Inexperienced - Looking for a WG to develop skills

[Puntingutils]

Background

I am willing to write objective reviews for the future, and happy to answer any questions in my experiences, as you can see in my profile, be assured I'm no leech. So if you are able to help me with this, i'd be appreciative.

Hello everyone, I'm quite inexperienced, so instead of me second guessing myself for future encounters, and with WG's pretending to enjoy the encounter. I'd like to see a WG that will tell me how it is, evaluating my technique and guiding me in correctly performed foreplay, DFK, RO, FS, so I can develop my skills.

Friendly, good english, responsive, good communication skills, experienced, etc... is essential.

After doing research on the forum, I've come across these two WG:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=312130.msg3262153#msg3262153
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=serviceprovider;id=1482

Unfortunately they are both quite far from me at the moment, and one doesn't do FK anymore.

I'd like to see the WG a few times to measure performance, so convenience of location would be great:
From most to least convenient locations would be - Yorkshire(South, West, East, North), East Midlands, Manchester, London.
Price - £130-200ph. I doubt any higher or lower I'd get a better service.

Aesthetics
Sizes 4-12. Slim, curvy, slim thick, pretty much anything goes but refrain from skinny fat/obese individuals.
Age: No preference, how the face looks matters more than a number.
Face: I'm not picky, I'll mainly be going for learning. Just no one looks like the Rupert the mole rat;  bare minimum is decent teeth, and an average face.
Height: I'm short, so any taller than 5'8/9 wouldn't be advantageous imo and instead difficult.

Because there is a range of locations, I'm not sure if I should make multiple threads or if this should be put in the general chat. Any help would be great, or a helper could put this in the most appropriate category.

[Puntingutils]

Forget to mention fingering aswell for the services. Cheers!

[Clitheroelad]

The only technique they are interested in us how quick you open your wallet and how full it is. This isnt Tinder.

[Billy no mates]

I don’t know if you’re serious or not, I hope you are not.

Honestly £150 means you will be told you are the best at everything, just enjoy yourself, do what you want with her (within agreed boundaries), and wait for the right real life girl to experiment and learn.

[Puntingutils]

The only technique they are interested in us how quick you open your wallet and how full it is. This isnt Tinder.

I agree. Tinder also wouldn't have this approach aswell

[Puntingutils]

I don’t know if you’re serious or not, I hope you are not.

Honestly £150 means you will be told you are the best at everything, just enjoy yourself, do what you want with her (within agreed boundaries), and wait for the right real life girl to experiment and learn.

Wdym you hope I'm not serious? I agree with waiting for a girl in RL, but I don't have time for one. Could try a FWB approach, but not sure how successful that'll be. This way seems the most convenient way forward imo, without investing in time and effort for a relationship.

[stevedave]

I was thinking this was a half term wind up, but having seen your review, you do appear to actually be a punter.

I would suggest just contacting a few lasses you like the look/sound of and talking about what you want, simple.

Also - you like size 4-12 but don't like overly slim girls? Size 4 is pushing skeletal I'd say 

[RandomGuy99]

Difficult one.

Explain what you're interested in and see what they say.

I suspect that most won't be interested as people don't like being given negative feedback. However, you can just work on your technique with a few SPs.  SPs will generally tell you you're amazing at everything, but in honesty you know you're not. You can usually tell if an SP is not enjoying something like touching their boobs or fingering - you'll get told no. Usually that is because you're doing it wrong and the SP is finding it uncomfortable or she has already been fingered by 5 other people that day and she is sore.  If you get that feedback then best to follow the instructions from the SP and not to do it.

You could find yourself being played a little with this as the SP may say you need to work on sokething for weeks just to get the bookings from you.

I think it's best not to use paid sex as a way of honing your techique. Women are all different.  What works on one may not work on another.

Just focus on enjoying yourself with the SPs, doing no harm and accept it for what it is.  It's really not about sexually pleasing the SP.  Yes, sometimes that just seems to happen and it's great, but in my experience it is a rare occurrence or maybe my technique is crap. Regardless, I enjoy myself and that is the main thing.  The SP will be happy if she makes you happy and you pay her the right money.

[Puntingutils]

I was thinking this was a half term wind up, but having seen your review, you do appear to actually be a punter.

