I think this topic has been done already maybe? and actually probably should be moved to punting section, sorry NIK
Do any of you punt out of spite? I know we punt for variety, convenience, sexless marriages, but what about spite? and does it solve the problems? (I am pessimistic)
For example, do any of you punt a WG because things are not working out with your relationship with a civie (and if so, it can't be healthy right? I mean if i were to punt a WG because of relationship problems, I would be thinking about the civie, and probably wouldn't be happy even if the punt with the WG was physically amazing, because at the end of the day, i wish it was the civie (but its not the civie because of the dating bullshit , and the making you wait, and the fucking games).........(you can probably suss out im not getting pussy with this civie, and my underlying intention of this thread is wondering will punting a WG help) ....well done sherlock...
same with a married couple, if the husband punts out of spite, wouldn't he, in the back of his mind, still be wishing it was his wife (who no longer wants sex), where is the happiness in that? (I assume its not always a happy ending due to many existing threads about 'guilt'.)
Not all of us are cold hearted guys, but I am thinking I want to be one. is falling in love worth the pain? and any tips on being a cold hearted person or losing attachments?