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Offline KiloRomeo

I realise this topic has come up a few times but I haven't seen any new threads or comments that wasn't dated more than 3 years ago. Apologies for the oversight if this is not the case.

I'm very much balls deep in a relationship with a WG who continues to be a WG. I'm writing about it here because previously with ex's I would have been the most jealous man in the world, but with her, it doesn't cross my mind twice that she's fucking a new guy every 60 minutes. It's completely changed my perspective on how I view relationships and I figured this is probably the only place on the internet where I might be able to talk about it with others who have been in the same position as me.

My ego was so fragile that the thought of my girl just talking to a guy who I know wanted to fuck her would sit in my mind for nights on end. Now, my girl's fucking other dudes all day but is absolutely all over me come the night. I'm left thinking she must be crazy about me if she's still telling me to come over all the time, you know?

Even as I re-read what I'm typing I realise how ridiculous it sounds but it's what I'm feeling. I'd really love to hear from some other people who might be/have been in the same situation as me just to reaffirm that I'm not going completely insane.

Offline Punting2022

Are you still paying her. If so its not a relationship. She is using you cause she knows it 100 garauntee of funds.
Also she could be fucking a uncle of yours any family member. How do you feel about that. A randy family member may book her and fuck her. Friends may be fucking her. Her bodycount is high.

Someone here may have shagged her

One thing to consider is if a accident happens with a punter, ie small condom tear, can you be sure any future kid is yours.
Its risky, not recomended really,

If she not charging then good luck. Ideally she gives up, be better for your mental health
« Last Edit: June 24, 2023, 04:04:57 am by Punting2022 »

Offline nightbot

I was in a 3 year long relationship with a girl I first met as a client. She only did this part time (like 2 days a week and 2-3 bookings a day). We even lived together for a while and I probably would've married her one day if we hadn't broken up because I loved her deeply.

When we started dating she was still doing it, and it didn't bother me because I was the one she would go home with, and I was the one who didn't have to pay to be with her. In some ways I found it kinda ego boosting that others would shell out hundred+ to just spend an hour with her while I could spend as much time with her as I wanted. I just tried to be supportive of whatever she wanted to do.

She eventually stopped but for different reasons, not because we got into a relationship. But even if she hadn't, it wouldn't have affected me...as long as she had some plan. What I mean by that is as long as she had a goal in her mind i.e. "I'll earn X amount of money so that I have enough to do Y, and that would allow me to pursue Z" that kind of stuff shows some sort of ambition, focus, and long term thinking beyond just here and now. Along with giving you an idea that the person can commit to something and I think that's an important factor in any relationship. And it's not even about the job tbh, I'd get similar sort of positive feeling if she was still working and was one of those escorts who go full businesswoman in how they run things (not businesslike in meets mind you, but in how they organise and approach this job), because again it shows an organised and focused attitude towards life.

I guess the point I'm trying to make, is that the job can take a toll on the mind and not everyone is suitable for it. Let alone be suitable to do the job and have a functioning long term relationship, you require an incredible amount of emotional maturity and strength of character from both sides to have that, and as such those that do will probably have a very deep and successful relationship regardless of whether she is still working or not. But if there are any insecurities etc, or lack of communication etc then over time it's bound to fail as what will start off as minor annoyance will blow up to something big later.

Mine failed but not for the above reason, it was to do with her own personal issues and she had to leave the country to resolve that, which led to the breakup. But I had some of the loveliest time with her and some amazing memories that I will always keep with me.
« Last Edit: June 24, 2023, 07:22:23 am by nightbot »

Offline Coriniumstud

So which one of your two reviews is it  :D

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I realise this topic has come up a few times but I haven't seen any new threads or comments that wasn't dated more than 3 years ago. Apologies for the oversight if this is not the case.


https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=358475.0

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=339277.0

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=327711.msg3412276#msg3412276


Then there is the 'daddy of them all' a 32 pager

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=279769.0




Online Doc Holliday

So which one of your two reviews is it  :D

Given that one is around 2 months ago one wonders how long this relationship has been in place?

So are you still punting?

If you are normally the extremely jealous type then in time that jealousy will almost certainly prevail. It isn't there at present because her having sex with other men is already known when you start the relationship. It's just a job etc. In other relationships it is something that you fear may happen. Different though process.

Offline Colston36

I realise this topic has come up a few times but I haven't seen any new threads or comments that wasn't dated more than 3 years ago. Apologies for the oversight if this is not the case.

