Used to be able to do 2 rounds... Now just 1... Old age?

[Jay72]

Having hit 41 this year, I have been shocked to find out that 2 rounds are becoming beyond me - mr floppy ensues after the first. Whats happening to me?!  Any of you gone through that around this age group? Having had a very busy and turing year it might also be the case I'm just knackered.... Thoughts/advice please!

[Matium]

Buy some Viagra.

[ForrestGump]

Having hit 41 this year, I have been shocked to find out that 2 rounds are becoming beyond me - mr floppy ensues after the first. Whats happening to me?!  Any of you gone through that around this age group? Having had a very busy and turing year it might also be the case I'm just knackered.... Thoughts/advice please!

If the rest of you - aside from the "mr floppy" - is ready for more action after round 1 you should consider using ed meds like viagra. But if all of you is spent after round 1 that probably won't help too much. What does your gp say?

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I've very rareley done round two even when younger. It usally is a very good round one and quite quick at that but i've tamed the timings these days..

At 41 shouldn't worry as yet..

FWIW Cilais dosen't help either, had some real problems though with Viagra.

However the only times it has happened are during relationships, and bare back in those relationships.

[threechilliman]

I stick to an hour and one pop at the end. If I pop to soon, I lose interest, simple as that. An hour build up with a girl you've just met produces a huge orgasm for me. I can barely walk when I'm done, which is great, so stick to this routine now

tcm

[Sparquin]

I am also a one shot wonder so I make the most of it by getting every service, position etc. I want leading up to the Big Moment. Quality over quantity.

[nigel4498]

I'm sixty three next month and can still manage two pops in an hour and don't need anything yet to get me rock hard but have had two punts lately that I could only manage one pop so might have to turn to something soon.

[LL]

I only ever cum once and I'm not near forty yet.
To me, cumming twice in an hour would be like taking two shits within the same hour!    The only reason I'd need to do a second shit is if the first shit wasn't satisfying enough.  The only time I have cum twice in the same hour was when the first pop wasn't satisfactory due to me trying to stop myself cumming resulting in a small dribble of jizz rather than a parabola.  After that I was able to cum again within 5 minutes.  I prefer to last for as long as possible and just cum once.

[leedsman]

Well. Twice used to be the average for me. Three time if I really fancied the girl. The most I managed in an hour was 4, a couple of times.

Recently, once seemed enough. Until I realised that it wasn't my libido, it was boredom. Same thing each punt and I noticed the mechanics of it more.

My advice would be to go for fantasies, or girls who you are really really attracted to, get that thrill back that you used to get. I went back to see a girl from a few years ago, that was just my type, and the libido was fully back. I'd not worry about drugs yet, just spend a bit more time planning and picking the girl than you would if you were 20 and would hump a lamppost.

[wristjob]

Used to be 2 then 3-4 years ago I could get hard for the 2nd but couldn't come and probably only stayed hard 10-15 minutes at best. A wuile back I quit the booze and noticed my libido was on the up after 2-3 weeks. Shortly after I had a punt with a hideous creature and managed 2 pops in about 45 minutes. The problem is I now really want a punt a week and cash dictates that's 30 mins - that's the downside.

[JR]

I agree with above posters on several points, it may be a combination of the rest of your life exhausting you leading to a lack of physical capability, a degree of boredom or due in small measure to age. Unfortunately it could also be a combination of all 3.
I would combine most of the above advice - only punt with someone that really floats your boat, if you do drink quite a bit now, try & cut that down & maybe, just maybe, have a small break from punting, leave it longer than usual before your next punt.
If its any consolation when I first met my ex-wife I managed 8 pops in one long session but was 18 at the time, now at age 53 2 pops in an hour is rare and to echo an above poster I go for 2 quality pops in 2 hours as that is what suits me - however a good WG can still get 3 in 2hrs & sometime 2 in 1hr - but that is more down to her being particularly skilled & attractive than any effort on my part 

[GreyDave]

 
Same with me 55 and need a 8hrs plus to refill balls. I now use 25mg on punts and 50mg of Asdas finest for day trips to soho where I aim to shag 3-4 girls though day and pop maybe twice if I am lucky getting up with asda is great but popping is happening less its now more of whos on end of little fella and what we are doing I enjoy the bang on door from the maid saying time is up . I try to control to little fella but alas he controls me 
Its one of those things one miniute your are at parties poping out a flow 3 x in 2hrs now I am happy to pop one after 3 cheap shags. I remember being at a party and plastering a Louisa , steve2   took some snaps as another guy commented that I could of supplied the paste for his wallpapering... now I am lucky if its an eyedrop load
Take it easy and relax I ve found I like the shagging more than the pop at the end now it used to be the other way round

[Jimmyredcab]

I only ever cum once and I'm not near forty yet.
To me, cumming twice in an hour would be like taking two shits within the same hour!   