I would suggest just contacting a few lasses you like the look/sound of and talking about what you want, simple.

Yeah I wouldn't waste mine and anyone's time. I'm sure there's people thinking this is could be a troll post as it's unusual from the lack of threads here. This approach just seems to make the most sense at the current moment.

Also - you like size 4-12 but don't like overly slim girls? Size 4 is pushing skeletal I'd say 

The sizes where generalisations, not to sure if I'm right, but a 5'1 whose size 4 shouldn't be skeletal(I'd hope). Indeed, thanks for the suggestions!

[Puntingutils]

SPs will generally tell you you're amazing at everything, but in honesty you know you're not. You can usually tell if an SP is not enjoying something like touching their boobs or fingering - you'll get told no. Usually that is because you're doing it wrong and the SP is finding it uncomfortable or she has already been fingered by 5 other people that day and she is sore.  If you get that feedback then best to follow the instructions from the SP and not to do it.

I agree, but I'd make clear that I'd still want to know the truth rather than lies. I agree however that doesn't mean my technique is good, just that it's terrible or other factors like you mentioned. I'm sure they are desensitised for doing it all day, so it might be worth looking for someone who does this as a hobby, to increase for a more "authentic approach".

You could find yourself being played a little with this as the SP may say you need to work on sokething for weeks just to get the bookings from you.

Indeed that could be an issue. Would need to find an honest one
  . But making it clear that I'd still see them even If I get better might reduce the chance of getting played around with.

I think it's best not to use paid sex as a way of honing your techique. Women are all different.  What works on one may not work on another.

I was going to mention this, the plan was to see a few different WG to become multifaceted.

Just focus on enjoying yourself with the SPs, doing no harm and accept it for what it is.  It's really not about sexually pleasing the SP.  Yes, sometimes that just seems to happen and it's great, but in my experience it is a rare occurrence or maybe my technique is crap. Regardless, I enjoy myself and that is the main thing.  The SP will be happy if she makes you happy and you pay her the right money.

Indeed, however I'd like to primarily gain skills rather than purley hedonism at the moment.

[RandomGuy99]

Skills will come in time.

Some SPs I've seen did it for a little extra money and fun. They are sometimes the best ones, but rare to find. I used to see a MILF who used to make a booking almost like a date. I'd turn up at 9pm for a 1 hr booking and she'd start with wine and a chat with her sitting on another chair and then the session would start with me stripping her then we'd have an passionate hour of sex and then we'd get dressed and she'd kake me a coffee and we"d have a wind down chat. She was great fun. She was great once she was relaxed into the booking and she liked to be watched by her neighbours while having sex and generally walked around naked the whole time in her flat.

Don't worry about SPs and acquiring skills. It'll just happen naturally as you have more sex. Paid sex is quite different from relationship sex.

[viper13]

I concur with all what's been said on here already, and not sure you will achieve what your looking for with SPs on AW.

Having said that, one comes to mind that might be of some help I don't know, but worth messing her and tell her what you're wanting to achieve from a meet.

I've never seen her myself and don't know what other on here think  .
It's worth sending her a message and see what reply you get

Read her profile and tabs - CONSCIOUS SEXUALITY and TRAINING TO DATE

Like I've said never seen her, she's not my type

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

[Puntingutils]

Skills will come in time.

Don't worry about SPs and acquiring skills. It'll just happen naturally as you have more sex. Paid sex is quite different from relationship sex.

Yeah you are right. It's not like I'm completely clueless, I've  researched and now just need to apply it. It'll come with time. If I cannot find actual reassurance from someone I'll probably continue seeing different SP'S and check if I can get them to orgasm without faking through practice.

[Puntingutils]

I concur with all what's been said on here already, and not sure you will achieve what your looking for with SPs on AW.

Having said that, one comes to mind that might be of some help I don't know, but worth messing her and tell her what you're wanting to achieve from a meet.

I've never seen her myself and don't know what other on here think  .
It's worth sending her a message and see what reply you get

Read her profile and tabs - CONSCIOUS SEXUALITY and TRAINING TO DATE

Like I've said never seen her, she's not my type

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Thank you, viper. Does seem interesting, will on the back burner. Only caveat is that the SP has like 8inches on me 

[Nickfr]

I think that Lacey at Playmates Leeds would be  a good fit for you.

