Tanric Sex - Any good SPs for that sort of thing?

[lovpab]

Evening gents,

Have you met any SPs that would provide tantric sex or that in general really know how to set the mood, take it slow and provide a truly sensual service?

My "problem" is that since I got to know tantra, my sex life has changed dramatically: the pleasure comes from eroticism and intimacy with the partner, and physically from the whole body, as opposed to reaching ejaculation and Mr. Johnson in general.  It takes time and space to warm up the body, the mind and the soul, so I normally prefer 2 or even 3 hour sessions, and it's really important to take it slow, build connection between the sex partners etc. 

Also before, I used to prefer tantric or FBSM masseuses (like Savanya of Canary Wharf or Anges of Camden long ago  ), because they quite often paid more attention to these issues. But then again good FBSM providers often have tight borders when it comes to kissing, oral, penetration etc, so the service is very one-directional.

I wonder if there are others who enjoy similar services? Have you had any luck with FS providers or masseuses who offer extras?

(PS: Before you smash me for posting such a inquiry for recommendations as my first post, let me tell you I've been quite an active member on this and other forums when I used to live in the UK. Alas, I only visit London from time to time, and my old account was frozen here too  )

[daviemac]

(PS: Before you smash me for posting such a inquiry for recommendations as my first post, let me tell you I've been quite an active member on this and other forums when I used to live in the UK. Alas, I only visit London from time to time, and my old account was frozen here too  )

Is that supposed to mean something?  other site have nothing to do with us and this is your first post as a new member now.

I've sent you a PM so you can tell me who you were before.

[jamiekinkxxx]

There is a vast amount of resources on this site that you can search through by just searching for 'tantra' and/or 'tantric' it is a commonly discussed topic

[lovpab]

There is a vast amount of resources on this site that you can search through by just searching for 'tantra' and/or 'tantric' it is a commonly discussed topic

Oh great, I had used the search function wrong, and finally I found the right way of using it (sort by newest, max results to the max)! How silly one can be 

Anyway, the problem with tantra is that the term is so widely misused by everyone that it doesn't lead me to the real deal. Let me describe the problem:

First let's specify that we talk about tantra only in the context of sex (because it is also much much more)..

And define that tantra in the context of sex necessitates some understanding and manipulation of energies in the body.. (for example from the taoist practice)

Now the challenge on this forum is that tantra can be mentioned in four different kinds of cases:

1. The SP has no understanding of energies, and provides one-directional services like a massage (this is the most common use in this forum)
2. The SP has no understanding of energies, and provides interactive services like full service (probably quite rare)
3. The SP understands and works with energies, and provides on one-directional services like massage (this is uncommon, but can be found here too)
4. The SP understands and works with energies, and provides interactive services like full service (the holy grail!)

So most of the SPs selling "tantra" do not really know anything about energy work. There are some so-called "real tantra masseuses" who usually do not deliver (ejaculation) orgasms at all, or like it was mentioned in some of the reviews on this forum, the orgasm is not emphasised or sought after. There are also some providers of FBSM / erotic massage that have some training in tantra, but most of them keep their distance, so the ultimate promise of intimate sex with a tantra-trained provider is not delivered.

Since the commercial sex scene in the UK is pretty great, maybe it would be possible to find someone with a proper tantric background who would do more than just a massage (the case 4 above). Impossible or not? 

[jamiekinkxxx]

Oh great, I had used the search function wrong, and finally I found the right way of using it (sort by newest, max results to the max)! How silly one can be 

Anyway, the problem with tantra is that the term is so widely misused by everyone that it doesn't lead me to the real deal. Let me describe the problem:

First let's specify that we talk about tantra only in the context of sex (because it is also much much more)..

And define that tantra in the context of sex necessitates some understanding and manipulation of energies in the body.. (for example from the taoist practice)

Now the challenge on this forum is that tantra can be mentioned in four different kinds of cases:

1. The SP has no understanding of energies, and provides one-directional services like a massage (this is the most common use in this forum)
2. The SP has no understanding of energies, and provides interactive services like full service (probably quite rare)
3. The SP understands and works with energies, and provides on one-directional services like massage (this is uncommon, but can be found here too)
4. The SP understands and works with energies, and provides interactive services like full service (the holy grail!)

So most of the SPs selling "tantra" do not really know anything about energy work. There are some so-called "real tantra masseuses" who usually do not deliver (ejaculation) orgasms at all, or like it was mentioned in some of the reviews on this forum, the orgasm is not emphasised or sought after. There are also some providers of FBSM / erotic massage that have some training in tantra, but most of them keep their distance, so the ultimate promise of intimate sex with a tantra-trained provider is not delivered.

Since the commercial sex scene in the UK is pretty great, maybe it would be possible to find someone with a proper tantric background who would do more than just a massage (the case 4 above). Impossible or not? 

and the search facility does bvring back reults that cover this and offer you sites where you can find genuine tantra therapists that you seek.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Oh great, I had used the search function wrong, and finally I found the right way of using it (sort by newest, max results to the max)! How silly one can be 

I thought you had been a "...quite an active member on this and..."  and still don't know how to use the search functionality?

[Jonestown]

It's hard to believe that someone who gives the impression that they know so much about "real" tantra would come to a forum about sex work looking for "real" tantra contacts.

[yellowman]

I too would like to hear about a tantra a SP who is as good as Agnes of Camden was.
I was a regular of Agnes for many years, and I am still struggling to find anyone similar in skills to Agnes. 

[jamiekinkxxx]

I too would like to hear about a tantra a SP who is as good as Agnes of Camden was.
I was a regular of Agnes for many years, and I am still struggling to find anyone similar in skills to Agnes.

advanced search will reveal some that you can follow up with