Afraid I agree with the OP and find the sarcasm we tend to see on this subject puzzling.
I have zero intention of ever having sex with a natal male. On the one occasion I suspected that I walked out.
For whatever reason, Brazilians and Thais do seem to be at the forefront of post-op non-disclosure.
May seem a bit much to others but I now find myself looking closely at their profiles for their height, fake tits, nipple size, width of hips, a-levels on their likes etc. Reviews on here also help too ofc.