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Author Topic: Major adultwork wakeup call  (Read 17669 times)

where to start..

might be better to work backwards.

got home yesterday.  hit play on the answering machine at home.  my home landline number.  An escort from Adultwork.  she knew my name, my address, and obviously my number.  I didn't hear the whole message I hit delete as my other half walked in the room.  She heard a bit of it, which has been bad enough

the background:
I'd messaged an escort on AW a week ago.  I'd fancied indulging my submissive side for once.  She had all the boxes ticked - fetish, role play, discipline etc etc.  I sent her a message, nothing wild or wierd, run of the mill, strict aunty/teacher/nanny/naughty boy type stuff

Had several messages back from her, very aggresive, how dare I ask for such a thing, what gives me the right to send a message outlining something I'd like for a meet, she has never been so offended etc etc.  After the first message, I apologised profusley and politely.  pointed out all the ticked boxes, apologised again, obviously I'd misinterpreted etc

obviously that wasn't good enough.  more irate messages, she'd reported me to AW, posted on the service providers forum on there etc, asked AW for my details etc etc.

so.  the bottom line...  AW must have given them out.  the only way they could get any of that is from Credit card history.  you sign up with an email address only.  I've never even spoke to her.  If I had she would at best have a mobile number

As you can imagine.  I didn't sleep much last night.  major paranoia now.  more phone calls?  she gonna turn up at the house??

WTF!! ADULTWORK GAVE OUT PERSONAL DETAILS!!!

The consequences of this for me, and for everyone else I guess are fucking catastrophic

terrified if I stick her profile address up, it's gonna make matters worse.  She's not some daft young kid either.  She's a mature woman

anyone got any advice, thoughts here?


This all sounds very odd.... Did you ask for some kind of odd shit like for her to out you or something in your role play and she is simply following your orders and this post is all part of your fetish....

Otherwise this is very odd..

nope.  all pretty run of the mill bedroom only stuff in the dom world.  2 others I asked the same request from loved the idea.  I'd made a booking with one of them.  now cancelled for obvious reasons

Offline akauya


WTF!! ADULTWORK GAVE OUT PERSONAL DETAILS!!!


Jesus! If that's true it's way out of fucking order. Isn't it against the Data Protection Act to pass on info like that? Therefore, illegal? Don't know much about this so if someone knows please post.

OP, are you 100% sure it could only be AW that passed on the info? Maybe you contacted/met/know another prossie who happens to be friends of the nutty one? I don't know but it just seems way out of order for and organisation, even as shit as AW is, to pass on private details like that. If we found out it's true I imagine no-one else is going to be using their credit card with AW - therefore major income loss.

Maybe we should invite someone from AW to comment on here.



Out of interest what is the service providers forum that you speak off OP

What did she say about you on there ??

This all sounds very odd indeed. But then again we are dealing with Pro$$ie's. Was it a message from the old sea hag that you had offended in the first place.

I would suggest that you ought to contact AW and ask them for some kind of explanation.

Offline Jimmyredcab

This all sounds very odd

Agree entirely.
We know that the management of Adultwork are scumbag spivs but I see no reason why they would reveal your details to a prostitute, when you buy credits you only give your card number ----------- all sounds very strange to me.   :unknown:

I cant imagine AW would give out that info (even if they had access to it)

Jesus! If that's true it's way out of fucking order. Isn't it against the Data Protection Act to pass on info like that? Therefore, illegal? Don't know much about this so if someone knows please post.

OP, are you 100% sure it could only be AW that passed on the info? Maybe you contacted/met/know another prossie who happens to be friends of the nutty one? I don't know but it just seems way out of order for and organisation, even as shit as AW is, to pass on private details like that. If we found out it's true I imagine no-one else is going to be using their credit card with AW - therefore major income loss.

Maybe we should invite someone from AW to comment on here.

absolutely positive.  I'm not a regular punter and tread carefully.  If they don't have a phone number on their profile I walk on by usually, so don't often message them.  Credit cards - probabaly added a fiver half a dozen times purely to check out a private gallery for a potential punt.  Only met one other that is remotely in that area as well - 40 miles away

Is there anyone from AW in here? 


