Pulling a Pro$$ie... How? Why? Don't!?

[xer0]

So you think you can pull a pro$$ie!?

First of all, you have to ask yourself why the fuck would you!
I mean, they suck so many punter cocks and take it up, virtually every whole from every Tom, Dick and Mohammed.
Why the fuck would you even consider it?

Maybe it's because:

1. The are super attractive or cute
2. A good shag
3. You see them as a trophy (because you buy sex but can't buy love)

If you're still reading this, then I presume you already have pulled a pro$$ie or you are considering it!? 
If you are considering it, you should know that they are good fucking liars and would definitely be up for an oscar if there was even a category for pro$$ies.

With this out of the way, it's not impossible.
The question is, can you live with yourself? Do you have the strength of courage to drag them out of a sleazy and money driven environment, back to a world of norm?

If you think you do, here's what you'll need plenty of:

1. Money
2. Time
3. Money and a good shrink*

*Once a pro$$ie tastes money, it's like a drug. Every time they get paid to shag, it is an instant hit.

I wonder, how many of you have pulled, married a pro$$ie?
Are you considering this?

Those, for and against... I'd like to hear your opinions.

Maybe glamour models are easier, and more your bag?

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[hendrix]

Which prossie did you try to pull?

[willbred]

I wonder, how many of you have pulled, married a pro$$ie?  Not me
Are you considering this? Not me

[threechilliman]

I'm married and the wife does all the relationship stuff I need. Pro$$ies are for my entertainment only.

tcm

[Sedlmayer]

Fee Fye Fo Fum.........

[eastlondon]

Many WG's are married especially Eastern European girls. And i"m not talking about the trafficked ones as well.

i have met many a WG , who were working whilst married.

But would i marry one??

[punk]

Many WG's are married especially Eastern European girls. And i"m not talking about the trafficked ones as well.

i have met many a WG , who were working whilst married.

But would i marry one??

And the husbands the pimp.

[Jackjones]

No idea what the point of this is but there are members who have.

Also, what about pulling a civi who's a whore? Not like these girls spend their time hidden away like, hell i'm sure if you troll around the net you can find guys asking for advise after finding out that thier other half is a working girl.

[yorkshire123]

Strange concept there OP.
Answer a question before anybody asks it 

[f_angel]

I have in the past, and maybe will again in the future. It can be quite a minefield though with all sorts of complications though. It's fun while it lasts though, and it's a pretty awesome feeling for a while.

[house music dave]

It's like the OP has tried to do a poor buzzfeed/lad bible article on why not to pull a prostitute. Keep writing the blog xer0

[RandyF]

What a load of unadulterated shite Xer0.

Get a grip man.

[Goofy85]

I have in the past, and maybe will again in the future. It can be quite a minefield though with all sorts of complications though. It's fun while it lasts though, and it's a pretty awesome feeling for a while.

Out of curiosity how did it come about.

[LL]

At the end of the day they're just people.
If you want to pull one then I'm sure you'll piss lots of them off in your quest but you might succeed so go for it.
I don't see anything wrong with it.  This topic's been done before.  I have taken a whore out a couple of times in the past (for free before you ask).  It was fun but I've not been desperate to repeat it.

[Daffodil]

The reason why pulling a prossie isn't particularly difficult is the same reason why you wouldn't...they're damaged goods 

[AnthG]

People that criticize these topics I personally think it means they have never met one they fancied big style before.

The advice people give is if you meet one you fancy big style, then it is to is to never go back and see her again.

I know why they say it, and it is good advice, but then on the flip side it seems overkilled advice too.

If for example you went into McDonalds and fancied big style the waitress there, would you never go back to that restaurant again?

Or if you took on a college course and a girl in your class you fancied, would you drop out and never go back?

[touch.and.go]

The reason why pulling a prossie isn't particularly difficult is the same reason why you wouldn't...they're damaged goods 

I disagree - sure, some are  - but not all. Some girls do it to make some money while they sort their life out and if they handle it right, the escorting phase of their life wont damage them IMO.

[dandaley]

The reason why pulling a prossie isn't particularly difficult is the same reason why you wouldn't...they're damaged goods 

totally disagree, some people get damaged through all sorts of things in their life that happen to them out of their control wgs are in control so it won't damage most of them imo.

[Daffodil]

They start it because they're damaged, prostitution also damages. Hence they're damaged goods.

[touch.and.go]

They start it because they're damaged, prostitution also damages. Hence they're damaged goods.

We have a difference of opinion

[Barry Shipton]

They start it because they're damaged, prostitution also damages. Hence they're damaged goods.

Another myth I think - like all porn stars must have been abused etc. No doubt that it has more than it's fair share of girls with problems than other jobs - but that's far from all of them.

And if I honestly believed that what I was doing caused more damage then I would stop straight away.

[dandaley]

They start it because they're damaged, prostitution also damages. Hence they're damaged goods.

what a load of tosh you surely cannot believe that for one second.

[Daffodil]

what a load of tosh you surely cannot believe that for one second.

And I consider your opinion to be tosh  We'll just have to live with it.