I'm very much balls deep in a relationship with a WG who continues to be a WG. I'm writing about it here because previously with ex's I would have been the most jealous man in the world, but with her, it doesn't cross my mind twice that she's fucking a new guy every 60 minutes. It's completely changed my perspective on how I view relationships and I figured this is probably the only place on the internet where I might be able to talk about it with others who have been in the same position as me.

My ego was so fragile that the thought of my girl just talking to a guy who I know wanted to fuck her would sit in my mind for nighave not found their wives expensive to maintain? hts on end. Now, my girl's fucking other dudes all day but is absolutely all over me come the night. I'm left thinking she must be crazy about me if she's still telling me to come over all the time, you know?

Even as I re-read what I'm typing I realise how ridiculous it sounds but it's what I'm feeling. I'd really love to hear from some other people who might be/have been in the same situation as me just to reaffirm that I'm not going completely insane.

This is a common and natural concern. But how many here have NOT found their wives cost money? My last wife took  me for infinitely more that any lady of the night has or even could.

So the concern many have (how can it be a sound relationship if I'm paying?) doesn't affect me. I am too old anyhow, but there is one strumpet I think I could happily live with. I don't see her that often, but do spend a great amount of time gossiping with her.

There is no limit to the number or nature of relationships that are possible. We are all different though and my impression is that many of our members resent women. Maybe because they aren't appealing enough to get free sex.  But many more just like variety, I was only faithful to one partner during any of the 6 live in arrangements/marriages I have had. 

Offline hendrix

This is a common and natural concern. But how many here have NOT found their wives cost money? My last wife took  me for infinitely more that any lady of the night has or even could.

So the concern many have (how can it be a sound relationship if I'm paying?) doesn't affect me. I am too old anyhow, but there is one strumpet I think I could happily live with. I don't see her that often, but do spend a great amount of time gossiping with her.

There is no limit to the number or nature of relationships that are possible. We are all different though and my impression is that many of our members resent women. Maybe because they aren't appealing enough to get free sex.  But many more just like variety, I was only faithful to one partner during any of the 6 live in arrangements/marriages I have had.

I have no experience here and nothing to add to the thread, just wanted to express my admiration for Colston  :hi:

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I have no experience here and nothing to add to the thread, just wanted to express my admiration for Colston  :hi:

The randy old git  :D

Offline Colston36

I have no experience here and nothing to add to the thread, just wanted to express my admiration for Colston  :hi:

I have read all your reviews - with considerable envy.

Offline Payyourwaymate

Once the honeymoon phase ends, see how you feel then. I would not recommend it, alot of unnecessary stress.

Offline KiloRomeo

Are you still paying her. If so its not a relationship. She is using you cause she knows it 100 garauntee of funds.
Also she could be fucking a uncle of yours any family member. How do you feel about that. A randy family member may book her and fuck her. Friends may be fucking her. Her bodycount is high.

Someone here may have shagged her

One thing to consider is if a accident happens with a punter, ie small condom tear, can you be sure any future kid is yours.
Its risky, not recomended really,

If she not charging then good luck. Ideally she gives up, be better for your mental health

You mentioned a lot of things but i'll try and answer all of your points. I don't have much family left in this country but if she were to see a family member or someone I know then it would be completely indifferent to someone i've never met; I don't go through her phone and i'll never know. I admittedly don't boast about her to my friends and close family and yes I can see how it could be problematic down the line if someone knows her but I wouldn't feel shitty knowing someone I know was with her or anything. Bodycount is something that would have massively scared me in the past but maybe the thought that she is doing it solely for the money is what keeps me sane; I see her reactions when she's replying to clients and she never looks particularly excited.

If she were to get pregnant from the job then I can't imagine she would want to keep it. If she did, that would be me gone.

I'm not being charged and I see her almost every other day now. As I said before, I feel almost almost more mentally stable than I did with my ex who was only fucking me. I just don't know if it's some kind of coping mechanism tbh.

Offline KiloRomeo

I was in a 3 year long relationship with a girl I first met as a client. She only did this part time (like 2 days a week and 2-3 bookings a day). We even lived together for a while and I probably would've married her one day if we hadn't broken up because I loved her deeply.

When we started dating she was still doing it, and it didn't bother me because I was the one she would go home with, and I was the one who didn't have to pay to be with her. In some ways I found it kinda ego boosting that others would shell out hundred+ to just spend an hour with her while I could spend as much time with her as I wanted. I just tried to be supportive of whatever she wanted to do.

