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gestaltentity

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where to start..

might be better to work backwards.

got home yesterday.  hit play on the answering machine at home.  my home landline number.  An escort from Adultwork.  she knew my name, my address, and obviously my number.  I didn't hear the whole message I hit delete as my other half walked in the room.  She heard a bit of it, which has been bad enough

the background:
I'd messaged an escort on AW a week ago.  I'd fancied indulging my submissive side for once.  She had all the boxes ticked - fetish, role play, discipline etc etc.  I sent her a message, nothing wild or wierd, run of the mill, strict aunty/teacher/nanny/naughty boy type stuff

Had several messages back from her, very aggresive, how dare I ask for such a thing, what gives me the right to send a message outlining something I'd like for a meet, she has never been so offended etc etc.  After the first message, I apologised profusley and politely.  pointed out all the ticked boxes, apologised again, obviously I'd misinterpreted etc

obviously that wasn't good enough.  more irate messages, she'd reported me to AW, posted on the service providers forum on there etc, asked AW for my details etc etc.

so.  the bottom line...  AW must have given them out.  the only way they could get any of that is from Credit card history.  you sign up with an email address only.  I've never even spoke to her.  If I had she would at best have a mobile number

As you can imagine.  I didn't sleep much last night.  major paranoia now.  more phone calls?  she gonna turn up at the house??

WTF!! ADULTWORK GAVE OUT PERSONAL DETAILS!!!

The consequences of this for me, and for everyone else I guess are fucking catastrophic

terrified if I stick her profile address up, it's gonna make matters worse.  She's not some daft young kid either.  She's a mature woman

anyone got any advice, thoughts here?


cockneybstrd

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This all sounds very odd.... Did you ask for some kind of odd shit like for her to out you or something in your role play and she is simply following your orders and this post is all part of your fetish....

Otherwise this is very odd..

gestaltentity

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nope.  all pretty run of the mill bedroom only stuff in the dom world.  2 others I asked the same request from loved the idea.  I'd made a booking with one of them.  now cancelled for obvious reasons

Offline akauya


WTF!! ADULTWORK GAVE OUT PERSONAL DETAILS!!!


Jesus! If that's true it's way out of fucking order. Isn't it against the Data Protection Act to pass on info like that? Therefore, illegal? Don't know much about this so if someone knows please post.

OP, are you 100% sure it could only be AW that passed on the info? Maybe you contacted/met/know another prossie who happens to be friends of the nutty one? I don't know but it just seems way out of order for and organisation, even as shit as AW is, to pass on private details like that. If we found out it's true I imagine no-one else is going to be using their credit card with AW - therefore major income loss.

Maybe we should invite someone from AW to comment on here.



cockneybstrd

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Out of interest what is the service providers forum that you speak off OP

What did she say about you on there ??

This all sounds very odd indeed. But then again we are dealing with Pro$$ie's. Was it a message from the old sea hag that you had offended in the first place.

I would suggest that you ought to contact AW and ask them for some kind of explanation.

Offline Jimmyredcab

This all sounds very odd

Agree entirely.
We know that the management of Adultwork are scumbag spivs but I see no reason why they would reveal your details to a prostitute, when you buy credits you only give your card number ----------- all sounds very strange to me.   :unknown:

touch.and.go

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I cant imagine AW would give out that info (even if they had access to it)

gestaltentity

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Jesus! If that's true it's way out of fucking order. Isn't it against the Data Protection Act to pass on info like that? Therefore, illegal? Don't know much about this so if someone knows please post.

OP, are you 100% sure it could only be AW that passed on the info? Maybe you contacted/met/know another prossie who happens to be friends of the nutty one? I don't know but it just seems way out of order for and organisation, even as shit as AW is, to pass on private details like that. If we found out it's true I imagine no-one else is going to be using their credit card with AW - therefore major income loss.

Maybe we should invite someone from AW to comment on here.

absolutely positive.  I'm not a regular punter and tread carefully.  If they don't have a phone number on their profile I walk on by usually, so don't often message them.  Credit cards - probabaly added a fiver half a dozen times purely to check out a private gallery for a potential punt.  Only met one other that is remotely in that area as well - 40 miles away

Is there anyone from AW in here? 


