Partys

[Anders606]

Hello, and good evening!

I'm playing with the idea of going to a party. Really would like to visit LadyMarmalade but very nervous. Have read the reviews and various comments on here (all excellent), but just wanted to ask about general attitudes etc. I know it's impossible to be certain, but what is the general atmosphere like and are the 'other punters' welcoming to newbies?

I realise I'm asking a lot of silly questions, but they're my silly questions and I'd like to know the answers!

PS I'm really really interested in: External Link/Members Only is she really as amazing as she looks.
PPS if my nerves fail me, does Chantelle offer 1-1 or have an AW profile?

Thanks,

Anders.

[vt]

Hello, and good evening!

I'm playing with the idea of going to a party. Really would like to visit LadyMarmalade but very nervous. Have read the reviews and various comments on here (all excellent), but just wanted to ask about general attitudes etc. I know it's impossible to be certain, but what is the general atmosphere like and are the 'other punters' welcoming to newbies?

I realise I'm asking a lot of silly questions, but they're my silly questions and I'd like to know the answers!

PS I'm really really interested in: External Link/Members Only is she really as amazing as she looks.
PPS if my nerves fail me, does Chantelle offer 1-1 or have an AW profile?

Thanks,

Anders.

There will be all different types/shapes/sizes/colours there, no generalisations apply. Some are friendly and enjoy some banter, some just keep their heads down and do their thing, depending on the balance of these, it will determine the party atmosphere. Some girls have more exuberant personalities than others too and that can make a difference.

No-one will bat an eyelid if you're a newbie, you're not entering a clique where everyone knows everyone else, most will be strangers to each other.

Chantelle is a sweet passive London girl in her early 20s, she used to have an AW profile, but it appears inactive now...

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Google her name 'Chantelle White' + 'porn' for her porn appearances, give you more idea what she's like.

[vt]

Here's one of Chantelle's scenes...

External Link/Members Only

[iPad3]

 It really is a case of go and see for yourself, nobody will make you stay so the worst that can happen is you blow a few quid by leaving early, but I bet you don't and that you'll go back.

Good luck

[da40]

Hi Anders,

A party is something i have always wanted to do. I did it once with Carolina and Terry of South London. They were very helpful in responding to my enquiries, once they realised I was a newbie. At the party Carolina introduced me to the 'Fluffer'
and Terry made sure I met the other 4 girls. There were 8 guys and the atmosphere was relaxed and happy.

However its not for me, but I am grateful that I went to a party that was well organised, good ratio and with attractive and enthusiastic women, as I now know it's not for me as I prefer 1-2-1.

Good luck and I hope your experience is a good one.

[Anders606]

Thanks! Nice video...

Shame she isn't still on AW. May have to give the party a go! Just hope I can handle the stress!!!!

Thanks again.

[Anders606]

Da40, thanks...will look into that. Sounds a bit quieter than LMP and perhaps an easier entrance!!

[Captain Caveman]

I've been to many different parties over the years, good, bad and indifferent.

I would recommend LMP for the first timer as, while it is not the cheapest, it has the best girls and the best chilled-out friendly vibe.

First off, unless you tell them, no one else will know if it's your first time. I didn't saying anything on my first time and had a great time. From other people's feedback, if you tell the host (Emma, Lady M) it's your first party you might get a bit more attention to make sure you know the ropes and are comfortable about everything.

LMP is not a cliquey place (unlike some swingers parties, if you're comparing them) and you can easily strike up a conversation with the other guys.  Just ask them if they've been before, what other parties they've been to, favourite girls etc.

I've partied with Chantelle before (not at LMP but somewhere else when she was just starting out in porn). Great fuck but bear in mind porn is always over-acted so don't take her videos as gospel. I'm not sure it's a good idea to go to any party 'really, really interested' in one girl in particular. At best, you will spend too long with her and get ticked off for hogging her. At worst, you will get frustrated seeing her in action with other guys and neglect the other great girls there.

[chris_jp2]

Have any LMP goers got a view on whether it is considered bad form to either arrive part way through or leave early? 3 hours  and more including travel time is beyond me, but if I was able to make it for say 1 1/2 hours then I could probably make it work.

[vt]

Have any LMP goers got a view on whether it is considered bad form to either arrive part way through or leave early? 3 hours  and more including travel time is beyond me, but if I was able to make it for say 1 1/2 hours then I could probably make it work.

Yep, no problems leaving early, I've noticed quite a few do this, maybe because they've got nothing left in the tank or have to be somewhere else, but you will still have to pay the 2hr contribution regardless.

[Curious6705]

Have any LMP goers got a view on whether it is considered bad form to either arrive part way through or leave early? 3 hours  and more including travel time is beyond me, but if I was able to make it for say 1 1/2 hours then I could probably make it work.

I have arrived a little late many times - probably not LMP's favourite thing as they may be concerned if it looks like someone's booked a place and is not turning up. I think I've always pretty much made it before the party started but late enough that by the time I'd showered the rest were already partying (they start letting people in 15 minutes before the party start time).

If I was going to arrive later than the party start time I would try to let LMP know, out of courtesy. I was at a party earlier this year which began with 7 girls and myself and one other guy. An additional approx half a dozen guys gradually appeared during the first half hour or so, so it does happen that people arrive during a party sometimes. The parties are well run, and they seem to handle late arrivals with no problem so far as I have seen.

As VT says - from my experience, it's no problem to leave whenever you wish.

[Captain Caveman]

No one will complain if you leave early - more girls for the rest of us! 

[smiths]

Have any LMP goers got a view on whether it is considered bad form to either arrive part way through or leave early? 3 hours  and more including travel time is beyond me, but if I was able to make it for say 1 1/2 hours then I could probably make it work.

I think you have got the wrong end of the stick regarding punting. Your the one paying so if you wish to leave early thats your business, at LMP you will still have to pay the full fee though.

As to arriving part way through not something i would do as i want the full time at every punt i go to but speak to LMP about that is my advice. If they know you will be late BUT are definitely on your way thats one thing but if you didnt tell them they might put you down as a no show and give your place to another punter.

[chris_jp2]

Smiths - sound advice, thank you.