High flying smart girls don't tend to become prossies, those from broken families, poor educations and what not, do.

Once a prossie do you not think seeing man after man, many cheating on their partners and wives, getting critiqued like objects on here and other sites, has no effect? Do you think their trust in relationships are ever the same?

Bury your naive head in the sand all you like 

[Daffodil]

Another myth I think - like all porn stars must have been abused etc. No doubt that it has more than it's fair share of girls with problems than other jobs - but that's far from all of them.

And if I honestly believed that what I was doing caused more damage then I would stop straight away.

It's their choice at the end of the day. If you ran a corner shop would you also not sell people cigarettes because it's damaging them? If you worked in McD's would you refuse to serve fatties their meals?

[Johnnybravo1975]

I guess it depends why you would want to do it in the first place.

If you do it because you want free sex with someone you enjoy having sex with, then why not.

Is that not the ultimate to a punter, you sleep with someone who everyone else pays for for free?

[yorkshire123]

I guess it depends why you would want to do it in the first place.

If you do it because you want free sex with someone you enjoy having sex with, then why not.

Is that not the ultimate to a punter, you sleep with someone who everyone else pays for for free?

Not me, if i stopped paying that would turn it into an affair & believe it or not I'm not willing to do that. Twisted logic for a married man but thats my opinion.

[fuddle]

Not me, if i stopped paying that would turn it into an affair & believe it or not I'm not willing to do that. Twisted logic for a married man but thats my opinion.

Freud would have a field day with that one.

I've had one girl (I prefer the massage + HE scene to full punting) ask me out.

[Happyjose]

Not me, if i stopped paying that would turn it into an affair & believe it or not I'm not willing to do that. Twisted logic for a married man but thats my opinion.

Nor me. An arms length transaction where I walk away afterwards every time.

[fuddle]

Nor me. An arms length transaction where I walk away afterwards every time.

I work in a corporate environment and, in my experience, you don't stick your cock in the other person in an 'arm's length transaction'. 

[jcdmj12]

I guess it depends why you would want to do it in the first place.

If you do it because you want free sex with someone you enjoy having sex with, then why not.

Is that not the ultimate to a punter, you sleep with someone who everyone else pays for for free?

Not at all, paying for it is the entire point. It makes it a business transaction, rather than having the mess of a relationship, however casual.

[Sienna_Bronze]

They start it because they're damaged, prostitution also damages. Hence they're damaged goods.

Haha, i thought it was just the feminazis who thought this way!

[Daffodil]

Haha, i thought it was just the feminazis who thought this way!

Nope 

[James999]

Haha, i thought it was just the feminazis who thought this way!

That may be a comforting thought, but the reality is it's a wider group that realise it's true, look into most pro$$ies background and the picture is not pretty, as such Damaged goods is a fair summary, this is confirmed by them being hammered senseless over years by every tom dick and abdul with cash on hip 

[Daffodil]

Prossies are also damaged goods, in my opinion, because they've been fucked by half the town. Wouldn't it be great, walking hand in hand with her down the street, spotting every other guy give her a second look and know she's probably sucked him dry at some point 

[Barry Shipton]

Prossies are also damaged goods, in my opinion, because they've been fucked by half the town. Wouldn't it be great, walking hand in hand with her down the street, spotting every other guy give her a second look and know she's probably sucked him dry at some point 

That may be a comforting thought, but the reality is it's a wider group that realise it's true, look into most pro$$ies background and the picture is not pretty, as such Damaged goods is a fair summary, this is confirmed by them being hammered senseless over years by every tom dick and abdul with cash on hip 

By this logic then us Punters are also damaged goods because we have hammered senseless every Sharon, Tracy and Raani just because we could afford it while feeling guilty about the Mrs back home.

I don't believe either is true. Sex is gonna happen anyway because of human nature - paying or being paid for it just speeds up the process and makes it a bit more honest.

[Daffodil]

By this logic then us Punters also damaged goods because we have hammered senseless every Sharon, Tracy and Raani just because we could afford it while feeling guilty about the Mrs back home.

I don't believe either is true. Sex is gonna happen anyway because of human nature - paying or being paid for it just speeds up the process and makes it a bit more honest.

I do believe that's true, and is part of the reason punters like to keep the fact that they're punters to themselves.

If I was a girl I would not want to date a guy I know fucks prostitutes 

[Barry Shipton]

Interesting idea if you think you and every other punter on here is damaged.

I don't and I don't feel it myself - how others view us is different, quite right others might see us and escorts as 'damaged' or 'soiled' in some way. But that's their views and their morality - and the reason us and most WGs have to keep it private.

But I don't feel damaged - punting (or a good punt) makes me feel great - otherwise I wouldn't do it!

[dandaley]

Interesting idea if you think you and every other punter on here is damaged.

I don't and I don't feel it myself - how others view us is different, quite right others might see us and escorts as 'damaged' or 'soiled' in some way. But that's their views and their morality - and the reason us and most WGs have to keep it private.

But I don't feel damaged - punting (or a good punt) makes me feel great - otherwise I wouldn't do it!