She eventually stopped but for different reasons, not because we got into a relationship. But even if she hadn't, it wouldn't have affected me...as long as she had some plan. What I mean by that is as long as she had a goal in her mind i.e. "I'll earn X amount of money so that I have enough to do Y, and that would allow me to pursue Z" that kind of stuff shows some sort of ambition, focus, and long term thinking beyond just here and now. Along with giving you an idea that the person can commit to something and I think that's an important factor in any relationship. And it's not even about the job tbh, I'd get similar sort of positive feeling if she was still working and was one of those escorts who go full businesswoman in how they run things (not businesslike in meets mind you, but in how they organise and approach this job), because again it shows an organised and focused attitude towards life.

I guess the point I'm trying to make, is that the job can take a toll on the mind and not everyone is suitable for it. Let alone be suitable to do the job and have a functioning long term relationship, you require an incredible amount of emotional maturity and strength of character from both sides to have that, and as such those that do will probably have a very deep and successful relationship regardless of whether she is still working or not. But if there are any insecurities etc, or lack of communication etc then over time it's bound to fail as what will start off as minor annoyance will blow up to something big later.

Mine failed but not for the above reason, it was to do with her own personal issues and she had to leave the country to resolve that, which led to the breakup. But I had some of the loveliest time with her and some amazing memories that I will always keep with me.


I honestly couldn't have articulated my thoughts better than this. It's a massive relief that someone has been where I am and feels the way I do. It's comforting to know that you still think back on it fondly and not as a mistake. For the meantime everything is pretty bliss like you described in the early part of your relationship. I'll try not to think too much about the future...

Offline KiloRomeo

So which one of your two reviews is it  :D

I knew some smartass was gonna crack this joke lol. I was so close to adding 'and no, she's not one of my two reviews'  :D . I plead guilty to not reviewing all of my punts, send me to punting prison.

Offline KiloRomeo

Given that one is around 2 months ago one wonders how long this relationship has been in place?

So are you still punting?

If you are normally the extremely jealous type then in time that jealousy will almost certainly prevail. It isn't there at present because her having sex with other men is already known when you start the relationship. It's just a job etc. In other relationships it is something that you fear may happen. Different though process.

I think I stopped paying her from the end of march so I guess that's when it started. I get your point about jealousy, I like to think i've matured in the time but you might be right. Only time will tell I suppose.

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I knew some smartass was gonna crack this joke lol. I was so close to adding 'and no, she's not one of my two reviews'  :D . I plead guilty to not reviewing all of my punts, send me to punting prison.
This is the second thread you have started when there are very recent ones on the same subject already running, asking if you've reviewed her is not really a joke.

How do you expect anyone to give you accurate advice when we don't know anything about the escort concerned?   :unknown:

Online Jonestown

Two people enjoying each other's company, what's not to like, will it last, probably not, so enjoy it while you can.

Have to say its most unwise to write about it in what might be considered (one of) the lady's trade journals, I doubt she would be enthralled by your posting.

Offline scutty brown

My experience is the girls you think you're in a relationship with are the ones who need a passport, or a cheap driver, or someone to pay the rent

Offline KiloRomeo

This is the second thread you have started when there are very recent ones on the same subject already running, asking if you've reviewed her is not really a joke.

How do you expect anyone to give you accurate advice when we don't know anything about the escort concerned?   :unknown:

Sorry, I genuinely try with the search bar but I just suck at finding the relevant threads. Not really sure what relevance the specific girl has to the conversation but i'm sure you'll understand i'm not exactly her number one promoter so i'm not going to drop a link  :dash: . She's South American if that helps.

Offline KiloRomeo

Two people enjoying each other's company, what's not to like, will it last, probably not, so enjoy it while you can.

Have to say its most unwise to write about it in what might be considered (one of) the lady's trade journals, I doubt she would be enthralled by your posting.

I don't think she's aware the site even exists lol, think i'm good.

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She's South American if that helps.
Her not being a UK citizen puts a whole different slant on it with a different set of reasons for her wanting a relationship with you.

Is she here legally? does she have the necessary work permits?   :unknown:

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I expect her extended family will want to fly over for the wedding, especially the ones requiring medical treatment, hope your place is big enough.

Offline KiloRomeo

Her not being a UK citizen puts a whole different slant on it with a different set of reasons for her wanting a relationship with you.

