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Author Topic: to be a successful WG you need to..  (Read 2087 times)

Offline Minder

So I'm an end user  :D  respectful friendly easy going to a fault haha.

Kinda thinking aloud here, but to be super successful WG the biggest key to success is to be devoid of emotion, and a great actress?

also curious to all the wg who post on here, do you offer more or less to super friendly punters?

Im pretty sure there must be a few who will take advantage a little.

Offline Sparquin

I would have thought that successful would equate to getting regular income being treated with respect and enjoying the job.  I don't think being devoid of emotion or being a great actress necessarily enter into it.

I have tended to think that successful WGs would prefer to have a coterie of regulars who treat them nicely and do not try take advantage. To achieve that would seem to require a modicum of authenticity if not sincerity, albeit applied with emotional discipline.

I look forward to hearing the girls' views.

Offline CatBBW

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...to be super successful WG the biggest key to success is to be devoid of emotion

I disagree - emotion is GOOD in this job, you've just got to be careful not to let clients (or TWs, idiots, wankers etc) get under your skin. Cold, hard, emotionless prozzies WILL get rated down or pick up neg/neut reviews.

and a great actress?

Yes, sometimes. Depends on the situ.

also curious to all the wg who post on here, do you offer more or less to super friendly punters?

"Super friendly punters" can often mean stalker-ish or suffering with EAS, so treading carefully is the order of the day here.

Offline JV547845

To enjoy the good bookings and not let the shit bookings and TWs get to you.

That's for my definition of successful anyway.  Otherwise you can make all the money you like but if you don't like selling yourself for sex you'll end up as miserable as anyone else who does a shit job they hate.

Offline KayHerts

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Agree with Catherine that being emotionless is not an asset - it always helps if you can chat to a client in a warm and friendly manner. But "super friendly" isn't necessarily a positive factor: it can verge on the creepy or intrusive.

It's a two-way street as well: I tend to react in how I think is the most appropriate manner for each client - some want to talk, some don't; some are very curious about me, some aren't; some know exactly what they want to do and so long as I'm happy about it I'll let them get on with it, others want direction or some ideas.

I can nearly always find something likeable about a client, whether it be looks, personality, or what he does and how he does it. As such, nearly all my meets provide me with some physical pleasure. And with the odd client where that's not the case, I'm just polite, professional and get on with it. It's not acting - it's being a nice, decent person!

Offline Minder

To enjoy the good bookings and not let the shit bookings and TWs get to you.

That's for my definition of successful anyway.  Otherwise you can make all the money you like but if you don't like selling yourself for sex you'll end up as miserable as anyone else who does a shit job they hate.

I guess this is exactly what I was meaning, its like your not being result/situation orientated, and removing or not considering the negative emotions.

Offline Tjkooker

What's with all the questions directed to prossies these days?

Thought this forum was for us to discuss them not the other way round?
Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

What's with all the questions directed to prossies these days?

Thought this forum was for us to discuss them not the other way round?

Agreed. We're only a handful of posts in and already I'm detecting a slight anti-punter agenda.  :angry:

This isn't safe or pro$$ynet.... :vomit:

...to be super successful WG the biggest key to success is to be devoid of emotion, and a great actress?

I'm a big fan of the gfe type punt and for that to be successful/enjoyable for me the wg has to be able to act up to the part, so that it seems to me that she's sincerely wanting to be there with me and up for a good, passionate fucking session.

Instead of devoid of emotion I'd say the other main characteristic she needs is to be customer oriented. Emotion is an important ingredient imo.

Offline petitealice

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Even as a prossie I have to agree there are an increasing number of prossie threads. I liked this place as you could get the punters eye view. But the lack of negative reviews and sudden surge of wg threads it is disappointing.

Offline Sienna_Bronze

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Fuck emotions, you just need to be good at your job! You don't need emotions to give a good service.
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Fuck emotions, you just need to be good at your job! You don't need emotions to give a good service.

That'll be why you have a dusty phone and spend your days touting on UKP.

 :hi:

Offline Sienna_Bronze

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Emotions are what I keep for real life relationships. You can't conjure up emotions from spending 15 mins sucking someone's dick. But hey each to their own.
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Offline AnthG

To be good and thus successful you need to either be a naturally upbeat hyper happy person. Or to offset that if your not then a 9 out of 10 or higher on the looks scale.

