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Author Topic: SAAFE thread - another example of WG want for £££  (Read 4145 times)

Offline Matium

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My regular of about 6 years pays me over 26k a year and I speak to him once a week on the phone to confirm. It doesn't matter who they are...no pay, no play!

I'd like to know what kind of woman it is who treats a man who pays her the equivalent of £500 a week for a year and who she talks about so callously.

Fluffies Read and learn - your money is not going to but you a prostitute's friendship, affection or love.

I am not a fan of pointless texts up to 10 times a day. I've had someone threaten me via whatsapp because I literally told him to fuck off texting me all bloody day.

There is a massive difference between friendly banter and casual exchange of messages and boyfriend style "how are you babe, what are you up to today?" texts. They know what I'm doing all day, i don't answer the relentless messages anymore.

Why any punter would want to do this is beyond me?

Because they are restless and need to escape from their inner pain and sending texts all day is one way to distract themselves from their inner torment.

Offline Minder

All fluffies read this:

bbwInLondon

sourgrapes

You fluffies need to understand that prostitutes never, ever want you as friends.

very good point, and worth keeping in mind for sure, 

That said I will always be super nice friendly respectful to any lady I see, and I'm not sure if this makes me a fluffy lol, 

I think UKP is great, but it just seems sometimes guys are overly rude, we are all human and the girls offer a service we want
doesn't make them any less a person than us?

Again not trying to be fluffy, but fair play to WGs, and hope they offer a good service.

Offline akauya

very good point, and worth keeping in mind for sure, 

That said I will always be super nice friendly respectful to any lady I see, and I'm not sure if this makes me a fluffy lol, 

I think UKP is great, but it just seems sometimes guys are overly rude, we are all human and the girls offer a service we want
doesn't make them any less a person than us?

Again not trying to be fluffy, but fair play to WGs, and hope they offer a good service.

I think you are missing the point. No one is advocating to be rude to prossies. What the majority are saying is that if you think a prossie has given you a wonderful cloud 9 service that's because that's her job and she is good at it and you mustn't confuse it with friendship or love.

I'm sure 99% punters are perfectly courteous and polite with prossies but some guys who tend to mistake good service for something else need a stern reminder that this is a business transaction. If the reminder sounds harsh so much the better. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, the last thing a punter or a prossie need is a troublesome EAS.


Offline Minder

I think you are missing the point. No one is advocating to be rude to prossies. What the majority are saying is that if you think a prossie has given you a wonderful cloud 9 service that's because that's her job and she is good at it and you mustn't confuse it with friendship or love.

I'm sure 99% punters are perfectly courteous and polite with prossies but some guys who tend to mistake good service for something else need a stern reminder that this is a business transaction. If the reminder sounds harsh so much the better. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, the last thing a punter or a prossie need is a troublesome EAS.

agree its her job and whats she has signed up for, but cant be an easy job although well paid  :P

Offline Jimmyredcab

agree its her job and whats she has signed up for, but cant be an easy job although well paid  :P

Being a Nurse in a City center A&E department can't be an easy job, and they don't get £120+ an hour.    :rolleyes:

Offline Daffodil

In a roundabout way I agree with some of their comments.

I don't need a prossie for a friend.
I don't need a prossie for a relationshit.
I don't need a prossie for a confident
I don't need a prossie for a soul mate (whatever that is).
I don't need a prossie for sexting - I prefer the real thing.
I don't fantasise about prossies.

I only need a prossie to give me a great service for the time I paid for and nothing else and just like with any service provider (be it a prossie or a plumber, etc.) I am polite and friendly with them and show common civility. That's as far as I'm willing to take it.

Likewise if I received those pestering texts from prossies wanting my custom again (I think most of us must have received them at one point or another) it really pisses me off. So I can imagine prossies getting pissed of by fluffy types wanting a relationshit with them.

I really can't understand guys thinking prossies would want to get to know you and be friends with you. They are offering a service, you buy it, end of story. If you like the service you may repeat but that's as far as I think it should go. Any more than that and you start going into dodgy territory like EAS.

Exactly my thoughts. I am amazed at the amount of guys who view it differently.

Offline Daffodil

agree its her job and whats she has signed up for, but cant be an easy job although well paid  :P

I don't believe it's a hard "job" and many do worse for a lot less money.

Offline Elisha Joanne

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And it's the law that causes the problem when wg s and /or punters are seen as criminals. No regulations and no protection for anyone. Until if ever it changes both sides are open to danger of violence, robbery and worse. All there is to rely on is instincts and trust.

Offline Andre 3000

This is why I would always say to a fluffy that they should go on places like SAAFE for a weekly reality check. And always keep in mind that this is a money exchange for services nothing more, nothing less.

Yes its fun and the WG's, well most of them are nice, but she wants money from you and you want to have access to her body for an hour or so. Once that business is completed there is no need for contact unless I'm rearranging another meet.

Just as I would be pissed off if a WG was texting me for no reason, I can see why they would be with fluffies and weirdos messaging them out of the blue with non business conversations.

Offline wristjob

Agree with everything Akauya said. You pay for the time in the room, the rest is about arranging. Not sure why you would communicate after. It's not about being hostile or impolite - treat it like your GP/dentist/lawyer.