Is she here legally? does she have the necessary work permits?   :unknown:

I will just say that she is well aware that I can not help her stay in the country indefinitely. I brought it up once and she hasn't mentioned it since.

Offline scutty brown

So who financed her trip to the UK? Who is the pimp controlling her?
Somewhere in the background there will be criminal elements with their hooks into her.
Be very very careful.

Online Southernbloke

I have had a friends with benefits type of relationship with WGs in the past and while I part with money in so far as I would pay a bill or take them shopping instead of just handing cash over. I got a nice bit of sex from them without being clock watched.
Both of them lasted about 2 years and then they moved on, one to another part of the country and one found herself a regular boyfriend.
Nice while it lasted and I have good memories, I still get a text or a phone call occasionally.
To the OP enjoy it for as long as it lasts and when you stop enjoying yourself then stop just like any other relationship.
For myself I still carried on seeing other women because at the end of the day you are a punter and why should you stop.

Offline Punting2022

You mentioned a lot of things but i'll try and answer all of your points. I don't have much family left in this country but if she were to see a family member or someone I know then it would be completely indifferent to someone i've never met; I don't go through her phone and i'll never know. I admittedly don't boast about her to my friends and close family and yes I can see how it could be problematic down the line if someone knows her but I wouldn't feel shitty knowing someone I know was with her or anything. Bodycount is something that would have massively scared me in the past but maybe the thought that she is doing it solely for the money is what keeps me sane; I see her reactions when she's replying to clients and she never looks particularly excited.

If she were to get pregnant from the job then I can't imagine she would want to keep it. If she did, that would be me gone.

I'm not being charged and I see her almost every other day now. As I said before, I feel almost almost more mentally stable than I did with my ex who was only fucking me. I just don't know if it's some kind of coping mechanism tbh.

Pregnancy is hard really. She could be pregnant say its urs. You both keep etc. The reality is a punter could have had a small condom tear. Not all ladies will be mentally there to abort. Accidents hapoen. You may end up with a kid not yours. But too late to find out. Dna can only be done when born.

Another yhing is std risk. With a high body count and her doing oral and recieving maybe. She can have a std and pass to you.

Hiv, etc. Its too risky. Best thing for you is to make her choose. A life of shagging strangers or you. If love is strong then she will choose you. Lots of people get by on normal jobs. Supermarkets etc.

Yoo dont get it free. Remember all the sexy lingerie you buy etc, she is prob wearing for other mn to enjoy her in. Any perfume gifts beuaty treatments. All for the sake of clients. All these things you spend money on gor her. 99 percent is for her clients.
Also a risk of her getting in a rlationship with another client. Some really rich one could come and sweep her away.

Cash is king for prosse remember
« Last Edit: June 24, 2023, 11:15:40 am by Punting2022 »

Offline KiloRomeo

So who financed her trip to the UK? Who is the pimp controlling her?
Somewhere in the background there will be criminal elements with their hooks into her.
Be very very careful.

You assume every non-british WG in the country is being controlled by some criminal entity? I appreciate you're looking out for me with the questions but I like to think the punting world is not as dark as you make it out to be. Nevertheless, I have spent a lot of time with her now and I haven't got a hint of anything like this happening in the background.

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You assume every non-british WG in the country is being controlled by some criminal entity? I appreciate you're looking out for me with the questions but I like to think the punting world is not as dark as you make it out to be. Nevertheless, I have spent a lot of time with her now and I haven't got a hint of anything like this happening in the background.

Not every, but a lot of them. Don't be naive.
Women come here to work because they're unable to earn at home. It follows that they can't afford the fare to get here: it's an inevitable catch-22. So someone has to finance them to get here. Maybe simple trafficking, maybe some kind of debt bondage. But all of it financed through crime. South American sex workers are just another diversification for the South American cocaine dealers. Just another commodity to smuggle.

Offline big-al93

You assume every non-british WG in the country is being controlled by some criminal entity? I appreciate you're looking out for me with the questions but I like to think the punting world is not as dark as you make it out to be. Nevertheless, I have spent a lot of time with her now and I haven't got a hint of anything like this happening in the background.

And I like to think unicorns and fairies exist.  :D The facts are that a large percentage of non british WG are "assisted" in some way. It's doesn't have to be what we think of when we think of pimps (beatings, rape, locked up 24/7 ect.) but many have to work off debts incurred getting here, or cannot speak english in order to book accomodation and travel arrangements, so even if they travelled here willingly to do sex work, there is often a seedier side to things.

