Fabswingers - waste of time??

[Bluelight85]

Not sure if this subject has been covered before on here, so please accept my apologies if it has…


I’ve been on fabswingers over 2 years now and have just found it a total waste of time, my question is has anyone been on there and actually achieved a meetup with anyone? Or am I doing something wrong?

[southcoastpunter]

are you trying to "swing" as part of a couple or as a single man?

Never joined myself but from memory of other people's comments, I think you will find there is a lot of difference between the two!!

[Bluelight85]

are you trying to "swing" as part of a couple or as a single man?

Never joined myself but from memory of other people's comments, I think you will find there is a lot of difference between the two!!

Yeah, just trying as a single man, of which I understand there is lots on there, the thing is so many seem interested in meeting single men then suddenly aren’t?

[finn5555]

Yeah, just trying as a single man, of which I understand there is lots on there, the thing is so many seem interested in meeting single men then suddenly aren’t?

Even the fat old ugly women on there get a pick of 100’s of desperate men so unless your part of a couple the chances of anything happening is pretty slim

[Billy no mates]

Tried with the missus years ago, so it may have improved.

It was a lot of hard work, it was just easier to book a girl. To be fair she only wanted sex with another guys wife, she was happy to be watched or he could fuck his missus at the same time, but didn’t want sex with another guy, so we may have stunted ourselves.

[Bluelight85]

Tried with the missus years ago, so it may have improved.

It was a lot of hard work, it was just easier to book a girl. To be fair she only wanted sex with another guys wife, she was happy to be watched or he could fuck his missus at the same time, but didn’t want sex with another guy, so we may have stunted ourselves.

All in all, they say they want this or that then don’t do nothing.

[ronthebrummie]

I’ve been on about 6 months did meet a couple who lived close to me, said they wanted a regular guy.
Met up on a Saturday night all went ok, they said they would be in touch again but silence since then.

[pewpewpew]

Never tried it but my friend is on there as a couple with her husband. They get loads of action apparently but they aren't just experimenting they are proper swingers so maybe it makes a difference?

[lewisjones23]

I put some time and effort in a few years back.

as a single male you’ll get 1/100 response to message sent ratio, have to deal with timewasters, picture hoarders and wade through hundreds of fat dogs that you wouldn’t give the time of day to in real life.

if you do then manage to strike up a conversation with someone its easy for your messages to get lost in the barage the females/couples get

far easier to meet people in real life, even easier to punt

for what it is worth, I tackled one woman that must have been at least twice my weight, I closed my eyes and tried to think of something else, got my verification off her (in the hope it would make the site easier/better) and then moved on.

lost interest in the site soon after as the effort/reward ratio is far off

[Billy no mates]

I put some time and effort in a few years back.

as a single male you’ll get 1/100 response to message sent ratio, have to deal with timewasters, picture hoarders and wade through hundreds of fat dogs that you wouldn’t give the time of day to in real life.

if you do then manage to strike up a conversation with someone its easy for your messages to get lost in the barage the females/couples get

far easier to meet people in real life, even easier to punt

for what it is worth, I tackled one woman that must have been at least twice my weight, I closed my eyes and tried to think of something else, got my verification off her (in the hope it would make the site easier/better) and then moved on.

lost interest in the site soon after as the effort/reward ratio is far off

This totally sums up our experience, so it’s not much better as a couple.

[hullad]

Amazing how many working girls are also on fab as well, I have never pulled anyone on there. Most of the Available and willing" are huge, old and frigging unfuckable or all three. 

The regular girl I see told me that some ' swingers clubs ' pay escorts get paid to entertain single men. Now I have no idea as but it may explain the number of escorts on fab.

[Ali Katt]

Amazing how many working girls are also on fab as well, I have never pulled anyone on there. Most of the Available and willing" are huge, old and frigging unfuckable or all three. 

The regular girl I see told me that some ' swingers clubs ' pay escorts get paid to entertain single men. Now I have no idea as but it may explain the number of escorts on fab.

The last paragraph I have heard as well or the owners have sex with the punters instead of random swingers.

[lewisjones23]

Amazing how many working girls are also on fab as well, I have never pulled anyone on there. Most of the Available and willing" are huge, old and frigging unfuckable or all three. 

The regular girl I see told me that some ' swingers clubs ' pay escorts get paid to entertain single men. Now I have no idea as but it may explain the number of escorts on fab.

that goes against what ive heard in all honesty, I was under the impression that FS was hostile to working girls and ban them

[Ali Katt]

Not sure if this subject has been covered before on here, so please accept my apologies if it has…


I’ve been on fabswingers over 2 years now and have just found it a total waste of time, my question is has anyone been on there and actually achieved a meetup with anyone? Or am I doing something wrong?