Offline Thepacifist

How can AW get your home number from your credit card details? I've never used my card on AW coz i don't trust it and now after reading this i don't think i ever will. You should post the girls' link to warn other punters. At first it sounded like she was being dominant etc but if she's trying to out you then fuck her.

gestaltentity

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I've no idea.  my name and address fair enough.  googling those though, and you get companies house shit, business registration stuff...  so phone number is findable



Asshunter1987

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Seriously thats bang out order mate! What a bitch!

How would of as obtained your telephone number though? If they have given your number out it is indeed in some kind of breach of data protection.

Offline Matium

You'll need to search your memory.

Somewhere along the line you revealed your identity to a WG and now that woman has passed on your details to the mad woman.

It cannot be Aultwork.

Firstly, it's against the Data Protection Act, Adultwork could be prosecuted for this.

Secondly, if it became known that Adultwork were revealing the home details of punters to prossies then Adultwork's entire business would collapse overnight.

After all, which guy would ever trust them again?

Offline Jimmyredcab

I've never used my card on AW coz i don't trust it

Used my credit card on there over 20 times, never had a problem.     :unknown: :unknown:

Adultwork earn a small fortune already, no need for them to resort to credit card fraud.    :hi:

touch.and.go

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Thank god this psycho bitch is "up north"  :scare:

cockneybstrd

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I've no idea.  my name and address fair enough.  googling those though, and you get companies house shit, business registration stuff...  so phone number is findable

There you go there is your answer.

I am still curious to know what this service provider forum is that she slagged you off on is....

And also if it was her that left the message on your house phone

I am not saying your a billy bullshit. But I think you may have left some of the facts out. As I am not a big fan of AW but I dont think they would give out your bank details to some old sea hag just because you had offended her.

I think the answer is a bit more interesting than AW

Offline Sedlmayer

Name and shame the prostitute straight away please, with AW link.
Whether she got your details from Aw or from somewhere else, she deserves to go onto everyone's list to avoid.

Offline akauya

OP, If you are concerned about posting her link, at least you should pass the details to Admin. Looks like another good candidate for the Hall of Shame .


Offline smiths

where to start..

might be better to work backwards.

got home yesterday.  hit play on the answering machine at home.  my home landline number.  An escort from Adultwork.  she knew my name, my address, and obviously my number.  I didn't hear the whole message I hit delete as my other half walked in the room.  She heard a bit of it, which has been bad enough

the background:
I'd messaged an escort on AW a week ago.  I'd fancied indulging my submissive side for once.  She had all the boxes ticked - fetish, role play, discipline etc etc.  I sent her a message, nothing wild or wierd, run of the mill, strict aunty/teacher/nanny/naughty boy type stuff

Had several messages back from her, very aggresive, how dare I ask for such a thing, what gives me the right to send a message outlining something I'd like for a meet, she has never been so offended etc etc.  After the first message, I apologised profusley and politely.  pointed out all the ticked boxes, apologised again, obviously I'd misinterpreted etc

obviously that wasn't good enough.  more irate messages, she'd reported me to AW, posted on the service providers forum on there etc, asked AW for my details etc etc.

so.  the bottom line...  AW must have given them out.  the only way they could get any of that is from Credit card history.  you sign up with an email address only.  I've never even spoke to her.  If I had she would at best have a mobile number

As you can imagine.  I didn't sleep much last night.  major paranoia now.  more phone calls?  she gonna turn up at the house??

WTF!! ADULTWORK GAVE OUT PERSONAL DETAILS!!!

The consequences of this for me, and for everyone else I guess are fucking catastrophic

terrified if I stick her profile address up, it's gonna make matters worse.  She's not some daft young kid either.  She's a mature woman

anyone got any advice, thoughts here?

No idea but i have ZERO trust in A/W, a site run by low lifes. Unlike some others on here i dont view them as a bonafide company, they have no real regulation and can do as they please.

However, whether A/W were involved in this matter is another thing entirely.

gestaltentity

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You'll need to search your memory.