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Pregnancy is hard really. She could be pregnant say its urs. You both keep etc. The reality is a punter could have had a small condom tear. Not all ladies will be mentally there to abort. Accidents hapoen. You may end up with a kid not yours. But too late to find out. Dna can only be done when born.

Another yhing is std risk. With a high body count and her doing oral and recieving maybe. She can have a std and pass to you.

Hiv, etc. Its too risky. Best thing for you is to make her choose. A life of shagging strangers or you. If love is strong then she will choose you. Lots of people get by on normal jobs. Supermarkets etc.

Yoo dont get it free. Remember all the sexy lingerie you buy etc, she is prob wearing for other mn to enjoy her in. Any perfume gifts beuaty treatments. All for the sake of clients. All these things you spend money on gor her. 99 percent is for her clients.
Also a risk of her getting in a rlationship with another client. Some really rich one could come and sweep her away.

Cash is king for prosse remember

The expert has spoken  :lol:

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I honestly couldn't have articulated my thoughts better than this. It's a massive relief that someone has been where I am and feels the way I do. It's comforting to know that you still think back on it fondly and not as a mistake. For the meantime everything is pretty bliss like you described in the early part of your relationship. I'll try not to think too much about the future...
Well to be honest, it's still pretty recent for me. And I've just started taking interest in dating (and punting) again. When you spend that long in a relationship and have made up your mind about settling down with the person (home, kids, marriage, the whole shebang), and it ends because of reasons outside both of our control, it's kinda hard to not keep thinking about what could have been. I had even told my family about her and they were happy for me, infact they'd have met her this year when then came to visit me in UK. .
« Last Edit: June 24, 2023, 12:02:48 pm by nightbot »

Offline Punting2022

The expert has spoken  :lol:

Its common sense tbh. The more you shag, the higher the risk of pregnancy. Plus punters strangers will always try something inbetween sex etc.

I would never have a relationship with a active escort. If she quits then yes. Not active. OP you could be at home on a day off wanting a shag, but ur eacort gf is shagging a old grandad etc
« Last Edit: June 24, 2023, 11:48:41 am by Punting2022 »

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Plus punters strangers will always try something inbetween sex etc.


What does that mean ?

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This again, why not read the dozes of other threads on the topic. The responses are all the same, some will admoish you for pursuing it and others will make fun of you.

No punter on here is going to whole heatedly tell you its a good idea. However, your life.

For what its worth, not a good idea.

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This again, why not read the dozes of other threads on the topic. The responses are all the same, some will admoish you for pursuing it and others will make fun of you.

No punter on here is going to whole heatedly tell you its a good idea. However, your life.

For what its worth, not a good idea.

I didn’t say either of those things. People meet each other from all kinds of activities at least this way you have something in common ( shagging for money) .

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I didn’t say either of those things. People meet each other from all kinds of activities at least this way you have something in common ( shagging for money) .

I'm refering to OP and the thread he started in general

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My ego was so fragile that the thought of my girl just talking to a guy who I know wanted to fuck her would sit in my mind for nights on end. Now, my girl's fucking other dudes all day but is absolutely all over me come the night. I'm left thinking she must be crazy about me if she's still telling me to come over all the time, you know?



That sounds like she puts in one more shift with you.

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.......but ur eacort gf is shagging a old grandad etc

And what exactly is wrong with shagging an old grandad, pray tell ?

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And what exactly is wrong with shagging an old grandad, pray tell ?

It appears he can't reply as he's earned himself a 60 day ban, so I shall answer your question

There is absolutely nothing wrong with snagging an old grandad imo they are lots of fun in bed

Offline scutty brown

It appears he can't reply as he's earned himself a 60 day ban, so I shall answer your question

There is absolutely nothing wrong with snagging an old grandad imo they are lots of fun in bed

Snagging? Makes it sound like you're after grandad's money........... :lol:

Just imaging a new novel "The Black Widow Wolf"......
« Last Edit: June 24, 2023, 01:35:07 pm by scutty brown »

Online mr.bluesky

So which one of your two reviews is it  :D

Neither of them, he met someone else ,didn't post a review and kept her to himself and now look what's happened 🤔

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It appears he can't reply as he's earned himself a 60 day ban, so I shall answer your question

There is absolutely nothing wrong with snagging an old grandad imo they are lots of fun in bed

Many a good tune played on an old fiddle as they say  :D

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Two people enjoying each other's company, what's not to like, will it last, probably not, so enjoy it while you can.


