When a prossie contacts me unsolicited saying that I should come see them again, I now respond stating that, "it would be lovely to see them again but since they have made the approach to me, I presume the booking will be off the clock and there won't be a charge". For some reason it never goes down too well.
I had to block one lass on AW, who I'd see but is now no longer on there, after she kept emailing me asking when I was going to make a return visit. She got a response similar to the one above and I got a LOL type response. Then she did it again, this time I quoted her my outcall rates. After she did it a third time, I told her straight that I didn't appreciate the unsolicited approaches by her for me to book her and that in this industry it should be the punter approaching the prossie and not vice versa, then advised that I wouldn't be seeing her again and asked that she didn't contact me again, all as politely done as possible I felt. She then comes back to me, all antsy in two seperate emails saying that it was ok for me to contact her about making a booking so why couldn't she contact me, how I'd jiked about her paying me in the past, blah, blah, blah. Clearly she didn't appreciate the roles both parties play in this type of transaction and probably for the best that she's no longer advertising.