Somewhere along the line you revealed your identity to a WG and now that woman has passed on your details to the mad woman.

It cannot be Aultwork.

Firstly, it's against the Data Protection Act, Adultwork could be prosecuted for this.

Secondly, if it became known that Adultwork were revealing the home details of punters to prossies then Adultwork's entire business would collapse overnight.

After all, which guy would ever trust them again?

used AW twice in the last year.  once was someone on tour, once was an incall (reviewed both) used my 'other mobile' for both.  no personal details exchanged.  only other times I've ever used AW has been the other end of the country

I would think the same.  AW don't give a fuck, so why would they even bother giving details out.  but I can find no other explanation.

after I messaged her I got the following:  I rang, but no answer.  don't think this was an auto reply as I didn't get an auto reply to my subsequent apologies.

ring me 0xxx xxxxxx ,,,,, no other emails accepted or texts thanx

so, you assume, she'd read my request and didn't have an issue

a few days later:

as escorts we still prefer the respect of everyone,,,,, we have too respect clients, but too receive a graphic email like that was offensive and and there was no need for you too go into filthy detail,,,, emails are to be sent too escorts too ask for an appointment or when we are free ,, im no prude ,,,, but you went too far with that , in the past I have actualy had too contact he police and adult work,,,,, because of emails I felt were demeaning and disrespectful,,,,, there is a time and a place for private chat between 2 adults but it certainly isn't the time too send your thoughts too me in an email I actualy give you my no ,,,, you did not ring ,,,, so why send such an email,,,,,, purely for your own gratification!!!!!!!!!!!

ten minutes after that:
further more your email was very dodgy,,,, what you meant it was sickening you have too be very careful what you say too people ,,,,,, even iff it was a fantasy ,,, you keep your disgusting thoughts too yourself ,,,,, im just wondering iff you send that too other woman,,,,, iff you do I suggest ,,, you need too be very careful


the next day
im not leaving this alone do you understand,,,,, im contacting the people at adult work ,,,, too see what they say about this subject ,,,,,, ur not getting away with this,,,,

and an hour later
that enquiry about your subject of rollplay is not acceptable ,,,,, I have since spoken too other escorts and we have a help site ,,,,, this situation ,,,,, which is clearly sick ,,,,,, is on that site


the next day

ur feelings have got nothing too do with me I suggest ,, if u have a problem get professional help and don't unload your personal problems of a very serious nature too a stranger,,,,,,, by the way ,,,,,, u thoroughly enjoyed writing that tripe in an email ,,,,, so don't cry over spilt milk ,,,,,,, your problem not mine ,,,,,, I nver accept apologys from anyone ,,,,,, guys like you should think before they send such an email ,,,,,,, I do not tolerate disrespect from anyone,,,, do not contact me again ,,,,,,, so read that bit again and please take note,,,,,, you thought you would get away with that email ,,,, all you caused was upset and trouble,,,,, plus I was almost sick when reading it,,,,, you mustn't think much of woman sending that,,,,,, im sure u have woman in your family ,,,,,,, you would not say that too them,,,,, so it should not have been said too m e
 


I didn't consider my request graphic.  I'm a pretty shy sorta guy.  made no reference in to her, just a role play and what perhaps I would like done to me.  no wierd stuff, no bondagey things, nothing toilet related.  probably all quite 'vanilla' in the fetish world

Offline CoolTiger

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ebgp,

why don't you also post part of your own email that you sent to her, for members on here to analyse this and determine how it was deemed to be offensive??

touch.and.go

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If its plain vanilla, tell us what you asked her to do

Andre 3000

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This all sounds very very odd.

Would love to know what the roleplay scenario was.

gestaltentity

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ebgp,

why don't you also post part of your own email that you sent to her, for members on here to analyse this and determine how it was deemed to be offensive??

