where to start..
might be better to work backwards.
got home yesterday. hit play on the answering machine at home. my home landline number. An escort from Adultwork. she knew my name, my address, and obviously my number. I didn't hear the whole message I hit delete as my other half walked in the room. She heard a bit of it, which has been bad enough
the background:
I'd messaged an escort on AW a week ago. I'd fancied indulging my submissive side for once. She had all the boxes ticked - fetish, role play, discipline etc etc. I sent her a message, nothing wild or wierd, run of the mill, strict aunty/teacher/nanny/naughty boy type stuff
Had several messages back from her, very aggresive, how dare I ask for such a thing, what gives me the right to send a message outlining something I'd like for a meet, she has never been so offended etc etc. After the first message, I apologised profusley and politely. pointed out all the ticked boxes, apologised again, obviously I'd misinterpreted etc
obviously that wasn't good enough. more irate messages, she'd reported me to AW, posted on the service providers forum on there etc, asked AW for my details etc etc.
so. the bottom line... AW must have given them out. the only way they could get any of that is from Credit card history. you sign up with an email address only. I've never even spoke to her. If I had she would at best have a mobile number
As you can imagine. I didn't sleep much last night. major paranoia now. more phone calls? she gonna turn up at the house??
WTF!! ADULTWORK GAVE OUT PERSONAL DETAILS!!!
The consequences of this for me, and for everyone else I guess are fucking catastrophic
terrified if I stick her profile address up, it's gonna make matters worse. She's not some daft young kid either. She's a mature woman
anyone got any advice, thoughts here?