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Initially very good comms with lots of good humoured chat over a few weeks. All done through AW mailing. All going swimmingly well until just before the meet was meant to take place and then it absolutely bombed.
Meet - Outcall
Was supposed to happen recently but for no apparent reason it didn’t and no reasons why. The meet was agreed with a date/time/rates. Rate agreed was a lower than usual rate and the booking was due to be for 1.5 hours.
Build up -
Agreed an initial date a couple of weeks previously to the one that never happened. As we got close to the time I got an e mail cancelling due to dental problems and that Mia had to visit the emergency dentist for treatment. Ok no problem, wished her well and arranged another date/time.
Once agreed I then got a further text cancelling again as Mia was on medication for her dental issues and couldn’t attend. Fair enough, very plausible under the circumstances.
Mia then arranged a further date/time this time as an in call meet, again agreed by both parties, looking forward to it.
A few days later another AW e mail cancelling the in call meet due to family reasons and the fact that her studies took preference so couldn’t in fact do any in call meets at all. Ok understand that family and studies are important so agreed that Mia would let me know when she would be available and she also suggested a reduced rate for the messing about as she doesn’t like to do this and felt bad about it.
Ok, fair enough, took everything as genuine as it all seemed to be a bit of bad luck with things recently so agreed we would arrange another date/time. This was duly arranged and agreed as an out call to me.
The few days leading up to this we had some good e mail chat and agreed a few things for the meet like date, time, address, postcode and the fee. We then discussed what she would wear in detail and that she would arrive dressed casual then change on arrival.
Meeting date -
Again lots of good chat about what was to follow that evening and that she would be arriving by taxi as she doesn’t drive. Agreed an additional fee, £15, to help with the taxi fare. Asked about underwear and we agreed what Mia would bring with her and which dress she would be wearing. All going really well.
The last AW e mail I sent to her, pre booking, asked if she could let me know once she set off so I would be ready when she arrived. The journey was to take her 40 minutes and she agreed to let me know.
Got myself and the venue ready and comfortable and sat waiting for the nod that Mia had set off. This never arrived. This to be honest was the first time I genuinely felt she wasn’t going to arrive.
As the time got closer I contacted Mia again to see if she had left and gave her my number to contact me. NOT A WORD OR A CALL!!!!!!
In total left 3 AW e mails trying to find out what was happening that weren’t responded to and still haven’t been. Talk about feeling fucked about?
The disappointment didn’t last very long as I suppose it always going to happen due to previous cancellations.
I have sent Mia another e mail, this was to be the last one depending on the response and all I asked was “So what happened Mia?” Nothing else just that. I have seen that she has read it as it shows as read. I left it a couple of hours and tried one last time only to find I have now been blocked and deleted without any response.
Not sure why this happened or what went wrong, there was most definitely no cross words or anything at all like that, it was all very good and found her very pleasant the whole time.
Only good things to come out of the was I didn’t travel anywhere far to be let down and it didn’t cost me any money. This has never happened to me before so a first in just over 3 years so maybe been a bit lucky previously.
Not sure if this review should be done but thought I would send it and see. We live and learn and we move on.