For the amount of time and effort you put in better off spending your time on something like Tinder.

Don't get me wrong I saw one woman on there, but I think a lot of it is being willing to meet people at stupid times, like midnight. I think you're better off on other apps, unless you are a really sociable person who is willing to go to swinger's clubs and other bollocks like parties or you have 12" cock, a body like Dwayne Johnson or you're black. I should have put my time into a different app

[GreyDave]

For the amount of time and effort you put in better off spending your time on something like Tinder.

Don't get me wrong I saw one woman on there, but I think a lot of it is being willing to meet people at stupid times, like midnight. I think you're better off on other apps, unless you are a really sociable person who is willing to go to swinger's clubs and other bollocks like parties or you have 12" cock, a body like Dwayne Johnson or you're black. I should have put my time into a different app

  " ME TOO "        Ive wasted time and effort and the few Swingers ? WGs that are on there with partners are really using it as an extra income to their AW and Only fans income ...

As a 60 average white bloke withh small willy balding and pot bellyed Ive reckon CASH IS KING    and just go to WGs now no bollocks about the Swinging lifestyle and all that crap.. Ive been to Spa and swingers included parties and on several occasions faced the I only party with .....Black guys ..8 inch plus.. Under 30`s ( came from a 60 - 70 year old looking gal who I thought Id give a bit of attention to at a Sutton house party    ...I feel I now have a lot in common with many council car parks now regarding punting and females i get to see....I pay and they display.... Ill get me coat 

[akauya]

I’ve been on fabswingers over 2 years now and have just found it a total waste of time, my question is has anyone been on there and actually achieved a meetup with anyone? Or am I doing something wrong?

Yeah, just trying as a single man, of which I understand there is lots on there, the thing is so many seem interested in meeting single men then suddenly aren’t?

If there's something that some swingers can't stand is single blokes pretending to be "swingers" in order to get a leg over. When I say "swingers" I mean real swingers.

They can smell single guys like that a mile away. Swinging is a lifestyle, it's not AW. Yes, there are lots of pro women in the swinging scene, both as pro and as swingers which turns the whole thing into a grey area. But in general, real life swingers, who live the lifestyle, unless their kink is single men - whatever type of single men, they won't even entertain you. And if their type is single men they are spoilt for choice as there are hundreds of horny guys to choose from.

Ask yourself this, if you had a girlfriend/wife would you be happy to see her sucking off other men's cocks and getting shagged by other men whilst you are in the same room?  Would you be happy to swap with other couples? Would you be happy she goes to sex parties on her own whilst you stay at home watching footie? Would you be happy she's in the middle of a gangbang and you as the chaperone? If the answer is no, then you're not a swinger and you will hardly get a look at the real swingers (I'm oversimplifying the swinging scene here for argument's sake).

If the answer is yes, then you need to meet real swingers in social events (munches) and get to know them first; this takes time, a hell of a long time. The idea is that they know you as a person and not a weirdo who wants to fuck women but can't pull in real life or doesn't want to pay a pro for sex. The more you get to know people the better, then you will be invited to heavily vetted parties.

You can always go to the swingers/pro parties where some swinging women/couples go to satisfy their kink to have sex with lots of men (single or otherwise). As some said in previous responses on this thread, some of those parties hire some pro women to give the appearance of "real" swingers parties.

I'm speaking with a bit of experience as I lived the lifestyle (and still do to a lesser degree, than when I was younger) both as a man in a M/F couple and as a single man.

If you don't want to pay for sex (e.g. AW) and you're not prepared to put the work into the swinging lifestyle then, as others have pointed out, your best bet is to use social media apps to find random sex partners.

[Jerboa]

This thread is probably a good place for me to post, as I've not been on this site much recently, as I haven't been punting tbh.

I have been a swinger for many years now, and I agree with most of what Akauya said, if you're a punter, don't bring the mentality to swinging, as you will be sussed very quickly, don't think it's a case of having a free punt, it's apples & oranges, yes you do see hookers that are swingers, and you get swingers who become hookers, so yes there is this grey area, however if you want to have success as a single male, and you don't look like a male model, gym body or 12"+ cock, consider what you bring to the table, would a couple or single lady be up for fun with you?

I have been lucky, and have had success, I enjoy meeting couples and the rare single lady, but have been into group gangbang scene for many years. One of the best ways to meet other swingers is going to clubs, this is where you can actually meet real like minded swingers, there are so many fake profiles on fab, there is no better way than a club to cut out the time wasters, and you will likely get verifications, which on fab helps a single guys profile, as couples will take more notice if you have a few verifications.

[Iloveoral]

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