either women with baggage, or women with partners wanting to sell me boob pics for financial donations and I punt maybe once or twice a year purely to scratch the itch. Personally I like the idea of having a hareem of women in a constant audition phase but I'm not convinced having the flash car/house guarantees this.

So the question is, if you won the Jackpot how would you use this to benefit your sex life? Question goes out to single and those with partners meeting women on the side.

If you won the jackpot, you could punt everyday rotating different girls. Also, you could start a business, employ women and make them audition for your attention at work.

[MissWolf]

If you won the jackpot, you could punt everyday rotating different girls. Also, you could start a business, employ women and make them audition for your attention at work.

So you think having money entitles you to behave like a cunt and subject women to sexual harassment for your ego?

You are a sad weirdo and need to give your head a good wobble