I feel like quoting Louis Gossett Jr. from my favourite version of the Punisher now in that "anything less is a waste of my time".

Offline Cornish sub

Even as a prossie I have to agree there are an increasing number of prossie threads. I liked this place as you could get the punters eye view. But the lack of negative reviews and sudden surge of wg threads it is disappointing.
I'm guessing, though, that the OP's intention was to find out what makes a successful prossie from a punter's point of view, not from a prossie's. So on that basis, what makes a successful prossie for me is one who makes me feel she is pleased to see me (whether genuine or acting) and offers all that she says she offers on her 'Enjoys' list, and offers it with enthusiasm rather than begrudgingly. Again, the enthusiasm doesn't necessarily have to be genuine, as long as her acting skills convince me that it is. Surely not too much to ask?

Offline petitealice

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I'm guessing, though, that the OP's intention was to find out what makes a successful prossie from a punter's point of view, not from a prossie's. So on that basis, what makes a successful prossie for me is one who makes me feel she is pleased to see me (whether genuine or acting) and offers all that she says she offers on her 'Enjoys' list, and offers it with enthusiasm rather than begrudgingly. Again, the enthusiasm doesn't necessarily have to be genuine, as long as her acting skills convince me that it is. Surely not too much to ask?

I'd agree with that. Offering services for no extra cost on likes list, enthusiasm and being open and welcoming. A good attitude basically. Customer service :)

Offline StevenS

My two pennies worth....... A WG should try and remember that while the guy knocking on her door might be the 30th bloke that week or the 100th that month, she could be the 1st girl he has seen in a long time having saved a bit of cash and made a careful choice on where it's spent. The service should reflect that.

Offline NIK

My two pennies worth....... A WG should try and remember that while the guy knocking on her door might be the 30th bloke that week or the 100th that month, she could be the 1st girl he has seen in a long time having saved a bit of cash and made a careful choice on where it's spent. The service should reflect that.

This is something I have long said and is a fundamental difference between punters and prossies.

Offline petitealice

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This is something I have long said and is a fundamental difference between punters and prossies.

I agree, although if you've ever worked in customer service generally, you know this is how you should treat all of your customers, like they are the first and most important. If you think you will lack enthusiasm after five punts already that day, then schedule less in, and take breaks for longer in between. I think of it like an airline. Would I like to pay for a first class or business class seat and then be treated like I'm in cattle class? Nay. I'd rather get the service I pay for. The better you treat a punter, the more likely he will either make a repeat visit or give you a good review. And since not everyone reveals they are a ukp user, at any point in the booking, ( I've only come across one who told me but never did a review) it's like having a mystery shopper. If you treat every guy like he may leave you a good review then you are never caught out giving bad service.

Offline Cornish sub

My two pennies worth....... A WG should try and remember that while the guy knocking on her door might be the 30th bloke that week or the 100th that month, she could be the 1st girl he has seen in a long time having saved a bit of cash and made a careful choice on where it's spent. The service should reflect that.
Nail hit well and truly on head.

Offline pokenn

To be a successful WG I'd say top qualities are

   1. self confident (not the same as arrogant)
   2. genuinely like people
   3. organised/motivated
   4. open minded and not squeamish

Offline webpunter

A smokin' hot bod & pretty boat-race is a good start point
Being able to suck a golf ball thru 10 metres of garden hose isn't bad either

Offline yorkshire123

To be a successful WG I'd say top qualities are

   1. self confident (not the same as arrogant)
   2. genuinely like people
   3. organised/motivated
   4. open minded and not squeamish

5. the ability to suck cock
6. cleanliness
7. the ability to smile even when confronted with quasimodo
8. React positively to criticism & avoid a public meltdown
9. deliver on your promises of services available
10. timekeeping
11. use your own pictures
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Offline Sienna_Bronze

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To be a successful WG I'd say top qualities are

   1. self confident (not the same as arrogant)
   2. genuinely like people
   3. organised/motivated
   4. open minded and not squeamish

This is it really, i think you really must like people to work in this business. You can fake emotion but you can't fake enthusiasm and you can't hide a genuine dislike for people either.
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Offline Daffodil

What's with all the questions directed to prossies these days?

Thought this forum was for us to discuss them not the other way round?

Indeed, here's another one: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=37318.0

Getting beyond a joke  :mad:


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