How can AW get your home number from your credit card details? I've never used my card on AW coz i don't trust it and now after reading this i don't think i ever will. You should post the girls' link to warn other punters. At first it sounded like she was being dominant etc but if she's trying to out you then fuck her.

I've no idea.  my name and address fair enough.  googling those though, and you get companies house shit, business registration stuff...  so phone number is findable



Seriously thats bang out order mate! What a bitch!

How would of as obtained your telephone number though? If they have given your number out it is indeed in some kind of breach of data protection.

Offline Matium

You'll need to search your memory.

Somewhere along the line you revealed your identity to a WG and now that woman has passed on your details to the mad woman.

It cannot be Aultwork.

Firstly, it's against the Data Protection Act, Adultwork could be prosecuted for this.

Secondly, if it became known that Adultwork were revealing the home details of punters to prossies then Adultwork's entire business would collapse overnight.

After all, which guy would ever trust them again?

Offline Jimmyredcab

I've never used my card on AW coz i don't trust it

Used my credit card on there over 20 times, never had a problem.     :unknown: :unknown:

Adultwork earn a small fortune already, no need for them to resort to credit card fraud.    :hi:

Thank god this psycho bitch is "up north"  :scare:

I've no idea.  my name and address fair enough.  googling those though, and you get companies house shit, business registration stuff...  so phone number is findable

There you go there is your answer.

I am still curious to know what this service provider forum is that she slagged you off on is....

And also if it was her that left the message on your house phone

I am not saying your a billy bullshit. But I think you may have left some of the facts out. As I am not a big fan of AW but I dont think they would give out your bank details to some old sea hag just because you had offended her.

I think the answer is a bit more interesting than AW

Offline Sedlmayer

Name and shame the prostitute straight away please, with AW link.
Whether she got your details from Aw or from somewhere else, she deserves to go onto everyone's list to avoid.

Offline akauya

OP, If you are concerned about posting her link, at least you should pass the details to Admin. Looks like another good candidate for the Hall of Shame .


Offline smiths

where to start..

might be better to work backwards.

got home yesterday.  hit play on the answering machine at home.  my home landline number.  An escort from Adultwork.  she knew my name, my address, and obviously my number.  I didn't hear the whole message I hit delete as my other half walked in the room.  She heard a bit of it, which has been bad enough

the background:
I'd messaged an escort on AW a week ago.  I'd fancied indulging my submissive side for once.  She had all the boxes ticked - fetish, role play, discipline etc etc.  I sent her a message, nothing wild or wierd, run of the mill, strict aunty/teacher/nanny/naughty boy type stuff

Had several messages back from her, very aggresive, how dare I ask for such a thing, what gives me the right to send a message outlining something I'd like for a meet, she has never been so offended etc etc.  After the first message, I apologised profusley and politely.  pointed out all the ticked boxes, apologised again, obviously I'd misinterpreted etc

obviously that wasn't good enough.  more irate messages, she'd reported me to AW, posted on the service providers forum on there etc, asked AW for my details etc etc.

so.  the bottom line...  AW must have given them out.  the only way they could get any of that is from Credit card history.  you sign up with an email address only.  I've never even spoke to her.  If I had she would at best have a mobile number

As you can imagine.  I didn't sleep much last night.  major paranoia now.  more phone calls?  she gonna turn up at the house??

WTF!! ADULTWORK GAVE OUT PERSONAL DETAILS!!!

The consequences of this for me, and for everyone else I guess are fucking catastrophic

terrified if I stick her profile address up, it's gonna make matters worse.  She's not some daft young kid either.  She's a mature woman

anyone got any advice, thoughts here?

No idea but i have ZERO trust in A/W, a site run by low lifes. Unlike some others on here i dont view them as a bonafide company, they have no real regulation and can do as they please.

However, whether A/W were involved in this matter is another thing entirely.

You'll need to search your memory.

Somewhere along the line you revealed your identity to a WG and now that woman has passed on your details to the mad woman.

It cannot be Aultwork.

Firstly, it's against the Data Protection Act, Adultwork could be prosecuted for this.

Secondly, if it became known that Adultwork were revealing the home details of punters to prossies then Adultwork's entire business would collapse overnight.

