Seeking Arrangement NI

[Username7070]

Evening all,
Anybody currently using or used Seeking for meet ups in NI?
I like the idea of meeting up with someone local  through seeking rather  than pay direct to an escort.
Any advice or information welcome, particularly from married individuals who have experience. Thanks.

[daviemac]

You've been around a while mate, have you not had any escort bookings you could have shared info on?

[Username7070]

Haven’t used any escorts in NI to review mate, slim pickings and always wary of false adverts etc. hence the question of genuine local  females via seeking. If I can add value to the group I will be sure to post.

[pbj46]

Yes have used on occasion and it worked well. 

What advice is there to give, what do you need to know? 

Obviously protect your anonymity, don't have your face pic visible in public photos on your profile, don't use your real email address or phone number, pay with a disposable visa etc.  Never send money up front, if they ask for a 'deposit' walk away. Pay in cash, not from your bank account.

[hrm69]

Have taken the plunge with seeking over the last couple of weeks. Wanted to try something different due to the slim pickings elsewhere here at the moment.

Got chatting to a couple of girls. One girl from the south pleading poverty in exchange for videos, she is real as sent me an initial personalised hello. Ive not really engaged too much with her after she asked for £250 for 50 videos 😂.

Couple of more local girls, one in particular seems viable, wants a coffee meet in public first. The other is looking £400 for a few hours of ‘fun’.

All exchange's have been via whatsapp and Telegram on my punting phone. If anyone has any advice or certain girls/scammers to avoid it would be welcome.

[Whiskeyjack]

Is it worth the initial outlay?

[hrm69]

Is it worth it? I’m not sure but you will get a lot of hits and a lot of messages from girls, not just from these islands but mainland UK. It just depends how far you want take it with them. I’ve whittled it down to 2 girls at the moment but still undecided if I’ll go the full way with it. Is it a better option than a ‘punt’?  I’m not so sure with prices Ive been quoted.

I learned fairly quickly to ignore the mainland UK ones, unless I can meet then whats the point. There are some right cases on it though. I had one girl, was talking to her via whatsapp over a couple of days, she mentioned ‘arrangement’ I said nothing more than what it would include, she went off at me saying I had spoiled it accusing me of asking for services and all that🤦‍♂️. Was basically left with a thanks but no thanks, said she would delete my number I did so with hers, 2 days later she was back pleading poverty asking for a serious sum of money on the basis that something might happen between us.

So in essence, you need to put a lot of ground work in. You’ll know the scammers fairly quickly.

[hrm69]

Thought I would bump this topic up again as I have been meaning to provide an update of where my experiences on this island have got me over the last 9/10 months, if anyone is still interested (and mods don't mind) of course!! I persisted with Seeking for a few months and tried Secret Benefits as well (more on that later)

From Seeking I did meet a girl from Drogheda, got chatting to her over a few weeks and drove down a day and met her at her place and had a morning of good filthy fun. We seemed to get on well and spoke after for a week or two then she all but disappeared. I haven't heard from her in months and she hasn't been online on any messaging apps. After that I decided against it, given the monthly outlaw on the site and as I previously mentioned the accounts from England and beyond looking money for pictures was just becoming tedious. 

I then tried Secret Benefits. I'll not go into the workings of it as there is a topic on the main forum that details it all, a lot of bot accounts. Got talking to a few local girls, some went quiet after a few messages, one other I met for a coffee but didn't progress further. One was looking £1000 a month and I would basically have her on speed dial 😄. One I did meet offered me a decent deal but the meet was a bit of a let down, we had decent fun but she clearly had an issue with drink and after the meet I was receiving slurry voice notes on my punting phone at 3am in the morning.

So essentially my take on it is.

1. If you are able to accommodate it would open a whole new world of options. Many of the girls are either single mothers, who understandably don't want you near their house or younger girls in their early to mid 20's that are either still at home or in a shared house and don't want a middle aged man turning up!!!

2. You certainly need a lot of free time. If, like me, you have a busy work and home life then it's difficult to make it work without booking time off work on the hush hush. 

3. If you're looking for a once a month meet then stick to WG's. You need a lot of disposable income to really make it work. Yes you may get more time for your money but as said if you or she can't accommodate that bumps prices up, day hotels, Air B&B's etc. 

4. If you travel regularly for work, especially to London, Manchester or Liverpool etc then you could easily build up an array of options in these places and would be worth putting the effort in. 

5. NI is far too small for these kind of sites IMO. On SB I came across a girl I work with, who messaged me but I never returned obviously and a girl that lived locally to me. Clear as day face pictures as well. Thankfully mine was hidden. 

I doubt I would go back to it unless my circumstances changed and allowed me more time to do it. 

Be interesting to know if anyone else local has had any experiences? 

[Deaconfool]

I'd limited fun on it but fun never the less.
Little cutie was mainly car meets , Alice in wonderland accommodated (she was probs my best meet) few others were forgettable.  Becks looks like one he'll of a good time but unfortunately I never got her details    details would be much appreciated lol

[pbj46]

If it's the same Becks I'm thinking of (larger girl?), she was some operator. Up for absolutely anything.

[Deaconfool]

Small girl 4'11 lightly made up girl, think she might be from east Belfast.
I use to be on her snap chat until I deleted account. From the video she posted she also up for anything