That is a good analogy --------------------- or like having two dinners in the same hour.   

One pop is enough for me, it has been for many years.   

[Jay72]

Cheers for the advice guys... Think it may be the combination of factors (general tiredness, age) and the advice above on punting only with who you're attracted to makes a lot of sense.

[pokenn]

I'm definitely a one pop in any 8-12 hours now. In my early 20s could easily do 3 times in a night , but those days are long gone. Doesn't bother me much as one pop at the end of the session is fine.

[willbred]

I stick to an hour and one pop at the end. If I pop to soon, I lose interest, simple as that. An hour build up with a girl you've just met produces a huge orgasm for me. I can barely walk when I'm done, which is great, so stick to this routine now

tcm

Whatever I try, I don't seem to be able to cum more than once in an hour. Likewise, I spend the hour building up and finish in style at the end. I use Cialis. I do suspect that it may be partly mental, because a few times, I've had 2 cums in 2 separate hour bookings within a short while of each other. Perhaps the fresh air and a walk helps me?

[Happylad]

One of the biggest enemies of a busy sex life is smoking - particularly cigarette smoking - which causes hardening of the arteries and reduces the blood flow so necessary to the erection.  Once the hardening of the arteries has set in it cannot be reversed and you can only take steps to stop it getting worse by stopping doing whatever causes it.

For those for which this has actually happened the ED drugs are available, but, of course, they only work for the bloke who has the mental stimulus for sex and they won`t do anything for the bloke who is just bored with sex or who simply isn`t turned on by his sexual partner.

[LL]

That is a good analogy --------------------- or like having two dinners in the same hour.   

Finally we agree on something eh Jimmy? 

[James37]

I can just about manage two on a good day with a following wind - but the second one is a bit more of an effort and no where near as enjoyable so I'd rather take my time and have one good quality one. None of us are getting any younger.

[LL]

I can just about manage two on a good day with a following wind

I feel very sorry for the WG if you follow it with wind 

[James37]

I feel very sorry for the WG if you follow it with wind 

It probably wasn't the phrase to use

[galinsoga]

I'm 72 and can only manage 1 pop - a week!
I lie!
Seriously every other day is more like it.  Once a day is possible but I need a lot of stimulation by the lady concerned.  Fortunately I know a lady who can provide that. The only problem I have is getting to see her often enough !!!! (I care - I know fluffy, fluffy) Family issues on my part and work on her part.

I do not take tablets. I tried Viagra once or twice and although they work the gut / head aches are OTT and I had to take other tabs to counter those side effects.  I tried Cialis - much better but I would rather do without unless I am in a situation demanding lots of punter activity eg my week in Thailand last year.

Gali

[Watts.E.Dunn]

FWIW don't overlook the side effects of some drugs, blood pressure ones for instance do have a deleterious effect on ED.  Of course as we age the hormone levels drop as does the effect of hardened arteries and venous problems and penile blood leakage. Also desire has to be that bit better as one poster above has alluded "once i could just shag a lampost"  it's not err, quite the same when we're older. Like the causes of accidents its not just the one thing but a combination of others adding together the wrong way;!

I also think theres an element of punting burnout as we do in the main have a collection of young availabe nubile ladies around more so than most men so perhaps just become that bit jaded perhaps?. Theres not the chase like there once was when younger, it's just a simple cash transaction now.

I have noticed one thing that at times of the month I do feel a lot randier than others, some days I could handle more than just the one punt. Sometimes too mr happy looses interest easily if i should get sidetracked when chatting to a lady and it dosent take that much to loose interest otherwise like "so you don't to DFK like you state on your webshite, and you don't like to be touched here and there and over there no fingers there either then etc etc". That sort of thing makes me loose interest very rapidly;(..

Dosen't help like the other night where there was quite a stress getting to the punt on time etc and all that txting, waiting for directions and other buggering about that does tend to kill the mood a lot. I reckon also that when older we're not switched on that easily anymore, it prolly takes a bit of warmup like it would be nice to do a dinner date then the anticatation does build slower but better, but thats dammed expensive..

Anyway nuff uttered;!..

[Jay72]

Agree on the bit about dinner dates - i wonder myself about doing that. Let's face it with punting you miss the buildup which makes it all the more exciting

[miyagi]

I have been doing some research on this after I came with 2 mins of a blow job...you need  to go with a lady that you have the hots for, take some lotion that will numb you cock or have a wank before you get there or actual in the place as you get there...need to increase your testerone levels so exercise and eat healthy will increase seaman production...lots of bananas and pineapple are good as well as kiwi fruit

is your libido still high?