I've never requested a role-play scenario with a wg but the take-away from this situation is never to commit such a request to email or text.
What was wrong with it? He wasn't asking if her pet dog could get involved, nor was he asking to see pics of her grandchildren while getting spanked, nor was he asking anything else illegal. It was a perfectly normal request, it's a popular fantasy, and it was the best thing that he DID ask prior to requesting a booking as what "role play" some ladies do is completely different to the "role play" that other ladies do. I enjoy spanking grown men who want to pretend to be a schoolboy, I don't enjoy pretending to be a secretary who's boss needs to spank her. Guess which one I don't offer when asked?
His request wasn't illegal, and I trust the police - IF she's gone to them - should politely inform her of this. On the other hand, what SHE is doing IS illegal. Stalking, harrassment and blackmail are all against the law.
It's a shame she hasn't joined in on this thread, now that she's a member here - although I'm sure Admin is dealing with her behind the scenes.