What Hanna Lorde said 👍🏻
If you’re already bored of the sex with this so called love of your life…….why marry her already knowing your going to cheat on her.
I am not bored with sex with my girlfriend, just that it is the normal kind of sex between partners. the point I was trying to get across, is that after seeing the really filthy Ladies, and enjoying what they offer, How do I ask my Partner to piss all over me and lick my arsehole, Just not going to happen.
I know this site is not for giving advice for personal sexual problems, but quite a few people have been telling me what I should do , so this is my response to them
I think our relationship will be a lot more than just sexual, we are very compatible, I wouldn't be surprised of I would get approval from her, to have sex with other partners, But I cant see this will be a topic I could ever talk about. My partner has been in many abusive relationships, and at the age of 58 has been left with fuck all and virtually homeless and I don't think sex is at all important to her, I think she has sex just to try and please me. I think she is more looking for a stable relationship and some one to look after and care for her, which I do.
I have taken onboard all the comments about giving up punting, and working on the marriage, so I have a lot of serious thinking to do.