This is truly a terrible situation...what you need to do and do now is put her AW link on here, why you ask?
So other members of the forum don't fall into the same situation at the end of the day unless you tell us here who she is we can't put her into the 'Hall of Shame' and 'One to Avoid' - so go ahead tell us who she is, she's not going to know your AW and Forum name are linked anyway...so tell us who she is
1. How much feedback do you have on your AW account, she could have contacted one of the wgs you have seen by just looking at your profile, which would then mean a wg has given out your details.
2. When you have subscribed to private galleries on AW - did you use your real credit card to make the payment (thats HOW Aw link you, how they get your REAL name, address....etc) - what we all need to do is use a VCC if we want to subsribe to a wgs private gallery!!! By using a VCC (which you can have in any name, you remain anonymous, even when making payment on AW)
3. Make sure your email address is throw away
4. Make sure your mobile punting numb is throw away - go get a cheap paygo sim (not in your name), get a 077 number or have a look here http://voip.about.com/od/security/tp/AnonymousNumberServices.htm
5. Make sure you have 'user accounts' on your pc for each AW account you have (your linked by your IP and cookies) AW place cookies on your account, so if you login into 2 AW accounts on the same 'user account' on your pc with the same IP you are automatically linked - the wgs see your linked accounts
If you want to know more lmk