+1

The small mindedness of some is fucking unbelievable 

[Sienna_Bronze]

If you believe prostitution is damaging (which I don't) then I find it quite fucked up how you think punting is ok? Unless you are ok with 'damaging' women?

[Steptoe]

So you think you can pull a pro$$ie!?


I wonder, how many of you have pulled, married a pro$$ie?
Are you considering this?

Those, for and against... I'd like to hear your opinions.

I put my hand up - guilty

Yes, I married one 25 years ago
We are still married and together
She stopped work once we met

Yes, I see others these days because her age/ the change means she no longer has any interest in sex

So, it can work
It did work very well for many years
Her past before we married was never, ever, mentioned in all 25 years. Indeed I never think about it.

Steptoe

[Curious6705]

I guess it depends why you would want to do it in the first place.

If you do it because you want free sex with someone you enjoy having sex with, then why not.

Is that not the ultimate to a punter, you sleep with someone who everyone else pays for for free?

Not for me - I don't expect or want it for free any more than I would expect to walk out of a restaurant without paying for my meal. I pay to leave with no strings attached as much as anything else.

[fredpunter]

Is that not the ultimate to a punter, you sleep with someone who everyone else pays for for free?

Absolutely not. I'm quoting someone but I don't know who .... you don't just pay them for sex, you pay so they will leave afterwards.

[Curious6705]

The reason why pulling a prossie isn't particularly difficult is the same reason why you wouldn't...they're damaged goods 

I don't personally believe they're automatically damaged goods. And tbh it doesn't bother me if they've shagged half the town. 

[Dani]

To say prossies are damaged is like saying we are all thieves or all scammers.  Some are and some are not.  Are men damaged if they shag loads of different women?  No!  Its only women that get called damaged if they do.  Its back to the old stereotypes.  Not all of us were abused or had bad childhoods or are victims of any sort.  Some chose this job for its ease to earn money working the hours they want.  some women can compartmentalise sex just like men do.  We don't see it as something special that will damage us mentally if we do it with lots of different people just like men are not damaged by having sex with as many women as they can whenever they want.  Yes I think the majority of women do see sex as something special but that ideal is slowly dying out and women are becoming as sexually liberated as men and are having sex as and when they fancy.  Some use sex as a weapon to get what they want, are they damaged?  No they have just learned that they can use sex as a weapon to get what they want from men. 

I am sure a lot of victims of abuse do end up doing this work as I am sure those with drug or drink habits do as well.  However I am also sure some women do it as they see it as a good financial choice. 

I am pretty sure if most men believed that having sex with a prossie was helping damage them they would not do it.  It would go against their own morals as most men don't want to physically or mentally hurt a woman. 
By saying that doing this job damages us you are saying that you pay for sex knowing it will help to damage the woman you are doing it with.  That says more about the person that posted that than everyone else as the majority of men would not want to help damage a woman and would feel very uncomfortable if they thought they were. 

Thankfully consensual sex does not cause damage to anyone who has their head screwed on correctly.  It may cause problems for those who already have issues but for those without then it wont cause any problems.  Yes this job has social pressures and stigma but again someone who is level headed wont be affected by what others think of them.  There is no need for this job to cause any more damage that any other job if it is viewed for what it is.

From my point of view this job causes me less stress, less anguish and less emotional damage than my last job and my last job was a very socially acceptable job yet was high in stress, anguish and emotional trauma

[KayHerts]

On the one hand, we're damaged goods who'll shag anything with a pulse, and yet if we set any sort of limits on who we'll see based on age etc., we're fussy bitches up our own arses!

There is a happy medium to be had, in which you don't work full-time as an escort, don't use drink or drugs, do other things with your time, and are discerning about who'll you see so the experience remains enjoyable for both...

[kingkong]

I would not even try to date a pro$$ie as I can get just as hot or hotter civvy women on a night out. The only reason I use escorts, is because I don't want the emotional attachment of a girlfriend. Even if civvy girls say they just wanna shag, they inevitably always want more, then before you know you are taking her out for a meal and meeting her parents! fuck that shit...I am too young for that at the moment, jusy give me a whore with an open mouth.

I would agree with an earlier comment saying that most pro$$ies are damaged.

[James999]

On the one hand, we're damaged goods who'll shag anything with a pulse, and yet if we set any sort of limits on who we'll see based on age etc., we're fussy bitches up our own arses!

Stop whinging, every job has it's downsides, seriously who else would employ you, and pay you £60 per hour tax free 

[house music dave]

Stop whinging, every job has it's downsides, seriously who else would employ you, and pay you £60 per hour tax free 

Please never leave James. Politically and socially we may have different viewpoints, but your handling of WG's on this forum deserves recognition imo.

KayHerts it's my opinion that you don't really add much to the debate. You've said that you prefer younger guys, is that because you are able to be less active?   

     

[Sienna_Bronze]

I really find the idea that prossie's are damaged goods very bizarre, especially on a punting forum. So would you agree that prostitution ought to be banned then, to prevent any more damage to us women?

[punk]

I really find the idea that prossie's are damaged goods very bizarre, especially on a punting forum. So would you agree that prostitution ought to be banned then, to prevent any more damage to us women?

nope.