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Usually available weekdays in Leeds (docks area so good for parking).
Very experienced.
Very friendly.
Puts some effort in for the full booking duration and wont be getting dressed and kicking you out if you blow in the first 5mins.
Also easier for you to book through an agency for now as trying to get AW bookings can be a frustrating experience so cut that hassle out for now.

Once you have the hang of it move to AW for some variety and SPs that offer a decent range of services like CIM, anal play etc as those that offer just a sensual GFE are doing fuck all for the money so best not get hooked and locked into one of them early on because it appears to be an easier starting point.

[Puntingutils]

I think that Lacey at Playmates Leeds would be  a good fit for you.


External Link/Members Only

Usually available weekdays in Leeds (docks area so good for parking).
Very experienced.
Very friendly.
Puts some effort in for the full booking duration and wont be getting dressed and kicking you out if you blow in the first 5mins.
Also easier for you to book through an agency for now as trying to get AW bookings can be a frustrating experience so cut that hassle out for now.

Once you have the hang of it move to AW for some variety and SPs that offer a decent range of services like CIM, anal play etc as those that offer just a sensual GFE are doing fuck all for the money so best not get hooked and locked into one of them early on because it appears to be an easier starting point.

Thank you for the suggestion, Nick!

[Night-Owl]

Asking for disaster this.

[Puntingutils]

Asking for disaster this.

How so?

[Punter121212]

You'll need a hooker whose a looker, if shes not worth looking at shes not worth paying for!

So heres a few English Girls who are lookers and straight talkers:

Lucy - External Link/Members Only
Emily- External Link/Members Only
Emilia - External Link/Members Only

tell them what you want and as long as your paying they'll go along with it.

Ive never fucked this one so Im not taking responsibility for her belly bump, but this one advertises something called 'sex school' so may be worth a look (if you dont mind waiting until the bump goes down) External Link/Members Only

Quick note ... from the minute you walk in and hand over the cash, ALL working girls just want you to leave, never forget that. 

[Puntingutils]

You'll need a hooker whose a looker, if shes not worth looking at shes not worth paying for!

So heres a few English Girls who are lookers and straight talkers:

Lucy - External Link/Members Only
Emily- External Link/Members Only
Emilia - External Link/Members Only

tell them what you want and as long as your paying they'll go along with it.

Ive never fucked this one so Im not taking responsibility for her belly bump, but this one advertises something called 'sex school' so may be worth a look (if you dont mind waiting until the bump goes down) External Link/Members Only

Quick note ... from the minute you walk in and hand over the cash, ALL working girls just want you to leave, never forget that. 

Thank you for the first 3 SP'S. I think I'll see Fern once she's off maternity leave and then seem them. Glad to know they say it how it is

[redmist81]

You would probably be better going to gfe shefgield or Manchester you can have 30 mins with your chosen lady an come back later for another go 
It would work out cheaper too

[Colston36]

I am the oldest member here and in 70 years of frolic I have never seen anyone regard sex as a scientific exercise.

I pay for ease variety and fun; yours seems a somewhat joyless approach. But a good place to start is where most do: with porn. That usually gives you a few ideas and hones your wrist action.

[Puntingutils]

I am the oldest member here and in 70 years of frolic I have never seen anyone regard sex as a scientific exercise.

I pay for ease variety and fun; yours seems a somewhat joyless approach. But a good place to start is where most do: with porn. That usually gives you a few ideas and hones your wrist action.

I wouldn't say I'm lacking joy via this approach, just want to develop credence of my skills. Not sure how porn would help, even if we assume amateur content, application>visualization; I'm not completely clueless haha. Thank you for the suggestions nonetheless, may you have another 70 more years of 'frolicing'

[Puntingutils]

You would probably be better going to gfe shefgield or Manchester you can have 30 mins with your chosen lady an come back later for another go 
It would work out cheaper too

Thank you for the suggestion. Not sure if a parlour would be the best approach as they seem to be more in and out, and would most likely not be authentic. Also, contacting a WG so we are on the same page would be best. Perhaps in the future I'll check out GFE - not at the moment.