OK..

put my brave trousers on and enter (very) embarassed mode.  copied and pasted from sent item

looking on Adultwork, your mention of role play, and I've plucked up the courage to possibly make a request…

sort of a fantasy, naughty little boy erotic humiliation I now realise, caught wanking - led to the bedroom, put over the knee and spanked, not in any hard way particularly, my erection clamped between thighs, periodically a hand sliding down between my bum cheeks to see if it was still hard! touching my bum and feeling my balls on the way, but talking about it all the time - perhaps making me making me stand in front with an erection afterwards.

then take things further, make me masturbate, tease me  then dominate and fuck me somehow, that sort of thing

so I guess its a sort of rude/strict nanny/teacher sort of fantasy, really, sensual more than anything, maybe a dominant naughty nurse that talks dirty to me, inspects me, perhaps a little verbal humiliation

kind of a mixture of all those kind of things if thats possible?




touch.and.go

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cant see anything wrong with that  :D

gestaltentity

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cant see anything wrong with that  :D

nope.  but fucking shitting myself sat here though

Online myothernameis

Jesus! If that's true it's way out of fucking order. Isn't it against the Data Protection Act to pass on info like that? Therefore, illegal? Don't know much about this so if someone knows please post.


But is it against the data protection act, if there not based in the uk, this could be a tricky one to deal with, if there in a country which dosnt have a data act, then your screwed

But who puts there real name in the personal information section

gestaltentity

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But is it against the data protection act, if there not based in the uk, this could be a tricky one to deal with, if there in a country which dosnt have a data act, then your screwed

But who puts there real name in the personal information section

as far as I can see, having crawled through everything in the my profile bit, all there is is an email address

If it is card details that have been given thats a motherfucker of a rule breaker on their part, that I do know.  The PCIDSS compliance shit for anyone that takes credit cards online is very tight

touch.and.go

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registered in malta - but the website says they are governed by UK law. But I still cant believe they are so stupid as to disclose private information to a WG - they would have just banned you surely?

Online myothernameis

I had a similar response from a escort a few years back

Sent her a message, that I wanted role play, ie school girl and teacher, I catch her cheating, on her exams, so she needs to be punished, so I placed her over my knee and spank her, this gives me an erection,

She slips her under underneath and unzips me

Now I received a reply telling me I was horrid, and perverted, and how dare I request this

Now one of the problem I see, is the escort has these things tick in here likes, and her profile, and this includes this escort, she specified she like role play, and said

Send me your role play fantasy, and we can act it out

Offline ForrestGump

Her (assuming it's the po$$ie who your communicating with) reaction seems totally ott under the circumstances. So why would she feel the need to do that? Is there, perhaps, going to be an attempt to extort money from you? That's quite possible, I'd say, given that she's in possession of some of your personal details. Were I in your shoes I'd be prepared for that extortion attempt, even if it never actually does turn into reality.

touch.and.go

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Offline akauya

ebgp, having just read what you emailed her, can't really see what it is that the prossie found "demeaning and disrespectful" to her. She shouldn't be whoring if she finds that kind of role play offensive. Having read what she emailed you she sounds like a right head case. You should name and shame or at the very least pass the details to Admin.


pierrot

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I struggle to believe adultwork has got involved, is your punting phone number on your profile or did you use your regular phone, do you use a yahoo or hotmail adrees or did you use your regular home email.
And you must name and shame whoever this is.

fredpunter

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Does "she" have any feedback from any other punters? Has she been active for long?

Andre 3000

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If that was all you posted to her then she's a loon.

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Offline ForrestGump

How would you prepare?

I'd start with the easiest option, Googling using a search string such as "someone is trying to blackmail me what should i do?" and see what that reveals.

fredpunter

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I struggle to believe adultwork has got involved, is your punting phone number on your profile or did you use your regular phone, do you use a yahoo or hotmail adrees or did you use your regular home email.
And you must name and shame whoever this is.

I'm inclined to agree with what's implied here, more likely she has traced you VIA your phone or email address, or someone road has given her your details.

leedsman

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I'm inclined to agree with what's implied here, more likely she has traced you VIA your phone or email address, or someone road has given her your details.

Yeah. I'm guessing the email address is his normal email address. I bet if you google it, his business address and phone number ping up.

As for the girl. I think she must have thought he was involving a 'little boy' rather than pretending to be a naughty boy.  Still, would be good to warn people who she is.

touch.and.go

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If that was all you posted to her then she's a loon.

