This poor guy. Gotta feel for him

[Daffodil]

Can't understand why members of UKP want to read such bollocks as fucking not allowed.

She admits to being a stretched mark fatty. Serves her right! 

To better understand the enemy 

[Daffodil]

I'm gonna stick my neck out here and probably get slated but I really disagree with your comment. Like I said before if a woman (and it is usually the woman) gives up her career to have kids then yes of course the man has a duty to provide for her until she is able to go out to work again.

I wasn't a stay at home mum type, but I had no choice while I was in a relationship and looking after kids. I did all the chores, all his washing ironing and preparing meals etc. Sex with him wad seen as another chore way down on the list of my priorities (since he did fuck all in the house).

I knew he was messing about elsewhere, and I was too. It was an ok relationship otherwise but it had to end because sex became an issue between us, and talking to my mates this is a common issue.

So you think the earnings should be spread equally because he's out working, but you're "working" by doing the chores at home (a view I can have sympathy for), but you got pissed off with him because he also wasn't doing the chores? 

So he should work and do chores whilst you only do chores, but the pay spread should be equal? 

Perhaps you mean then you'll have sex with him i.e. for money. Once a prossie always a prossie I guess.

I think you belong on not allowed 

[Sienna_Bronze]

No I don't expect him to come home from work and start doing chores. But watching the baby while I wash up or have a bath and get off the PlayStation is not much to ask really! Expecting me to pick up his dirty laundry and his beer cans is not on and tbh I expect my 10yr old to tidy up after themselves.

I don't like not allowed, i can't stand the feminist view most of them have, i don't even go on there now, i used to as a younger mum though.

[Daffodil]

No I don't expect him to come home from work and start doing chores. But watching the baby while I wash up or have a bath and get off the PlayStation is not much to ask really! Expecting me to pick up his dirty laundry and his beer cans is not on and tbh I expect my 10yr old to tidy up after themselves.

I don't like not allowed, i can't stand the feminist view most of them have, i don't even go on there now, i used to as a younger mum though.

Did you pop in to his place of employment and help out?

[Daffodil]

I tidy the house. A good job takes all of two hours. Watching a child can be difficult, but then part of "watching a child" is going out for walks with it, seeing friends/relatives, popping into coffee shops, etc.

Going to (paying) work, for the other party, involves working steadily from 9-5, or whatever, with a short lunch break and 15 minutes here and there. Also then factor in the commute.

I have no problem with one party staying at home, and one working, with the money split equally, and I don't care which gender does which, but for one to go to work and then come home and work is ridiculous. So you can have a bath 

I imagine this guy of yours tells a very different story 

[Sienna_Bronze]

So you don't think a man should watch his own child while his partner has a bath?!

And have you tried cleaning the house while looking after a small baby who wants feeding every 3-4 hours. I think you are being slightly unfair.

[Daffodil]

So you don't think a man should watch his own child while his partner has a bath?!

And have you tried cleaning the house while looking after a small baby who wants feeding every 3-4 hours. I think you are being slightly unfair.

I think you could take a five minute shower 

Unless you're after "luxury time", so you want to deny him his.

Look, you're a prostitute, so I don't imagine work ethic comes very high up your agenda, and your homelife, as would be expected, sounds pretty dysfunctional.

Being a stay-at-home parent can be hard work, but you also get plenty of "me" time too. Watch the tv, go on the computer, go see friends, etc. If you are unable to organise your life to achieve that then the problem is yours.

You portray this guy as being the cause of all your problems. I believe he would tell a very different story 

[Ali Katt]

So you don't think a man should watch his own child while his partner has a bath?!

And have you tried cleaning the house while looking after a small baby who wants feeding every 3-4 hours. I think you are being slightly unfair.

For a minute there I thought I was still reading not allowed.