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External Link/Members OnlyIt seems all of the reviews so far for Neive have been for her sensual massage but I saw her for domination. I know that doesn't apply to all of you but for those who enjoy this type of session I hope my experience is useful for you!
Details:2 hour incall with extras £350
Comms:Great. Communicated through AW email. I initially laid out a rough idea of my likes dislikes and limits. She was quick to respond and totted up the cost - £100 ph base rate, £30 ph for domination, £30 flat for watersports, £30 flat for body worship (on her), £30 flat for tie n tease. Very expensive but I'm not cost adverse if it leads to a great session. She even said that she'd waive the addition extra of £30 for pussy worship (separate charge to body worship) as it was clearly a big session already. 20% deposit was required but due to reviews here didn't think I'd be scammed. She continued communicating with questions about how I like sessions, more details on limits, and general things which indicated to me that she was clearly putting in a lot of thought and effort into designing a tailor made session. I was very optimistic following this - hopes were very high for a top tier mistress session! She gave her phone number too, for communication for the day of the punt.
Location:Nice big flat in St Pauls that is shared with bunch of other AW providers. The area was dingy, some dodgy characters hanging about and I personally wouldn't feel safe there at night. I struggled to get into her building as well, her instructions for that weren't very clear and so ended up faffing about at her door for 5 or so mins which I really didn't want to be doing!
Services granted:Requested services granted - domination, spanking, ballbusting, bondage, watersports, humiliation, body worship (although extremely limited)
Additional services given - wax play, servitude
Services refused:Tie and tease, edging, orgasm control, the vast majority of the body worship that had been discussed
Punt itself:I think the best way to talk about this session is to break it down into the the good and the bad. I could do a blow by blow account but I'm not sure if that's going to be especially helpful especially to those familiar with how domme sessions play out.
The Good:- Neive is a pretty young girl, late 20s with a fairly slim figure. Piercings and some tats. I personally cannot submit to anyone who's ugly or fat but there were no problems with that here at all. She is also very au natural with hairy pussy, armpits and limbs. I love that but you might not.
- She is also a kind girl, I had specified that I'd like a few minutes to arrive and get settled before the session begins. She was friendly and talkative in that time and I got good vibes from her. Despite what I'm going to say later in the review, I never got the feeling that she was intentionally misleading or looking to rip me off.
- She had clearly put thought into planning the session, equipment was pre laid out and it did flow from one thing to the next very smoothly with no jarring transitions that made it feel like working through a list.
- The piss aspect of the watersports was great, she had absolutely filled up the tank so there was a veritable torrent that didn't taste too pungent.
The BadUnfortunately that is where the good ends and the bad begins. My overwhelming issue with Neive is despite obviously putting effort into planning the session, her time management is dreadful. She also didn't listen to alot of what I had said in terms of wants and preferences. I never want to be someone who dictates sessions to the minute as that stifles all creativity but to have some things left out which I had paid extra for, and to straight up ignore some things I specifically said is very bad form
- Her infliction of pain is not measured. I had said that my tolerance is moderate but I like it being pushed. The vast majority of the time, her spanks and hits were very very mild. Except one single ball punch that was a held in place full force brutal slam which floored me. I can understand being light initially with someone you haven't played with before but she never increased force like you would expect. And that one testicle destroying thack caught me entirely off guard. I don't mind pain of that level either, but its normally built up to. After the session she commented that she thought my pain tolerance was low. Not sure what gave her that impression as she never tested with more than little swats and love taps
- Things that we did took FOREVER. Watersports for example took easily 45 mins. Between her explaining how it would work, getting me to fetch her glasses of water, going to the bathroom, sitting in the tub waiting for her return, the watersports itself, the shower after, then tidying and cleaning the entire shower and bath area meant that what should have been a 10 minute activity took far far longer than desired and included things I have no interest in. I don't find it fun or sexy to be scrubbing your entire place. Felt like an absolute mug honestly. Also, as an example of her ignoring me, I had requested that water sports only be in my mouth and not over my body. Whilst she started doing that, towards the end she decided to give all of me a last hose down. Whilst that wasn't a hard limit, it was something I had been very clear about (as I have medical reason for it) but it was blatantly ignored. Plenty of other examples of this throughout but that was the most egregious.
- And as a follow on from activities taking forever, it meant that we didn't get round to doing all the services and extras requested/paid for. There was some tie but absolutely no tease. My cock wasn't touched once, nor was there any tease in the form of "look but no touch" style tease. And then body worship, which she had left to the end - I had requested ass, pussy, breasts and armpits. I had also mentioned feet do nothing for me. What did we end up doing? 10 minutes of a foot massage before she checked time and brought an end to the session. How disappointing when in pre comms she had so teasingly said that she'd let me lick her hairy pussy without any extra, but instead didn't get anything at all of what I'd requested/paid extra for
- Thought also worth mentioning the super weird domme style that Neive has. Before we do any activity, she says what she intends to happen but "only if you beg for it". And her idea of begging involves a good 2 or 3 minutes of saying in as many varied ways as I can think why I want her to do xyz. It didn't feel like a time wasting tactic, but that ended up being the effect of it. Also happened like 8-10 times over the course of the session - there's only so many unique ways to say you want something. Felt like I needed a fucking thesaurus honestly. It was especially annoying as part of the requests I had was for humiliation, and she said the same 3 insults every single time.
- Oh and I can't leave a review without saying her weird ass style of counting strokes. She doesn't say 'count the strokes', she asks you to count to 10 or whatever, and then hits you after you say the number? And you must mindread the pace she wants to do the strokes at. I have had countless domme sessions and I've never had this strange ass way of doing strokes.
The Ugly:As the final part of the session, she made me get on my knees and say "all the things I loved about the session, why she is the best mistress ever, and why she should let me see her again". She was too crap a domme for me to be close to being in sub space but doing this when you're in character is really bad form and imo is borderline abusive? Feedback should be very much after the session has clearly ended and as part of the after care process. Being forced to say a session was good instead of asking whether it was or not could mess with somebodies head. I'm trying not to sound like a wuss but that's just the good practice I've been taught and seen with others.
Walked out the door despondent and deflated, and checked my watch. 5 minutes before the session time was up, despite starting nearly 15 minutes after scheduled start due to her being late and the faff at her building's door. That was the final straw - went from feeling bad VFM and instead absolutely ripped off.
Would I return? Would I fuck