I'm fucking glad she hasnt seen some of my texts to  NS Soph  :cool:

cockneybstrd

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I note that she makes reference to SAAFE maybe one of the posters who use both sites could comment if such a warning thread was posted about your request.

I still think there is more to this than your letting on.

So I will be curious too see how this one plays out

KayHerts

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She should be done for crimes against the English language for a start, but she strikes me as either a). unhinged, or b). is playing up the domme role to deliberately put you in your place or some other weird sort of psychological crap.

I agree, however, that it's more likely she's somehow tracked you down herself than AW would have given her your details. Do you have quite an unusual name, for a start? If you have her phone number, why not call her and try to see what's going on?

The happy one

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Agree entirely.
We know that the management of Adultwork are scumbag spivs but I see no reason why they would reveal your details to a prostitute, when you buy credits you only give your card number ----------- all sounds very strange to me.   :unknown:

Have not read all the posts so sorry if I am repeating

Adultwork would not have your home phone number

Her complaining that you was a nutter would mean nothing to them

If she screamed he robbed me or raped me they would close your profile and tell her to go to the police

I think she either knows you. Knows someone  Who knows you

Adultwork for all there faults would not do something that would then run the risk of them having plod all over them

And giving out someone's details would do that


Offline CatBBW

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It won't have been AW. My guess is that the prozzie has contacted the ladies in your feedback (assuming you have feedback) or - as you said - googled your details and found your phone number.

I don't think she's domming. She sounds like the typical hysterical woman who thinks age play between 2 consenting adults is sick. She's just having a wildly OTT reaction to it.

Offline Jimmyredcab



Adultwork for all there faults would not do something that would then run the risk of them having plod all over them


They run a highly profitable business, personally I see nothing wrong with that, they stand to gain nothing by giving out a punters personal details.     :hi:

Offline Sedlmayer

They run a highly profitable business, personally I see nothing wrong with that, they stand to gain nothing by giving out a punters personal details.     :hi:

Nothing to gain and a lot to lose, as I see it.
I find myself agreeing with Cockney - there's got to be something more to this.

The happy one

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They run a multi million pound business

Have you ever phoned an escort from your house phoe or given it why you have done an outcall booking to your home

Did you call her from it

She could have done 1471 and got your number that way


gestaltentity

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Yeah. I'm guessing the email address is his normal email address. I bet if you google it, his business address and phone number ping up.

As for the girl. I think she must have thought he was involving a 'little boy' rather than pretending to be a naughty boy.  Still, would be good to warn people who she is.

nope.  throwaway email address, and the one time I tried to call was with the throwaway sim card

Offline pianodave

You have given out some info which has enabled her to find your number, simple as that. Youd be surprised how one little bit of detail can lead to another, another, another and you can find otu a lot about someone.

Aw wont have given it out, not because of the law but because they dont give a toss - they take the credits money and thats all they are bothered with. Scumbags they might be, but their site is a licence to print money, they arent thick - outing punters would be a very dumb thing to start doing. cant see it myself.

gestaltentity

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I note that she makes reference to SAAFE maybe one of the posters who use both sites could comment if such a warning thread was posted about your request.

I still think there is more to this than your letting on.

So I will be curious too see how this one plays out

thats the whole facts as I have them.  contacting a previous punt from AW is a possibility, but I've changed phones (well sims) this year, as I do every year or so.  Never given my surname to any of them either.  I do also struggle to imagine AW would give a fuck sufficiently to give out my details.

And I was hoping there's be someone who can see the other side of the fence as it were to see what she has spouted/posted, and who might have responded. 

Still get my head around the implications.  convincing my other half maybe we should change phone numbers to get 'rid of sales' calls

been googling the email address I use to see if it pops up anywhere and racking my brains to think where else I have used it.  A lesson there to change throwaway email addresses regularly as well I guess

Ringing her crossed my mind, but is that likely to improve matters?

It would be good to find anyone that is one the other side that could have a looksie to see what she may have posted.  anyone  on good terms with any girls that might oblige?  or tried to register as a service provider to get access??

hardly fucking slept last night because of this