Author Topic: Is first time Anal painful for girls  (Read 1694 times)

Offline Mantiger

Need opinions from fellow punters.
I have had my first anal fucking experience with my girlfriend recently.
She told me that it was her first as well.
But she took it easily without any lube (with little pain). Though I was wearing condom.
I really enjoyed it but I am wondering whether that’s her really first time.
Need some inputs on this from experienced punters.

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I really enjoyed it but I am wondering whether that’s her really first time


So by chance are you thinking she is seeing someone else behind your back, but there could be another reason.   Does she have any sex toys, and if so she might use these, and not just in her pussy, but her ass

Online RandomGuy99

Need opinions from fellow punters.
I have had my first anal fucking experience with my girlfriend recently.
She told me that it was her first as well.
But she took it easily without any lube (with little pain). Though I was wearing condom.
I really enjoyed it but I am wondering whether that’s her really first time.
Need some inputs on this from experienced punters.
I think you are over analysing it.  Just accept her word and go forward. You seem to be suspicious of her and that's no way to have a relationship.

It really depends on the size of your penis.

If yours is thin then it's probably not going to cause much stretching and so won't be painful.

If yours is girthy then I imagine it hurts. .

I've tried anal a few times and I never really found it to be what it's cracked up to be. I was more worried about not doing any harm, so I didn't really get into it.

I wonder if she is suspicious that you may be shagging SPs?
« Last Edit: June 13, 2023, 04:06:30 pm by RandomGuy99 »

Offline lewisjones23

Need opinions from fellow punters.
I have had my first anal fucking experience with my girlfriend recently.
She told me that it was her first as well.
But she took it easily without any lube (with little pain). Though I was wearing condom.
I really enjoyed it but I am wondering whether that’s her really first time.
Need some inputs on this from experienced punters.

sounds to me that she is a seasoned pro and you are the latest in a long line of chaps that have entered the backdoor

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I think you are over analysing it.  Just accept her word and go forward. You seem to be suspicious of her and that's no way to have a relationship.

It really depends on the size of your penis.

If yours is thin then it's probably not going to cause much stretching and so won't be painful.

If yours is girthy then I imagine it hurts. .

I've tried anal a few times and I never really found it to be what it's cracked up to be. I was more worried about not doing any harm, so I didn't really get into it.

I wonder if she is suspicious that you may be shagging SPs?

My thought exactly. I would be more concerned about you cheating on your GF than worrying about whether she is telling the truth about whether she has had anal sex before or not.

Offline Mantiger

I think you are over analysing it.  Just accept her word and go forward. You seem to be suspicious of her and that's no way to have a relationship.

No I am not suspicious and it doesn't matter to me. She lives in other country and we are not committed.

Just curious as heard from others' experiences that there could be blood and other mess when taking anal first time.
I have average size. Its about whether I tick that checkbox off the list for taking anal virginity :D

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Just curious as heard from others' experiences that there could be blood and other mess when taking anal first time.


Blood? That will be from rupturing her rectal hymen.

Oh and if using a condom lube is a must.

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No I am not suspicious and it doesn't matter to me. She lives in other country and we are not committed.

Just curious as heard from others' experiences that there could be blood and other mess when taking anal first time.
I have average size. Its about whether I tick that checkbox off the list for taking anal virginity :D
OMG!  Why would you even be thinking of checkboxes for taking anal virginity?

If it doesn't matter to you, then why are you asking the question?

Why would there be blood?

It's just like having a dump but in reverse. Your anus is designed to stretch to let shit out, so it can stretch to let a penis in. 😱
« Last Edit: June 13, 2023, 05:18:35 pm by RandomGuy99 »

Offline pythondan

I think asking punters, whose experience of anal may mainly be with service providers who offer the service, will probably be of limited value.

On the occasions when I have had anal with SPs they have managed it without any drama - but plenty of lube - a couple asked me to go slowly at first but all were able to take a good pounding.

In civvy life I had anal with a few girls but never, as far as I know, popped anyone's cherry. One long term girlfriend enjoyed it as much as normal sex but was very tight and did bleed slightly on one occasion. Again when warmed up I was able to thrust away with abandon.

One thing I have noticed is that there was a noticeable difference in initial tightness between some of the girls. One, who was quite conservative in the bedroom, took my cock easily in the back passage without any evidence of pain.

So, to your original question, who knows? And unless a woman is getting very regular back door action I think her bum would not somehow stretch after the first time.

I would quit worrying and enjoy having a partner that is adventurous in bed.

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Need opinions from fellow punters.
I have had my first anal fucking experience with my girlfriend recently.
As you've posted this in the 'General discussion of UK Escorts and Massage' section have you got a link to her profile.   :unknown:

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Need opinions from fellow punters.
I have had my first anal fucking experience with my girlfriend recently.
She told me that it was her first as well.
But she took it easily without any lube (with little pain). Though I was wearing condom.
I really enjoyed it but I am wondering whether that’s her really first time.
Need some inputs on this from experienced punters.

Book a session with a top TS, you taking it up the ass. Find out if it hurts you.

Offline bigden40

I’ve taken the anal virginity of a couple of partners and there was no blood spilled and neither found it painful. If you’re doing it properly it shouldn’t be painful.

To be fair though in neither case was ramming my cock in her arse the first step, one builds up to it.


Offline rubric

No I am not suspicious and it doesn't matter to me. She lives in other country and we are not committed.

Just curious as heard from others' experiences that there could be blood and other mess when taking anal first time.

There's only blood if you break skin (which if you are having anal safety should never happen) and other mess is associated with not douching well, or alternatively being about to have a poo (ironically the best time to have anal with little mess is right after a reasonably solid poo - as long as it was complete).

As to discomfort, it depends, maybe she'd already had a go at putting things up there hence suggesting anal? IME generally there's only discomfort if a girl is not able to relax properly.

Offline Trpy

Need opinions from fellow punters.
I have had my first anal fucking experience with my girlfriend recently.


If, as you say, she is your girlfriend, why are you expecting counseling in relation to your personal relationships. That's your problem and I don't care quite frankly

However, if she is an escort, it is pretty probable that she has taken it up the arse

In either case it seems like a naive question. :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

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What's this got to do with punting?

Asking on a forum because you want claim your "Popping an anal cherry" badge is a bit sad IMO.

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Book a session with a top TS, you taking it up the ass. Find out if it hurts you.

i agree. if you really want to know, go see a TS or Escort that offers a pegging service! then you can speak from experience. and you can leave a review as well!!

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No I am not suspicious and it doesn't matter to me. She lives in other country and we are not committed.


Why do you care? You’re not suspicious, it doesn’t matter and you’re not committed- yet asking this on a paid sex review forum?

Does this girl sell sex? If so as Davie has already commented you should leave a review of her otherwise it’s not really relevant to this site.