After all, which guy would ever trust them again?

used AW twice in the last year.  once was someone on tour, once was an incall (reviewed both) used my 'other mobile' for both.  no personal details exchanged.  only other times I've ever used AW has been the other end of the country

I would think the same.  AW don't give a fuck, so why would they even bother giving details out.  but I can find no other explanation.

after I messaged her I got the following:  I rang, but no answer.  don't think this was an auto reply as I didn't get an auto reply to my subsequent apologies.

ring me 0xxx xxxxxx ,,,,, no other emails accepted or texts thanx

so, you assume, she'd read my request and didn't have an issue

a few days later:

as escorts we still prefer the respect of everyone,,,,, we have too respect clients, but too receive a graphic email like that was offensive and and there was no need for you too go into filthy detail,,,, emails are to be sent too escorts too ask for an appointment or when we are free ,, im no prude ,,,, but you went too far with that , in the past I have actualy had too contact he police and adult work,,,,, because of emails I felt were demeaning and disrespectful,,,,, there is a time and a place for private chat between 2 adults but it certainly isn't the time too send your thoughts too me in an email I actualy give you my no ,,,, you did not ring ,,,, so why send such an email,,,,,, purely for your own gratification!!!!!!!!!!!

ten minutes after that:
further more your email was very dodgy,,,, what you meant it was sickening you have too be very careful what you say too people ,,,,,, even iff it was a fantasy ,,, you keep your disgusting thoughts too yourself ,,,,, im just wondering iff you send that too other woman,,,,, iff you do I suggest ,,, you need too be very careful


the next day
im not leaving this alone do you understand,,,,, im contacting the people at adult work ,,,, too see what they say about this subject ,,,,,, ur not getting away with this,,,,

and an hour later
that enquiry about your subject of rollplay is not acceptable ,,,,, I have since spoken too other escorts and we have a help site ,,,,, this situation ,,,,, which is clearly sick ,,,,,, is on that site


the next day

ur feelings have got nothing too do with me I suggest ,, if u have a problem get professional help and don't unload your personal problems of a very serious nature too a stranger,,,,,,, by the way ,,,,,, u thoroughly enjoyed writing that tripe in an email ,,,,, so don't cry over spilt milk ,,,,,,, your problem not mine ,,,,,, I nver accept apologys from anyone ,,,,,, guys like you should think before they send such an email ,,,,,,, I do not tolerate disrespect from anyone,,,, do not contact me again ,,,,,,, so read that bit again and please take note,,,,,, you thought you would get away with that email ,,,, all you caused was upset and trouble,,,,, plus I was almost sick when reading it,,,,, you mustn't think much of woman sending that,,,,,, im sure u have woman in your family ,,,,,,, you would not say that too them,,,,, so it should not have been said too m e
 


I didn't consider my request graphic.  I'm a pretty shy sorta guy.  made no reference in to her, just a role play and what perhaps I would like done to me.  no wierd stuff, no bondagey things, nothing toilet related.  probably all quite 'vanilla' in the fetish world

Offline CoolTiger

ebgp,

why don't you also post part of your own email that you sent to her, for members on here to analyse this and determine how it was deemed to be offensive??

If its plain vanilla, tell us what you asked her to do

Offline Andre 3000

This all sounds very very odd.

Would love to know what the roleplay scenario was.

ebgp,

why don't you also post part of your own email that you sent to her, for members on here to analyse this and determine how it was deemed to be offensive??

OK..

put my brave trousers on and enter (very) embarassed mode.  copied and pasted from sent item

looking on Adultwork, your mention of role play, and I've plucked up the courage to possibly make a request…

sort of a fantasy, naughty little boy erotic humiliation I now realise, caught wanking - led to the bedroom, put over the knee and spanked, not in any hard way particularly, my erection clamped between thighs, periodically a hand sliding down between my bum cheeks to see if it was still hard! touching my bum and feeling my balls on the way, but talking about it all the time - perhaps making me making me stand in front with an erection afterwards.

then take things further, make me masturbate, tease me  then dominate and fuck me somehow, that sort of thing

so I guess its a sort of rude/strict nanny/teacher sort of fantasy, really, sensual more than anything, maybe a dominant naughty nurse that talks dirty to me, inspects me, perhaps a little verbal humiliation

kind of a mixture of all those kind of things if thats possible?




cant see anything wrong with that  :D

cant see anything wrong with that  :D

nope.  but fucking shitting myself sat here though


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