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Offline AnthG

To be honest I hate it when the Escorts calls you darling.

It just feels so condescending and it gives feelings of 60 year old madam from the 18th century all in one as it is such an outdated word.

Although I have never been called it the girls on RealPunting like to call the guy "Hun". Another word I do not like.

If an Escort is going to call a guy a condescending name why not just call him something like Stallion.

"Hi Stallion would you be up for rebooking me". Sounds much better than "Hi Darling would you be up for rebooking me"

Offline PandorasBox

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To be honest I hate it when the Escorts calls you darling.

It just feels so condescending and it gives feelings of 60 year old madam from the 18th century all in one as it is such an outdated word.

Although I have never been called it the girls on RealPunting like to call the guy "Hun". Another word I do not like.

If an Escort is going to call a guy a condescending name why not just call him something like Stallion.

"Hi Stallion would you be up for rebooking me". Sounds much better than "Hi Darling would you be up for rebooking me"

I HATE the use of the word 'hun'.
I never refer to punters as anything colloquial, slang or even by so-called pet name terms because I myself hate being called 'hun, baby...' etc.
It just sounds so trashy and common. I have been told by punters that it has put them off booking a girl if she emails or texts using words like that.
I don't use them in real-life so why would I use them at work?
It's nice when they email with their name so you can refer to them as that.
Even if every punter appears to be named 'John'.  :rolleyes:

Offline ParisB

 I hate being called hun or babe both in my work and personal life  absolutly hate it i have a name so   use it   (in fact i have 2 so im extra lucky )  but  as a prossie and as the clients paying if he want to call me Harriet Harmen i will oblige happily

i wouldnt call  a client darling  i think its slightly patronsing,   im more likely to say ok mate   :lol:
   
     but one of the best thread on there was the one on the emails and the texts that we all get  i only found it the other night and its so so funny - if you read that you would honestly have a much better idea of what sort of insane request and messages we get from guys    im not sure if it can be posted so so you will have to look for it but is under how not to book an escort , but the whole thread brought back funny memories of  guys asking such questiond and sending stupid and funny texts
 like this one  I'm 16 and in desperate need of a free blowjob."
and  guys who text and you ask then to call and they are like , i cant im driving wtf
   
     

Offline ParisB

because amy like my selfhave  has nothing to hide so her website address and number is on her profile and she is a mod so guys will text and pm her on there   

Looks like they are reading this thread as that has been removed with a message from a mod saying

All i will say is amy there are a shitload more you are missing whilst on holiday.

And second question how can punters text message you?

Offline Matium

I wonder how long it'll be before there's a UK Punting thread on Saafe?

:)

Offline Matium

They have a new thread on there now called "Wirral Waster" where a WG admits she physically assaulted a man "kick his arse" just because he didn't like the look of her and wanted to leave!

Offline AnthG

Someone correct me but isn't what that Escort did similar to what got Boy George in hot water?

Not letting the guy leave is effectively false imprisonment. And assaulting the guy on leaving is that, common assault.

What would have happened if the guy had of not let the Escort leave and then kicked her?

The thing I am surprised about is the lackluster reaction from the other Escort members there to that topic.

If I posted here and said you know what I did yesterday to this Escort I was angry with.......I would be banned and lambasted by every member here and probably reported to the police; and rightly so for it too.

An Escort posts there what happened and its "So hold ya head up ducky!"

Offline Matium

A guy who boasted that he had trapped a WG in his bedroom, refused to pay her and physically assaulted her as she tried to leave would be immediately banned from any forum and would most likely face a charge of physical assault with two years in jail.

It's a tremendous insight into the misanthropic nature of Saafe that not one of the women, not even the moderator, condemned the WG who assaulted the guy.

Offline PandorasBox

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Someone correct me but isn't what that Escort did similar to what got Boy George in hot water?

Not letting the guy leave is effectively false imprisonment. And assaulting the guy on leaving is that, common assault.

What would have happened if the guy had of not let the Escort leave and then kicked her?

The thing I am surprised about is the lackluster reaction from the other Escort members there to that topic.

If I posted here and said you know what I did yesterday to this Escort I was angry with.......I would be banned and lambasted by every member here and probably reported to the police; and rightly so for it too.

An Escort posts there what happened and its "So hold ya head up ducky!"

Unfortunately I think some of the frequent posters on sites like that are the one's who have clearly gotten to the point where they hate their job. So every booking is an inconvenience. That's the impression it gives me.
I've taken self-defence lessons to defend myself should I find myself in an aggressive situation with a punter. Which so far, I haven't had to use. But I must say those methods I was taught would only be used in a real situation.

Yes, I've felt a bit uncomfortable with a punter's attitude towards me a few times. In which case, I refused to see him again. At no point have I thought about kicking someone in the nuts just because they have a shite attitude or they didn't like my appearance.

On SAAFE I think it might be partly a case of some girls fronting and trying to give the impression that they won't be messed with. Which is fair enough, but only with proper justification - as in the WG has been threatened or abused or physically hurt. Everyone deserves to defend themselves in that scenario, not just WGs. Although resorting to violence is not always the best way to deal with things, I feel.