What could possibly go wrong?  :D

I think I stopped paying her from the end of march so I guess that's when it started. I get your point about jealousy, I like to think i've matured in the time but you might be right. Only time will tell I suppose.

It is important to define what you mean by 'relationship' at this stage? If you are literally meeting regularly for a sex session, but with zero money changing hands then fill yer boots and jealousy is unlikely, unless you are the sort of punter who feels uneasy about SP's seeing other punters (and they do exist)

If this relationship becomes more than that, where you have what I would loosely term increasing 'social contact' then the goalposts begin to move. The posts move significantly should the dreaded 'feelings' creep in (for either party) and then you are in a whole different ball game and this situation is covered widely in other threads on this subject.

You also need to determine how she see's the relationship. Is she just meeting you for great mutual sex or is she just using the sex as a tool in some manipulative way because she has another motive?

The main thrust of your post seems to centre around the lack of jealousy you are experiencing? This will likely remain the case if this stays as a simple FB relationship (ie non payment in any way and minimal social interaction) and I have experience of a number of them and great fun they were, although a couple began to go beyond that and where halted. I experienced no jealousy, although I did once get my nose put out when she cancelled a session in favour of a paid booking  :D

However as I have posted before one 'relationship' did then progress and it was at that point that 'the job' became gradually more difficult for both of us to cope with. Interestingly when it started she was very jealous of me seeing other SP's ... one in particular.

Good luck  :hi:
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And what exactly is wrong with shagging an old grandad, pray tell ?

I have this mental image of Clive Dunn surrounded by young children ... the latter being highly inappropriate!

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Snagging? Makes it sound like you're after grandad's money........... :lol:

Just imaging a new novel "The Black Widow Wolf"......

Autocorrect gets me again  :lol: :lol:

However if any lovely old grandads with a dicky ticker fancy being 'snagged' let me know  :lol: :lol:

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Autocorrect gets me again  :lol: :lol:

However if any lovely old grandads with a dicky ticker fancy being 'snagged' let me know  :lol: :lol:

As I've said before, it does happen..........there's a girl in Blackpool who's had three blokes die on her
« Last Edit: June 24, 2023, 02:12:15 pm by scutty brown »

Offline KiloRomeo

What could possibly go wrong?  :D

It is important to define what you mean by 'relationship' at this stage? If you are literally meeting regularly for a sex session, but with zero money changing hands then fill yer boots and jealousy is unlikely, unless you are the sort of punter who feels uneasy about SP's seeing other punters (and they do exist)

If this relationship becomes more than that, where you have what I would loosely term increasing 'social contact' then the goalposts begin to move. The posts move significantly should the dreaded 'feelings' creep in (for either party) and then you are in a whole different ball game and this situation is covered widely in other threads on this subject.

You also need to determine how she see's the relationship. Is she just meeting you for great mutual sex or is she just using the sex as a tool in some manipulative way because she has another motive?

The main thrust of your post seems to centre around the lack of jealousy you are experiencing? This will likely remain the case if this stays as a simple FB relationship (ie non payment in any way and minimal social interaction) and I have experience of a number of them and great fun they were, although a couple began to go beyond that and where halted. I experienced no jealousy, although I did once get my nose put out when she cancelled a session in favour of a paid booking  :D

However as I have posted before one 'relationship' did then progress and it was at that point that 'the job' became gradually more difficult for both of us to cope with. Interestingly when it started she was very jealous of me seeing other SP's ... one in particular.

Good luck  :hi:

There's definitely plenty of the 'social contact' you've described. I know a lot of the punters here are gonna have a good laugh at this but for what it's worth, she says she has very deep feelings for me and I believe her. As I've tried to explain, I'm yet to be exploited in any way so I have no reason to doubt what she says and the way she acts around me. It seems the majority of commenters here believe it's only a matter of time before she smothers me in my sleep and assumes my identity though and I'm not going to pretend that the scepticism of everyone here hasn't made me more think a little more about everything.

Online Doc Holliday

There's definitely plenty of the 'social contact' you've described.

Then the road ahead will mean you both having to make some difficult choices.

Offline scutty brown

She's latched onto you as a way of escaping something.
What you need to know is just what does she want to escape from? Who are they and what hold have they got on her? And how far will they go to protect their property?

Offline tynetunnel

It appears he can't reply as he's earned himself a 60 day ban, so I shall answer your question


He won’t be missed. Daviemac says his next one will be permanent…  :thumbsup: