but I have a degree in social care
Obviously worthless or you wouldn't suck cock for a living
With your spelling when you say you have a degree in social care
do you actually mean "you work in a care home wiping old peoples bottoms for £7 an hour"
unfortunately after my husband died I had to pay the bills. (not looking for the sympathy vote)
If not looking for sympathy why mention it, this is not X factor where a sob story is required.
The reality is you took the guys money and gave a poor service