Self-defence is more about disarming your attacker, than just plain hurting him/her.

Offline Louisa Leigh

This is exactly what I do, and I've not had any problems. I do it because there are guys around who make bogus bookings, sometimes in hotel rooms that don't exist. Not prepared to set off without having done my checks.

Same here! I take the guys full name, booking reference number, hotel phone number and room number and call him in his room to confirm before I leave my house for the booking.

Very rarely I go to private houses unless I have met the client as an incall at my flat but if I do I have the same routine, full name and address and check it with the electoral role and or 192.com  :)
Banning reason: Touting + Bad attitude towards punters

Offline Louisa Leigh

Yeah right, they may say that in forums to make themseleves appear like they have a choice, the reality is that they will take the booking, it's like girls saying they don't pick up witheld numbers, try it most pick up, they may play the moral stance on the internet, but when they get the whiff of a £ note reality kicks in.

I say I don't answer witheld numbers and never do  :D
Banning reason: Touting + Bad attitude towards punters

Online James999

I say I don't answer witheld numbers and never do 

You also say you are 35 years of age, and a size 12 , so your track record for speaking the truth is not good  :(

Offline Louisa Leigh

Being one such girl who was only directed towards that site today, I think I can comment...

UKP itself, has a number of punters with large chips on their shoulders so I guess SAAFE will not be any different - WGs with chips on their shoulders.
I've had a look around during today and it's not something I myself would find of much use. As someone else commented, there isn't really anything useful for me in terms of proper guidelines for escorts - seen as I never got given any tips when I started and everything I learned, I learned on my own and with just simple common sense.
I do get the importance of the warnings regarding dodgy punters. But there appears to be mainly 'warnings' on time wasters or blokes that have cancelled or such. I mean, I've had them but I wouldn't post numbers etc on a forum. Having the odd bullshitter and weirdo is part and parcel of the job. The most useful tool a WG will get for dealing with that kind of thing is her own intuition. You can spot them 2 minutes into a phone conversation and even by what they say in emails. I rarely get them any more because I just put the phone down and save the number as DNR.
I've gotten pissed-off about it but posting rants and numbers on forums is just petty.

I haven't joined SAAFE. I may do in the future should I have a real dodgy punter to warn others about. But for me I've always felt like I need to keep a good distance between myself and other WGs. I've heard too many bad stories on what jealousy and competitiveness does to some and I don't want to get involved in it. Kinda scares me.  :rolleyes:

Spot on with some of your points there Pandora. I too learnt everything I know by trial and error back in the day and when I first worked there was no sites like these or if there was I didn't know of them.

I am a member of SAAFE as I am most of these sites as they are all useful in certain ways for info and genuine warnings of violent punters or bad WG providers in my area and also I do try to help new ladies to the business if I can  :)
Banning reason: Touting + Bad attitude towards punters

Offline Louisa Leigh

You also say you are 35 years of age, and a size 12 , so your track record for speaking the truth is not good  :(

Awww I know, its my age chicken and the old memory loss being 70 and all  :D
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Offline PandorasBox

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Spot on with some of your points there Pandora. I too learnt everything I know by trial and error back in the day and when I first worked there was no sites like these or if there was I didn't know of them.

I am a member of SAAFE as I am most of these sites as they are all useful in certain ways for info and genuine warnings of violent punters or bad WG providers in my area and also I do try to help new ladies to the business if I can  :)

I think once I discovered AW, I realised there was a huge 'community' out there and online, of WGs and punters. I know when I came out to my friends about my job, they were really surprised to learn that prostitution goes on behind closed doors and the people involved can be their neighbours and even their friends.

I do think that the online sites are a really huge assistance to both sides. It maintains safety and quality when done well. And as you said, it can also help more serious situations like dangerous punters and equally dangerous WGs.

Offline Louisa Leigh

I think once I discovered AW, I realised there was a huge 'community' out there and online, of WGs and punters. I know when I came out to my friends about my job, they were really surprised to learn that prostitution goes on behind closed doors and the people involved can be their neighbours and even their friends.

I do think that the online sites are a really huge assistance to both sides. It maintains safety and quality when done well. And as you said, it can also help more serious situations like dangerous punters and equally dangerous WGs.

This is true Pandora. I'm lucky in the fact that all my close friends and family know I escort so I don't feel isolated in anyway and feel I am living a secret life.

The bitchy girls in the industry are all a few slices short of a loaf and not representative of just this industry but as we find in every day life too  :(
Banning reason: Touting + Bad attitude towards punters

Offline PandorasBox

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This is true Pandora. I'm lucky in the fact that all my close friends and family know I escort so I don't feel isolated in anyway and feel I am living a secret life.

The bitchy girls in the industry are all a few slices short of a loaf and not representative of just this industry but as we find in every day life too  :(

I think you're right with that description. I've only had two nasty emails from fellow WGs now, which greatly out number the amount of friendly emails I've had. I guess it's just disconcerting when someone goes out of their way to email you and be nasty for no reason.
I will continue to keep email correspondence with the genuinely nice WGs who email me, and try to ignore any of the catty one's that make contact.


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