I don't resent them wanting the money - it's their job and we all want paying for our job. I do resent them for taking the money and not giving me VFM - just like I would any other supplier of goods/services if they supplied me a product that was poor and/or not as described.

Offline Johny Stone

Apart from booking a girl and maybe thanking her after I left, I do not wish to have any other contact with  a wg.
I don't need it, she doesn't need it.

Offline CatBBW

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And it's the law that causes the problem when wg s and /or punters are seen as criminals. No regulations and no protection for anyone. Until if ever it changes both sides are open to danger of violence, robbery and worse. All there is to rely on is instincts and trust.

What has this post got to do with the rest of the thread?

Prostitution is LEGAL. Paying for sex is LEGAL. Being paid for sex is LEGAL.

Still doesn't have anything to do with the thread, though.

Offline Dani

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And it's the law that causes the problem when wg s and /or punters are seen as criminals. No regulations and no protection for anyone. Until if ever it changes both sides are open to danger of violence, robbery and worse. All there is to rely on is instincts and trust.

None of us are seen as criminals unless we work the streets and punters pick up street girls.

what we do is totally legal and what punters do is also totally legal as long as they are not seeing forced or coerced women. :dash: :dash:

Not much hope if people in this industry think what they do is illegal :dash:

It also has nothing to do with some punters thinking prossies are friends.  It has nothing to do with some prossies not wanting to answer texts that are not relevant to their work.  Or letting someone think there is more than there is by allowing these texts.


Offline Elisha Joanne

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I would say most of the uneducated public assume that escorting is just as bad, immoral or illegal as street punting. Going to check into a hotel and telling them your an escort about to start work won't afford any sympathy from them and the way the public's mind set is they may think stalking behaviour is par for the course.
By the law changing I mean legalizing brothels or more simply to allow women to work together in a safer environment. Bringing in regulations and therefore changing public perception is the answer to many of the problems discussed here and on other sites.

Offline pierrot

Theyre always obsessed with so called boundary pushers on there. 

I would say most of the uneducated public assume that escorting is just as bad, immoral or illegal as street punting. Going to check into a hotel and telling them your an escort about to start work won't afford any sympathy from them and the way the public's mind set is they may think stalking behaviour is par for the course.
By the law changing I mean legalizing brothels or more simply to allow women to work together in a safer environment. Bringing in regulations and therefore changing public perception is the answer to many of the problems discussed here and on other sites.

What do you expect the hotel staff to do clap you up to your room and have the reception staff tearful congratulate you that your about to take one for the team ?.

Offline Elisha Joanne

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What do you expect the hotel staff to do clap you up to your room and have the reception staff tearful congratulate you that your about to take one for the team ?.

Pmsl  :lol:

Offline dandaley

Apart from booking a girl and maybe thanking her after I left, I do not wish to have any other contact with  a wg.
I don't need it, she doesn't need it.

+1

quite agree must be fucking well irritating imagine if all your clients, i see 5/6 a day in my sales job started texting you to fucking chat i mean wtf  :unknown:

Offline Cactus

When a prossie contacts me unsolicited saying that I should come see them again, I now respond stating that, "it would be lovely to see them again but since they have made the approach to me, I presume the booking will be off the clock and there won't be a charge".  For some reason it never goes down too well.

I had to block one lass on AW, who I'd see but is now no longer on there, after she kept emailing me asking when I  was going to make a return visit.  She got a response similar to the one above and I got a LOL type response.  Then she did it again, this time I quoted her my outcall rates.  After she did it a third time, I told her straight that I didn't appreciate the unsolicited approaches by her for me to book her and that in this industry it should be the punter approaching the prossie and not vice versa, then advised that I wouldn't be seeing her again and asked that she didn't contact me again, all as politely done as possible I felt.  She then comes back to me, all antsy in two seperate emails saying that it was ok for me to contact her about making a booking so why couldn't she contact me, how I'd jiked about her paying me in the past, blah, blah, blah.  Clearly she didn't appreciate the roles both parties play in this type of transaction and probably for the best that she's no longer advertising.

Offline punk

Who the hell is paying 26k to one pro$$ie a year !!!

dum cunt

notice some of the prossie names sour grapes (hates men)and fat whore(bbw, no your not your a fat sack of lard)_ say's it all really
« Last Edit: August 29, 2014, 06:55:23 PM by punk »

Offline Sparquin

Well, yes I get that, but then why the fuck do they call it GFE? Perhaps I should stick to PSE.

Offline punk

Well, yes I get that, but then why the fuck do they call it GFE? Perhaps I should stick to PSE.

never work that out except with GFE you can kiss them like a girlfriend?they respond like a girlfriend?

Offline CatBBW

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I would say most of the uneducated public assume that escorting is just as bad, immoral or illegal as street punting. Going to check into a hotel and telling them your an escort about to start work won't afford any sympathy from them and the way the public's mind set is they may think stalking behaviour is par for the course.
By the law changing I mean legalizing brothels or more simply to allow women to work together in a safer environment. Bringing in regulations and therefore changing public perception is the answer to many of the problems discussed here and on other sites.

It's still unclear as to how your point is any way connected to the topic :unknown:
« Last Edit: August 30, 2014, 11:52:32 AM by Catherine The Great »


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